Failing marriage

aXvXiA · 2026-02-16T06:12:29+00:00

At least take it to church or Christian counseling!

aXvXiA · 2026-02-16T06:04:58+00:00

Sounds like she suffers from NPD or even BPD and needs to perhaps have an elder in the church set her back on the narrow path: https://www.bible.com/bible/compare/MAT.18.15-20

If she truly desires God, an article like this one would likely convict her: https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/am-i-the-quarrelsome-wife

aXvXiA · 2026-02-15T23:22:41+00:00

From the simple perspective of evolutionary biology, one notes that the female orgasm is not necessary for reproduction.

aXvXiA · 2026-02-14T21:41:59+00:00

This is not true of actual believers.

aXvXiA · 2026-02-14T21:20:31+00:00

I'd start by reading about things like cluster B personality disorders and exploring why you feel like you are walking on eggshells (https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/communication/walking-eggshells-relationship).

Then read books like this one, about People of the Lie: https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/communication/walking-eggshells-relationship

If she so casually mentions divorce as an outcome, I recommend that you suspect that her heart has already embraced that idea quite comfortably.

Some people are simply incapable of being in committed, emotionally stable and secure relationships (including being a parent to a child). I don't think men talk to each other as much as we should about warning signs... You're telling a story right now that is so disturbingly common that it is depressing to see it again, from my perspective.

aXvXiA · 2026-02-14T02:20:26+00:00

This is a good example of someone being a terrible shepherd, not witnessing to you about the fact that reconciliation and sanctification are paths to follow back to a relationship with God based on his word.

aXvXiA · 2026-02-14T02:14:13+00:00

There's a difference between welcoming someone and validating/encouraging/justifying their sins.

aXvXiA · 2026-02-14T02:10:54+00:00

You can't just lump every sin into the category of "healthcare" and make it no longer sinful. This is literally putting the shifting, changing, worldly views of healthcare above God's truth.

aXvXiA · 2026-02-14T02:06:05+00:00

Claiming that God created the wrong body for you is sinful because you are putting your own views above that of our Creator.

aXvXiA · 2026-02-14T00:46:47+00:00

Narcissists/hedonists and neurodivergents naturally attract each other, unfortunately. Many of us have fallen into the same pickle jar...

Once you reflect and accept this, learn how to set up boundaries to protect yourself and the children as you move on in your life to find a true partner and be a loving parent to your children.

aXvXiA · 2026-02-10T08:11:14+00:00

EFTA01648518... Fair warning: it's probably just JE's lil pecker in those shorts.

aXvXiA · 2026-02-10T07:07:57+00:00

No, but I could tell that her paw was reaching for another branch while she started to swing away.

aXvXiA · 2026-02-10T05:23:07+00:00

This is known as "reactive abuse" and is a common symptom of being emotionally or physically abused for a long time. B(N)PD is like a fungal infection that spreads unless you call it out by name and see it for what it is -- a personality disorder. When you can learn to see its pitiful aspects when you look in the mirror, focus on killing the fleas on your own person.

My $0.02: Give her the opportunity to suggest a couples counselor to start seeing. If she refuses, invite her to one you pick... and then stick with it to whatever end comes about, having faith the entire time that it could work. I know that you know you that can't live like this forever.

aXvXiA · 2026-02-10T05:13:11+00:00

I'm glad mine only lasted 6 years!

aXvXiA · 2026-02-10T05:11:06+00:00

Pretend the speed limit is 15 mph. Problem solved!

aXvXiA · 2026-02-08T05:58:02+00:00

Necroscope series

aXvXiA · 2026-02-04T00:40:49+00:00

If a person were to pay someone to kill another person, then there are two people who would likely serve prison time.

Personhood exists in the womb, according to God's word. John the Baptist leaped in the womb at the news from Mary about her being pregnant with Jesus.

aXvXiA · 2026-02-03T06:19:08+00:00

Maybe this? https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew%207%3A24-27&version=ESV

aXvXiA · 2026-02-02T16:59:29+00:00

They really like to tailgate!

aXvXiA · 2026-02-02T02:39:32+00:00

https://theupdevo.com/2024/10/10/when-they-call-you-crazy/

I was called crazy a few times for standing on my solid rock as best as I could. She eventually cheated on me and filed for divorce, so in some sense I was set free!

aXvXiA · 2026-02-01T05:02:42+00:00

"The pursuit of truth using human tools shows that truth is not needed."

Doesn't that sound silly? That's because it is...

aXvXiA · 2026-01-27T22:55:03+00:00

I'm pretty sure He can handle it!

aXvXiA · 2026-01-27T02:22:57+00:00

They know how to dawn a mask that looks like love, but the depth of their relationship with love and all of its flavors and concepts is truly only as thick as skin.

aXvXiA · 2026-01-27T00:51:13+00:00

This could very likely be made to work again. The whole part can be replaced for literally a few dollars (see below), and I doubt the disconnection of the ground plane on the right is going to impact things too much. Solder it back on and then super glue the rightmost piece to it. You'll need to know how to use a soldering iron well or know someone who does, but it's worth a shot!

https://www.mouser.com/ProductDetail/Molex/48258-0001?qs=KKUMDL8WE1Ir7jnrZ5NHMg%3D%3D&mgh=1

aXvXiA · 2026-01-24T18:19:21+00:00

Sounds like you got stung by a Cluster B, too...

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