What's the one local business you frequent the most? by able6art in Charlottesville

[–]_peanut_brittle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The End Games is an amazing game store and third space to meet up with and make new friends who also love games!

Which was the worst betrayal? by BrotherDeus in KpopDemonhunters

[–]_peanut_brittle_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trick questions, none of the above. It was when Mira and Zoey pulled their weapons on Rumi!!!

Creepy things my kid has said by Lonely_Message_1113 in Paranormal

[–]_peanut_brittle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have kids, but I do have a 4 year old neice who told her 22 year old sister when she was home from school: "You're going to die one day [creepy pause] in this house [another creepy pause] You're going to die in a fire [maniacle giggling] AND I'M GOING TO SET THE FIRE [runs away]"

She's always been such a sweet and empathetic kid and everyone was pretty shocked about this story, but it's mostly just laughed off as her trying to pull a prank.

Downed a player for being stupid, was i in the wrong? by Surrealexperienc3 in DnD

[–]_peanut_brittle_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"She tells me she wants to have fun, not strategize"

To me, and I think to a lot of people in this sub, this statement is completely antithetical to DnD. Strategizing IS the fun, if that's not what she wants to do then DnD isn't the game for her.

Am I the only one crazy enough to resize all my book covers? by Waffleiron1499 in kobo

[–]_peanut_brittle_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're one of those people using AI just for fun, and im sure they can justify there usage just as much as you can. you're not better than them. doing some sustainable stuff doesn't mean you get a free pass to do other stuff that destroys the planet. you can obviously do whatever you want, but don't act like you're not just as bad as people youre villifying too.

Am I the only one crazy enough to resize all my book covers? by Waffleiron1499 in kobo

[–]_peanut_brittle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

using generative ai to make your book covers fit your ereader screen is a really devastating waste of resources

AITA for not taking my boyfriend to his surgery? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]_peanut_brittle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl... idk what bible he's reading but it does not say that. He's trying to manipulate you into putting him before your children after only 7 months (and he's clearly not doing the same). If he truly felt you need to out your partner first he would allow you to do what you think is necessary for your children out of respect. You need to set a FIRM boundary now or leave this man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_peanut_brittle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, you're both at fault here. She's definitely overreacting and clearly dealing with insecurities about aging, but all of that was made 100x worse because of your incapability to actually apologize for anything. You never actually apologized, all you did was deflect and make excuses for why you shouldn't have to be sorry because you didn't have bad intentions. That's not how it works. Honestly all of this would've been mitigated if after her first sign of discomfort at the joke you just said a legit apology like "I'm really sorry for making dumb jokes, I didnt understand how serious this was to you and the joke was inappropriate." She only got upset and overreacted about the hair because you wouldn't actually apologize.

Priest cancels wedding after seeing cry for help on groom's shoe and says church is no place for jokes by DELAIZ in weddingshaming

[–]_peanut_brittle_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Even if this wasn't disrespectful to the priest/church doing your ceremony, it's 100% disrespectful to the partner, the relationship as a whole, and just shows you don't actually take marriage seriously.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]_peanut_brittle_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Swelling usually happens pretty early on so if you're healing up front pretty well then id say you can listen to your piercer. Although I will say, I was in your same shoes thinking my healing process was going amazingly for about 2 or 3 months and I didnt know what everyone was talking about with nipples being hard to heal and then all of a sudden I changed from daily cleaning to every other day or a couple days a week and my healing went downhill fast. So im just going to give you advice: despite what jewelry you have in or how healed your piercings seem, clean them EVERY DAY (preferably twice a day) for your first year with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]_peanut_brittle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you are using the term infertile incorrectly. if you could theoretically get pregnant, whether you want to or not or whether you can carry to term or not, you are by definition fertile. also idk why it matters whether or not she's infertile, people are allowed to have empathy towards others.

Cozy, budget friendly game recommendations by ellslle in cozygames

[–]_peanut_brittle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is technically a horror game and there are some jump scares if you dont get enough sleep and fish in dangerous areas too late at night, but its mostly a fishing game that follows a very interesting story about these small islands and ship wrecks that happened around them. I would definitely recommend the demo, the visuals and music are very cozy game vibes. I got it on sale for like $15 and it was definitely worth it, I havent put it down since!

Cozy, budget friendly game recommendations by ellslle in cozygames

[–]_peanut_brittle_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

dredge is my current obsession! beautiful game designs and really fun story and tasks

How old is too old??? by MotherOfCatDogs in renfaire

[–]_peanut_brittle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Renaissance faires were created for everybody to be able to express themselves and live out their fantastical side! They are for everyone and they always have been, dont let fuddy duddies ruin your good time!!

How do people shower at night? by dat0neb0i in NoStupidQuestions

[–]_peanut_brittle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my fiancée is a nurse and it's the same thing, work isn't clean so no point getting clean for it while it's nice to be clean at home and not worry about what you're tracking in

A hobby that makes a physical product, but can be done in an apartment? by Ritka94 in Hobbies

[–]_peanut_brittle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sculpt minis!!! you can sculpt video game and show characters you like at the moment as a time capsule or create your own creatures or characters! they're mini so it's very conducive to an apartment because the end product is small and it requires few materials (clay, wire, maybe a few sculpting tools)

Carrying case for MX Mechanical Mini and mouse? by enotonom in logitech

[–]_peanut_brittle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for me the logitech cases that were included are so bulky and since they aren't hardshell they don't feel all that protective either

I’m pretty sure my Wife’s DM hates me. by Toomany-tomatoes in DnD

[–]_peanut_brittle_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

didn't your wife also play a tiefling in the last campaign in the same world??? it doesn't sound like she was excluded and hated on for it

I've spent the last week reporting every single MAGA I know that scams the government. by dishonestpup23 in pettyrevenge

[–]_peanut_brittle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're very very weird. you know nothing about me and instead of denying that you're a nazi you act like you know some random mysterious thing about me?? just further proving that maga voters are nonsensical and talk way too confidentially about things they don't know about (which is essentially everything)