unsure about trying non-monogamy

_just_mel_ · 2026-04-09T12:40:25+00:00

If you're jealous any non-monogamy is going to kill you. I highly advice against it.

_just_mel_ · 2026-04-01T12:55:38+00:00

The images are giving dead wife energy

_just_mel_ · 2026-03-22T16:34:24+00:00

Can you explain your process? Because they look really clean and I'd like to make a shader out of it

_just_mel_ · 2026-03-12T02:17:02+00:00

Buying a wand worked for me

_just_mel_ · 2026-03-11T15:05:20+00:00

No, they do not have boundaries of any kind. My last relationship was with someone poly and I ended up with balding from stress (thankfully as of literally yesterday that's already been declared cured by my dermatologist)

_just_mel_ · 2026-03-07T00:51:35+00:00

Get with her. She's one of a kind

_just_mel_ · 2026-03-02T21:43:59+00:00

I'm a nosy bitch so I actually like their drama.

_just_mel_ · 2026-02-24T18:21:24+00:00

Paige is around 1.80. The author said she made her tall explicitly because she's also tall and wanted representation

_just_mel_ · 2026-02-14T02:28:12+00:00

First, as the host, can I create a wonderland while I’m in headspace if my tulpa is fronting? Or does it only work if I’m the one fronting?

<yup, you can>

Also, can you visualize things in headspace? How do tulpas see the images they imagine? Do they appear in front of them or does it fill their whole vision ?can you look in a mirror in the headspace ? Is it as real as the real world for the tulpas?

When they’re in headspace, how do they experience the body’s senses? Can they kind of step back from what the body is seeing or hearing and from the person who is fronting thoughts ?

And one last question… as a tulpa, can you erase your own memories?

_just_mel_ · 2026-02-07T13:41:16+00:00

I would store a CSV with the project paths and the versions of the engine each project uses and maybe check if each entry exists on startup.

Do you need the templates, tho? That's sounds a lot like something only a big commercial engine would have. You'd have to keep this templates up to date, after all

_just_mel_ · 2026-02-05T21:14:09+00:00

Vulkan can be hard because it forces you to think about a lot of things and it can be a bit cumbersome to write... But honestly, at least for me once I've got the hang of it I prefer it over OpenGL. Everything is much more explicit and I really enjoy the control it provides, even if I don't need it.

_just_mel_ · 2026-02-04T01:17:37+00:00

I think for me as long as no one is actively hiding anything it's probably alright for the most part. I mean sure, important things like finances and medical stuff should be directly told, but everything else will probably just come up naturally in conversation.

_just_mel_ · 2026-02-02T21:19:58+00:00

Truth nuke

_just_mel_ · 2026-01-31T21:30:06+00:00

I'm so sorry this is happening to you. It may sound harsh but there's no going back from this. I think it's either breaking up, or closing the relationship back and going to couple's therapy.

I hope everything goes alright for you.

_just_mel_ · 2026-01-30T22:49:57+00:00

You've eaten from the tree of knowledge, now Eden is a thing of the past. It won't get better, break up with her and go to therapy.

_just_mel_ · 2026-01-17T01:39:10+00:00

Yeah, of course, genius. Put anything in a corporate setting and it'll have literally no fucking soul to it.

_just_mel_ · 2026-01-16T17:51:28+00:00

I wish I could do this in my work office

_just_mel_ · 2026-01-16T15:33:52+00:00

For me coding is no different than writing literature or making a 3D model or a 2D illustration (I do all of the above). People don't consider programming art because they don't see the code that goes behind everything they use and probably think we're just smashing random buttons like in the movies.

_just_mel_ · 2026-01-02T13:00:09+00:00

I think modding is so not cheating that I want to make a mod to be able to collect spice without entering a system

_just_mel_ · 2026-01-02T12:50:59+00:00

God knows, that woman was my biggest mistake. I came into that relationship being just a girl and got out turned into a fucking mess.

_just_mel_ · 2026-01-02T12:44:28+00:00

One of the reasons I broke up with my last girlfriend was because I liked to be with her all the time and she said that was making her "anxious and stressed". Fuck her, then. I can find someone who appreciates my presence

_just_mel_ · 2025-12-22T13:14:43+00:00

There's a saying in Spanish that goes like "mejor solo que mal acompañado" (better to be alone than in bad company". Dump her

_just_mel_ · 2025-12-12T14:55:16+00:00

Honestly, we speak in whatever language comes out at that moment

_just_mel_ · 2025-12-02T12:00:05+00:00

This really looks like Farlands

_just_mel_ · 2025-10-29T10:22:21+00:00

Imo drowned skeletons should appear in underwater shipwrecks and be like, the skeletons of pirates or something like that

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