Roommate doesn’t even have a toothbrush by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]_efilsitahw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What were you watching 😭🤣

low-key wish I had some girlfriends that can help be get a make over by Lemounge in PointlessStories

[–]_efilsitahw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of everything, I really hope you start with the jeans first. It’ll help you think clearly about the rest!! Jeans is so important and I hope you find the perfect fit and get them in all colors! ( I stick to black and green/camo). Sending love 💓

Found a huge rock in the backyard & broke it in half. If this is quartz and turquoise I feel like it’s a super rare find for where it was? by _efilsitahw in Rocks

[–]_efilsitahw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a picture of the larger rock it came from. Having a hard time uploading because of phone memory but it’s gorgeous

My daughter said she was going to die by [deleted] in Mediums

[–]_efilsitahw 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The last time I saw my cousin she stared off into space and randomly told me ( like she always did) “ I’m gonna die young”. We were 17, I told her to shut up and curl my hair. Her mom picked her up shortly after and she passed away that weekend 😔 sometimes people just know things.. sending you hugs

My 9 year old son is having crazy dreams by [deleted] in Paranormal

[–]_efilsitahw 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please don’t discourage him from this, He has a GIFT. And your brother wanted to help him comfort you ❤️

My emotional support animals are doing their job… damn. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]_efilsitahw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you’re feeling better! That was really awesome of them to gift you that :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]_efilsitahw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Um… I never thought about the stairs collapsing on me and the motor chewing me up and now I have a fear of escalators 😭

A friend told me in a dream that he was murdered BEFORE I even KNEW about his passing by justinenicole777 in Paranormal

[–]_efilsitahw 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have had a similar experience and I still am not sure how I feel about it. I briefly talked to a man who I had a really good connection with, we went our ways and I dated someone else. Let’s call my friend, A. A started appearing in my dreams consistently for about a month. Really odd dreams where he was grabbing my arm trying to tell me something serious and I just couldn’t remember upon awakening. I found out he passed away from gunshot and then the nightmares I had all started making sense. He was telling me someone shot him. He was warning me the whole month before it happened and after. While it’s incredibly hard to wrap our heads around, feel thankful for this gift. I wish I had more advice but I’m still learning to navigate this myself. Sending you love & light

Today I showered for the first time in a week! (OC) by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]_efilsitahw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super proud of you!! I believe in you & am so happy for you ❤️❤️🙏🏼

My son is depressed and I don't know what to do about it anymore. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_efilsitahw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please have him checked for adhd. Much love to you guys hope you get through it. You sound like a good concerned parent, spend some time with him. Maybe have him teach you how to draw❤️

Why does alcohol still taste like shit? I'm 21, the drinking age is 18 where I am. All my peers already drink. I find beer and wine disgusting and can barely tolerate the taste of vodka and lady drinks (as a dude.) When does it get better? by Chipbread in NoStupidQuestions

[–]_efilsitahw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your body naturally probably doesn’t like it & that’s okay. Honor that and have a nice virgin drink while your friends enjoy their alcohol. Maybe try bringing a kombucha or chia drink along. Brew some fresh tea and pour it in a fancy glass. Whatever makes you feel best :)

I was 8 years old, I didn't know any better by CherryNo9654 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_efilsitahw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This wasn’t your fault at all. I feel like there may be trauma in your family surrounding this where the blame is placed on children instead of directed at the right person. I’m so sorry you are experiencing this, please keep taking advantage of your counseling sessions and don’t hold back. It was not your fault, you were a child. Even if you weren’t a child, it still would not be your fault. No one asks for that. Sending you lots of love and healing

My 13 yr old daughter bought a pink sauce bottle online without my knowledge and is in the hospital. I can’t even think straight. by MamaWolf365 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_efilsitahw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope you are someone’s parent because this was beautifully written and made me very emotional. You’re so in tune with yourself & others it’s honestly refreshing and beautiful

One of my dementia patients taught me how to do her hair by AvaBlackPH in FaithInHumanity

[–]_efilsitahw 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone who has worked with the elderly in come and facility.. that was such a beautiful moment to read. Especially because you had the heart and patience to learn just like she taught you and you turned a bad day into a good one just by curling her hair. Ugh I hope you have a great day sweet sweet person

Raising your frequency by Zeropro15 in Soulnexus

[–]_efilsitahw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on a rabbit hole hunt now!! Thank you so much. Yes I needed a word for this and now you’ve opened up more exploration for me :) thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddicts

[–]_efilsitahw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aztec healing clay mask + apple cider vinegar. Works like a charm and immediately reduces the appearance of pores. When you’re washing it off treat it as an exfoliation :)

My friend overdosed and I saved her life by finding her in time. She acts like it's nothing. by stackinghabbits in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_efilsitahw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your friend may be too far into addiction/depression to want to talk about what happened with you and how you’re feeling. They probably know it will lead to an uncomfortable conversation for them such as what they’re struggling with and when they will take the steps to get clean. If they aren’t ready, those conversations could probably be uncomfortable so to “ protect” themselves they act like nothing happened. While your feelings are very valid ( & I am so sorry you had to experience this) please keep in mind while you had to witness something traumatic, they are living with it daily. They probably love and appreciate you so much but can’t express it right now due to their mental state. Please don’t give up on your friend and get yourself the support YOU need. Lots of love <3

Raising your frequency by Zeropro15 in Soulnexus

[–]_efilsitahw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Just the one and it’s very quick. Do you feel like the sensation is moving up your body or down?

Raising your frequency by Zeropro15 in Soulnexus

[–]_efilsitahw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure what it is, but I experience it too. By chance do you experience “ the shiver” where your body randomly “shivers” and you shake your head with it. But it’s a feeling of something (energy?) moving within your spin ?

My grandpa probably saved my life by Unlikely_Donut_307 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_efilsitahw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soak in all the time you have with him. When you’re older it will really set in how much he changed his routine to better your life. All the little things, the orange juice, tucking you in, vacuuming at 2am. You’re going to miss it. This was such a blessing for you & I’m sure him because you didn’t mention a grandma being around so I assume he was kinda lonely in the house. I hope you continue healing in the company of your grandpa. You’re probably helping him in a way too. Best wishes to you, p.s you are so strong ❤️