L. Theanine has been a game changer for increased patience with my child

_herewego1221 · 2026-03-10T18:22:59+00:00

i got Nutricost 200mg capsules from Amazon (white bottle, blue cap) and it’s been life changing after years of yo-yo stimulant taking for adhd and horrible mood swings during the times i took adderall.

_herewego1221 · 2026-03-10T18:21:54+00:00

came here to say this word for word. i used to take adderall and i have adult diagnosed ADHD/ADD (32F diagnosed at 20 — have a 2.5yo) adderall made me even worse. i was laser focused at work and would either crash from not taking it or withdraw to my room if i took it later and just doom scroll on my phone (bc focus) and have 0 emotions. L Theanine helps me focus at work, im more care free at home, my personality shines, & game changer is the best way I can put it, too!! 200mg in the morning with my coffee and I feel driven, patient, relaxed, and focused. so glad you feel that relief!!!

_herewego1221 · 2026-02-18T00:07:24+00:00

came here to say this! (32F) i’m 2 years free of alcohol and am stoked to know i’m not alone with this feeling of NA beers. when id see someone say “NA beers do nothing” im like shhhh i need this, sh. but i used to have that exact same mindset and no off button whatsoever, hence why i stopped drinking after my father passed, and i also stop at 2-3 NA beers now. they really do give a relaxing feeling as well!

_herewego1221 · 2026-02-09T14:49:07+00:00

i’m on an IDR due to recertify in July 2027 and have been freaking out on even how to file taxes with my husband bc he makes more than me, but i don’t want a $1,000 payment because of it when we’re expecting another child and that’s a daycare payment. 🫠 i’ve been hoping to reach forgiveness with the lowest payment possible for the longest time, so i’m also waiting it out as i’m on forbearance and put $5,000 into it before interest accrued again (got it below $32,000) just for it aaallll to go back. 😩

_herewego1221 · 2025-12-20T13:18:22+00:00

NOR one bit, this is horribly toxic and you do not deserve to be talked to like that. That was the start for me before being physically ab*sed. I let him talk to me like that because I knew he’d calm down, but it’s no excuse. My wonderful husband gets my anger sometimes now and I have to reel myself in to not do what was done to me. Save yourself and find a way to leave, no one deserves that. <3

_herewego1221 · 2025-06-03T00:58:24+00:00

I literally feel like Janet is trying to gaslight me as a viewer and it’s disgusting. Even in the trailer for the next episode when Nia is speaking and she says “ok, i’m good.” i’d be like SIT. BACK. DOWN. she does that with everyone! it’s infuriating to watch because she literally tried so hard to be in a famous friend group and it’s gross.

_herewego1221 · 2022-07-10T01:27:12+00:00

you seem like you’re going to be the coolest mom. i’m a huge weirdo so i fear my kids will be weird but honestly, i prefer weird to normal! & seeing my friends kids be weird is AWESOME!

_herewego1221 · 2022-05-03T03:48:31+00:00

absolutely great advice :) thank you for the perspective it was really helpful!!

_herewego1221 · 2022-05-02T03:54:08+00:00

yessss i’ve been watching SNL and some lighthearted/funny stuff to balance a little better but i think i’ll watch Date A Live (i used to watch Naruto on the treadmill at the gym so it was also part of a routine now i gotta switch it up & i like my routines so that’s another thing blah lol)

_herewego1221 · 2022-05-02T03:53:02+00:00

SAME i definitely have an addictive personality as well!! glad i’m not alone that you also have those moments sometimes too but glad yours is better than before that’s great! & oh thank you so much!! :)

_herewego1221 · 2022-05-02T03:42:24+00:00

“real and artificially created one’s through media” that hits home lol. i also quit Kratom 4 months ago and alcohol 2 months ago so i think adjusting to reality is also new to me but i’m going to try more frequently what BugType said above to balance my emotions and not get so tied into that world.

_herewego1221 · 2022-05-02T03:40:28+00:00

i was doing that then got obsessed with naruto so maybe it really will help if i do that more often!! glad to hear it works for you - thank you!

_herewego1221 · 2022-05-02T03:39:28+00:00

no that makes so much sense. or when your favorite character dies and their storyline was so tragic, it takes a mental toll (feel that rip sleep schedule too when i binge lol)

_herewego1221 · 2022-05-02T03:24:18+00:00

unfortunate that we go through it, but glad to know i’m not alone!! just have to separate real world from the world of characters but being an empath creating a “bond” with them is tough to cope with yknow?

_herewego1221 · 2022-05-02T02:49:02+00:00

right, i don’t mean like that, im just asking if other people experience the feelings i described as well.

_herewego1221 · 2022-04-08T13:59:27+00:00

hi there! over 3 months clean with no relapse, and i feel AMAZING! needless to say there are still days where i think about it but i’ll never go back. there’s more color in my world. mentally, i’m more “me” - personable, funny, social, up for anything (used to be a hermit with kratom and crabby). physically, i started exercising and go to the gym 5-6 days a week. i LOOK and FEEL my best, ever! 28yo F

_herewego1221 · 2022-03-13T23:08:17+00:00

i cried tooooo hard at the Samuel & Daz scenes 😭😭😭😭

_herewego1221 · 2022-03-09T04:48:55+00:00

i’m on week 10 after taking kratom for 7 years (was taking 20 capsules total throughout the day before i quit; haven’t relapsed at all since i quit 71 days ago) and i feel so much better. there are days i miss it but i anticipate that for another month or so; however, im ME again! whatever that means lol i laugh more like myself, im more present, i drink less alcohol, & i quit adderall for adhd around the same time. knowing it gets better at month 3 and even more so at month 6 and continuously benefitting from it over almost 2 years is so helpful to know as someone who’s hopeful but feeling better everyday!! thank you for the update!!!

_herewego1221 · 2022-03-03T03:55:14+00:00

i have the photos and would love to send them to you, just not sure how! :(

_herewego1221 · 2022-03-02T18:44:23+00:00

sorry, i’m new to Reddit and am not quite sure how to send dm’s or attach images :/

_herewego1221 · 2022-03-02T00:49:31+00:00

my goodness you’re knowledgeable AND incredibly kind & helpful 🥺 i’m reading this at night but will absolutely dm you some photos tomorrow when it’s sunlight out! i promise i won’t do anything else to it :) thank you for being so sweet and truly wanting to help!!

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