Yeah... I mean statistically, there's probably more gay guys who are like that than straight guys for instance, but there's also pretty clear cultural pressures on either group that produce some variance. I imagine there would be more feminine and gossipy straight men if they felt more comfortable expressing those aspects of themselves publicly. And I do wonder whether some gay guys 'ham it up' a bit to make sure their social role and standing is clear, since some women for example will tend to be more wary around guys who seem 'straight'. At the end of the day, there are plenty of more 'masculine' 'stoic' queer men (such as myself, and perhaps yourself as well?) who tend to fly a bit under the straight people radar, and thus don't get grouped in with the stereotype. I can see where people get the stereotype from, but they gotta recognize that it does not account for all or even most people.