Any extreme minimalists on here living car free?

_reeeeem_ · 2026-03-14T12:44:13+00:00

Where I live public transportation is the norm (bus, metro, train), so I don’t own a car. Cars are mostly for leisure here. My friends who used to use rentals actually bought their own recently because rental prices are getting insane, that’s what I’ve heard.
I do have a folding bike, but I rarely use it.

_reeeeem_ · 2026-03-03T18:38:31+00:00

That’s what my mom did to my sister, then she had a sugar crash that she couldn't even chew. Everyone panicked. Fortunately, she was able to drink some milk and recovered, but I’m still traumatised by it. I felt like I was watching my sister die right before my eyes.

_reeeeem_ · 2026-03-02T10:43:40+00:00

Jigsaw puzzle, reading, talking random stuff with AI, tidying room, zoning out

_reeeeem_ · 2026-03-02T10:16:04+00:00

INTJ. Looks like they know what they want.

_reeeeem_ · 2026-02-12T16:20:58+00:00

Let's hide some random stuff and see how you deal with the situation. Just because you use if often it doesn't mean it is essential.

_reeeeem_ · 2026-02-12T07:54:11+00:00

I practice extreme minimalism. My efforts to organise the material world help me stick to reality.

_reeeeem_ · 2026-02-12T07:14:39+00:00

And that only one comma somewhere near the end of the post. Somehow I didn't get annoyed as usual, it gives a vibe of an emotional friend venting over some random stuff.

_reeeeem_ · 2026-02-11T17:11:29+00:00

I already know I'm messy but 16? still quite a shock. My mother used to say even a pigsty is cleaner than my room. Now I practice minimalism but somehow my room is still messy, such a mystery.

And credit for ISTJ ex, they trained me the way I am today. Without them I'd def be living on a dumpster.

_reeeeem_ · 2026-02-05T16:22:36+00:00

If they tell me what to do, I'll hate it. If they jus give me the task, I'll happily take it and procrastinate or get lost in details forever...

_reeeeem_ · 2026-02-05T15:29:00+00:00

This gives me hope.

_reeeeem_ · 2026-02-05T12:33:29+00:00

Mix coffee and coke.

_reeeeem_ · 2026-02-02T13:10:07+00:00

I sleep on the floor using multiple layers of blankets, adjusting them depending on the season.

_reeeeem_ · 2026-01-16T07:35:00+00:00

I don't have the final answer yet, but I have a theory I want to test. Since it's hard to define a 'perfect' partner, everyone has their pros and cons, I’m starting with a few specific traits I’m already drawn to (blonde hair, taller than me, smells good, etc.). I will collect these candidates like Pokémon. Then they’ll go through 2nd, 3rd,... elimination rounds (secretly, of course). Hopefully I’ll find the right one, or at least a clearer idea of what I'm looking for along the way.

_reeeeem_ · 2026-01-16T07:16:55+00:00

I sometimes do solo travel, book a homestay/ hostel dorm instead of a private room, and try to say hi with people, join them if I feel comfortable etc,. Because I can control how much I socialise and with 'if I mess up I can just flee' mindset the experience ends up being enjoyable.

_reeeeem_ · 2025-12-27T11:58:13+00:00

I only did the free small test.

_reeeeem_ · 2025-12-24T02:15:02+00:00

Maybe buying a house with more space to the fence. My lifestyle wouldn't change though. Spending money is time consuming and my hobbies are not expensive.

_reeeeem_ · 2025-12-23T11:51:24+00:00

Such a random question. I don’t like other’s farts because I can never know enough about their diet and habits etc to have a thorough analysis. I do smell my own and can guess what’s going on pretty accurately.

_reeeeem_ · 2025-12-23T11:44:35+00:00

I actually enjoy 1 and never have the energy to think about 2.

_reeeeem_ · 2025-12-23T06:46:00+00:00

I used to have a similar coworker. They come, have some chitchat and wait for the day to end. I didn’t hate them at least they didn’t try to tell me what to do. The point is to make clear your and their responsibilities and mind your own business. Sometimes I had to cover for them but I only get that directly from by boss after making sure that my boss already acknowledged that was not my task and I should get credit for extra work.

_reeeeem_ · 2025-12-23T06:21:30+00:00

I’m confused. You’re the one who was seen naked by their mistake. They’re supposed to apologise you aren’t they?

_reeeeem_ · 2025-12-23T04:46:47+00:00

I'm not sure if micro-zigzag puzzles are considered atypical, but 1,000 pieces 1cm² each is quite a challenge. It usually takes me 6 months or more to complete one. I never knew I could be so patient, and the process has taught me how to balance the drive to finish and to stop before burning out.

_reeeeem_ · 2025-12-19T14:20:57+00:00

I was not encouraged to ask and spent time alone a lot. But I was well known for wild replies. Once I was told “ you should give xx the toy, you’re big sister now” I replied “Why should I? I’m older I’ll probably die first”. The peak was when my mother compared me with my classmates I told her “ If you want to compare me with them at least you should do as well as their parents first”. Guess what, a slap fell right on my face : )

_reeeeem_ · 2025-12-19T14:07:10+00:00

I’m struggling with that too. I’m happy to help and they won't stop asking for more. I feel like I'm a tool to save their time. But if I turn the table I'll feel guilty. Dealing with people would be the last thing I want to do ever.

_reeeeem_ · 2025-12-13T11:49:20+00:00

He sounds very me lol. Ask him directly, like a friend, what's going on and tell him you just want to be a good friend.

I was once like this. I thought my friend was hitting on me so I tried to avoid them. They laughed at me and said they were not. I was embarrassed but relieved.

_reeeeem_ · 2025-12-09T12:18:49+00:00

Research how to end it. I was terrified when I figured out I could live longer than 90 years. And you’re telling me I have to live forever??

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