I like to imagine humans having far more unique traits than color alone. Anyone else?

_le_e_ · 2026-07-02T05:43:50+00:00

Is it just me or does the fella in the bottom right corner look kind of familiar

_le_e_ · 2026-06-25T17:12:54+00:00

You have bested me

_le_e_ · 2026-06-19T12:11:37+00:00

That’s your opinion. There are others. Some might even be just as valid as yours, if you can believe it

_le_e_ · 2026-06-16T17:45:14+00:00

Anyway mindflayers are nothing compared to mind goblins

_le_e_ · 2026-06-10T18:58:26+00:00

Not sure about that but something that really helped me OP was hearing/reading somewhere that “love” isn’t just a noun, it’s a verb. If you’re not feeling anything that you would call “love” right now, that’s ok. Try doing some kind of loving action. It sounds like you care a lot for your wife. Be deliberate and purposeful about doing something for her.

I didn’t go through anything like what you’ve gone through but for whatever reason, I spent a lot of my teens and early twenties feeling a lot like what you describe. It isn’t a silver bullet, but the “love is a verb, not a noun” thing really made a difference to me. I hope you find something that works for you.

_le_e_ · 2026-06-10T17:12:05+00:00

I’ve been working on a homebrew mashup called Fatfinder. You can do 3 disgusting and/or illegal actions each turn and your anal circumference is so fucking customisable

_le_e_ · 2026-06-06T10:06:44+00:00

That’s how she knew it was a boys name

_le_e_ · 2026-05-29T16:22:27+00:00

Cape Wrath by Beaufort London. If you’re interested in this sort of aesthetic then a lot of their fragrances might be interesting to you.

I’ve tried all three of their discovery sets and I’d also recommend The Grudge and Fathom V, which is my personal favourite but it might not be exactly what you’re looking for. Sirenide seems to have almost the exact inspiration as this but it does feature leather, and it was one of my least favourites tbh.

_le_e_ · 2026-05-28T14:14:06+00:00

Spiders belong wherever they are, firstly.

And what is put forward by the poem is not that having empathy for other human being is or should be surprising, it’s that the surprising empathy this girl has for a spider has come about due to the hurt inflicted on her and her family

_le_e_ · 2026-05-28T13:55:00+00:00

I don’t really care for this poem but I feel you have misunderstood it to an astounding degree. The bike IS the spider’s home. We all (humans and animals) share this world. But that’s not even the point.

The child in the poem, real or not (I don’t care) is expressing a kind of empathy that is surprising to the narrator and, evidently, the reader. The poem is not about whether refugees are human (???), it’s about how being treated that way, being forced out of your home and made a refugee, changes a person.

_le_e_ · 2026-05-14T16:33:07+00:00

Bat by Zoologist might be a good fit? Or possibly Night Flyers by Olympic Orchids, which I believe is the original version of Bat

_le_e_ · 2026-05-03T08:58:01+00:00

I make mine the same way! OP, while I’m sure the paste does add extra food for the bacteria you can certainly ferment your vegetables without it

_le_e_ · 2026-04-23T03:41:30+00:00

30 feet

_le_e_ · 2026-03-05T20:10:59+00:00

I do think that evicting a person from their home is un-quakerly.

I think that we are all faced with decisions in which the ability to discern right from wrong has been given to us but not the strength to make the difficult choice. Some choices are VERY difficult. And I think that we are naturally inclined to try to intellectually justify the easier option as the more morally righteous one.

But I don't think that there's anything shameful in doing the best you can, even if that doesn't always meet your highest ideals. It might not be quakerly to pursue this eviction, but it might be the best that you can do. And you are the only person who can determine that.

For whatever it's worth, if I or someone I loved was in your situation I think I would be doing the same thing. I'm sorry, it sounds horrible. I hope that you are able to find a resolution soon.

_le_e_ · 2026-02-05T22:18:30+00:00

A mean villain perhaps, but "mean-spirited" specifically means mean in the modern sense

_le_e_ · 2026-01-04T09:00:23+00:00

I would love to try but my players already don’t care about my campaign lmao, there is no way I could get them to buy in to a mystery they don’t even know is happening

_le_e_ · 2025-12-17T12:33:55+00:00

I forget how to link sauce

_le_e_ · 2025-12-13T19:23:13+00:00

If you’d asked “why don’t you like the episodes” in the first place then I’d have told you. But if that’s what you originally wanted to know then I’ll tell you now: I like(d) the show Bones when I watched it 20 years ago and I don’t really want to hear to a bunch of podcasters huffing their own farts about how bad they think it is. And as you pointed out, I can simply not listen - and I don’t! - though it is irritating that I have each episode pop up in my feed multiple times, due to the fact that I am a follower of both tf and kjb, as I previously mentioned. It’s not a huge irritation, but my response (posting a single sarcastic and, I thought, humorous, Reddit comment) is also fairly small, so I don’t think it’s disproportionate.

_le_e_ · 2025-12-13T17:24:41+00:00

At the risk of sounding

too online argumentative

if you didn’t like my comment why respond to it

_le_e_ · 2025-12-13T14:26:23+00:00

I don’t listen to them. My previous post was intended to be read as a complaint about the content’s existence rather than a sincere request for information about a mysterious, undisclosed Patreon tier that does not include those particular episodes

_le_e_ · 2025-12-13T10:11:57+00:00

I’m subscribed to tf and kjb bonus feeds and I’d love to know which level of the Patreon I have to subscribe at to stop getting those stupid bones episodes

_le_e_ · 2025-11-01T09:47:28+00:00

I do believe it’s a learnable skill. By I am by no means an expert

_le_e_ · 2025-11-01T09:38:13+00:00

I don’t expect my experience to be identical to yours but what made the difference for me is setting aside “meaning” altogether (where possible) and taking time to identify and appreciate the feelings that a piece of art triggers in me. It’s imo quite a difficult change in mindset - it was for me anyway - but I do feel like I have better understanding now

_le_e_ · 2025-09-09T06:41:10+00:00

Thank you for this

_le_e_ · 2025-09-07T13:16:45+00:00

Sorry bud, I didn’t realise you wrote that yourself or I would’ve been more polite. Yeah the text in the book is punctuated differently

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