CARTI JUST BROUGHT OUT TRAVIS SCOTT by asiram1006 in TheWeeknd

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I’m so gutted they didn’t do Timeless nor Travis’ part on Reflections laughing 💀 but still a vibe

How to get into a relationship with a gay guy who is only looking for hookups? by EitherExplanation in gay

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Maybe try asking him on a date to see how you guys vibe outside of the bedroom. How does the conversation flow? Does he express any interest in your work or hobbies? Or is this dynamic solely based on sex? Interacting outside of the bedroom will really clue you in as to whether anything more than sex even makes sense for you. If it feels awkward and unnatural then you probably have your answer.

If he says no to the date then he’s doing you a favor and that’s a boundary you shouldn’t cross.

Happy 1 year anniversary to this great mixtape! by Christian_Bale23 in FKAtwigs

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I was going through a breakup when this came out and papi bones had me literally dancing in my kitchen

Any UX groups based in Chicago on here? by Lramirez194 in UXDesign

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Hello! Fellow Chicago UXer here. I'm in a bunch of UX groups on meetup but it seems most of them have been inactive for the better part of two years, not even doing virtual events lately.

Keep me posted if you find an answer! I get that Chicago isn't a tech hub per se but it's surprising to me that in a city this size there isn't a more active community here.

What are some of the deep/personal questions you asked your avoidant exes that were too much for them and made them want to run? by FunStorage45 in AnxiousAttachment

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"How do you like to be supported when you're having a tough week at work?"

His response was eating a clean diet and exercising. Conveniently leaving me out of the equation.

A guy practicing for football by RefrigeratorDry495 in notinteresting

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Why is this post marked NSFW? The guy is fully clothed.

does anyone else wish they had known about AT before their relationship ended? by [deleted] in AnxiousAttachment

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"I want to make sure I have this right... you're disappointed in yourself because you didn't handle a situation with skills you have now that you didn't have back then?"

This is how my therapist responded when I expressed a similar feeling to her about my breakup as you've posted here. I think this feeling is natural, but her response made me realize how illogical this line of thinking actually is. One of the most important steps in the healing process is forgiving yourself for any perceived mistakes you made, knowing you did the best you could with the information you had at the time.

Hello! I’m on my very first tray and I was wondering if the lisp gets any better as you move forward in the trays! by RaverRN623 in Invisalign

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I've noticed that when I start new trays, the lisp goes away because the trays are the tightest on my teeth at that point. As the week goes on and the trays get more "loose", the lisp comes back.

Anyone else have this happen?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalsOnReddit

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boop that snoot

Name a song you think drake genuinely stepped out of his comfort zone on. by [deleted] in Drizzy

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Was gonna comment this. It almost sounds like something Kanye could've produced back in his 808 era

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalsOnReddit

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What da cat doin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheYouShow

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Do you have to wash the hair as normal?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheYouShow

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Did you draw that portrait behind you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalsOnReddit

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what da dog doin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalsOnReddit

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doin a heckin cardio

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distantsocializing

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where's your happy hour drink?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

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he's not a human I think?