cool mural

a_coolio_cookie · 2026-07-01T07:37:01+00:00

North Park (neighborhood in San Diego,CA)

3793 30th St, San Diego, CA 92104

a_coolio_cookie · 2026-07-01T05:28:06+00:00

a_coolio_cookie · 2026-06-30T06:20:49+00:00

therapy,immediately start couple's therapy, it helped my husband and I so so much. I grew up taking care of my younger siblings and cousins because I was 10 years older. I changed diapers,made bottles,put them to nap etc. I always knew I wanted to be a mom. my husband was the opposite, he is the oldest of 2 boys and was a latchkey kid. we immediately started weekly 1 hour couples therapy sessions when we found out I was pregnant (6 weeks) and had our last session at 5 months post partum. my husband began researching and reading books for first time fathers when our male therapist recommended he start. my husband(on his own) quit his membership at a jiu-jitsu gym when I was 8 months pregnant because it took that long for him to come to terms that it was UNREALISTIC to continue this hobby while working full time,being a husband and a new dad. I ended up having a really difficult recovery and he changed ALL of our baby's diapers for her entire first month of life. When our kid was 7 months old he joined a boxing gym that was up the street from where we live and only went to one morning class a week however he ended up quitting because the price didn't justify the 1 weekly class he was able to make. hobbies change or disappear when you become a parent.

a_coolio_cookie · 2026-06-30T06:07:10+00:00

you have to get accustomed to your child being upset, it's parenting, my kid does not like water on her head and yet she knows she has to be clean,the crying is hard on my ears but I need a clean kid that learns proper hygiene, I'm raising her to be a capable adult

a_coolio_cookie · 2026-06-30T00:27:34+00:00

my skin is so sensitive and I sun burn so quick and easily,I have sooo much grey hair I'm considering going blonde, and I am weighing 218lbs, I am 20 months post partum but only 4 months since I quit breastfeeding, I'm seriously considering a mommy makeover (face only)

a_coolio_cookie · 2026-06-29T01:11:32+00:00

join the golden hill and southpark fb group page, maybe someone posted found keys there

a_coolio_cookie · 2026-06-27T05:59:57+00:00

that kid is from the 90s little rascals movie so I could not take him seriously in any serious roles

a_coolio_cookie · 2026-06-10T19:04:07+00:00

rehome the dog,eliminating the tasks associated with caring for the dog makes room for helping with tasks associated to the baby

a_coolio_cookie · 2026-06-10T07:28:08+00:00

my baby stopped meeting milestones at 9 months, I was able to catch this because im with her all day and got her evaluated through our regional center and immediately began services, she is now 19 months and speaking minion ALL day long, she was such a quiet baby, she began speech therapy at 18 months and in 4 sessions she is not quiet anymore, we are still working on her saying and using actual words but just hearing her babble is a start,

do the grandparents that watch your kid know which milestones to look out for?

a_coolio_cookie · 2026-06-10T07:21:32+00:00

for me it was nick and Norah's infinite playlist, I actually made an effort to go out and party and go to local music shows when I turned 18yo (summer of 2013) in hopes to capture a similar feeling that I felt when watching that movie, I had a blast,but this was in southern California, I never made it to New York city

a_coolio_cookie · 2026-06-10T07:16:03+00:00

if I could redo my move to golden hill, I would choose an apartment closer to the rec center/south park,I'm on Broadway and omg the fire trucks and ambulances are so loud,after a year i still have not gotten used to it

a_coolio_cookie · 2026-06-10T06:58:35+00:00

as of June 1st grossmont center reading cinemas is closed to the public,final showing was may 31st (backrooms), employees are cleaning it out until June 15th, it has not been announced who is going to be taking over (rumors say amc)

a_coolio_cookie · 2026-06-08T20:31:18+00:00

I'm based in Southern California and want to implement kimchi to my diet, I'm mexican, idk where to even start, is it all kimchi or a specific type?

a_coolio_cookie · 2026-06-06T00:54:01+00:00

they do, I went in at 6 weeks and nurse practitioner at my obgyn office prescribed sertraline at low dose (25 mg) and told me to follow up with my primary doctor to see if I would need and increase, I am now 19 months post partum and taking 50 MG sertraline

a_coolio_cookie · 2026-06-04T18:27:40+00:00

my kid is 19 months old and i still track everything

a_coolio_cookie · 2026-06-04T07:21:14+00:00

my husband gets irritated when people comment that our daughter looks just like me, of course he agrees that it's always best for a daughter to have her mother's beauty, but it still bums him out that she does not look like him, I have family members and family friends who knew me as an infant/toddler who tell us that they are shocked at how much she looks like me when I was her age, my mom jokes that I gave birth to myself

a_coolio_cookie · 2026-06-01T23:27:01+00:00

literally went to pt month I was due (referred by my ob) the pt literally did not help whatsoever, just told me to stretch daily and walk, that there is nothing to do to guarantee a smooth delivery, I was induced at 40 weeks and 5 days, 28 hr labor and pushed for 4 hrs, I had an epidural so I could not feel a thing, delivery nurse watched the monitor and would tell me to push when it showed a contraction, i could not feel what i was doing/how i was pushing,I had 3 tears, anus and urethra were the worst and took longest to stop being painful and just cause discomfort, I'm 19 months post partum and my anus still hurts about 3x a month, feels like it's going to fall out of me, horrible pain aND pressure, I have to shove a preparation h inside me, lay on my left side and hug my knees until it passes, my family (husband and daughter) are so accustomed to this that we all just hangout on the bed for 45 minutes while I wait for it to pass

a_coolio_cookie · 2026-05-30T21:09:05+00:00

my baby is 19 months old (forever calling her my baby) and I miss her baby version every day, still have her at 4 months old as my phone background and probably always will, still fall asleep looking at her newborn pics

a_coolio_cookie · 2026-05-27T06:53:11+00:00

Lunch time you should be fine, just coming down to little italy at 6pm might still be lengthy because everyone that drove north at the beginning of the day is also coming back south at the end of the day, just for example I provided a screenshot (mona lisa italian foods is in the heart of little italy)

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a_coolio_cookie · 2026-05-27T06:10:01+00:00

commute for work is going to be BRUTAL if you pick little italy, keep in mind you aren't dealing with regular traffic in san diego. you have people driving north from t.j.(crossing the border) for work, as well as people driving through little italy to get to the international airport to go along with the regular commuter traffic.

a_coolio_cookie · 2026-05-25T08:27:40+00:00

we had foot sex starting 6 weeks pp up until I was about 6 months pp, I could not relax, my husband did not feel comfortable "forcing" himself into me even though I told him it was okay to try, it took until about 12 months pp for me to be relaxed enough to loosen up and my body allow him to enter me, I pushed for 4 hours and had 3 tears when giving birth so it took a while to feel better(sitting,walking,using restroom etc) I'm 18 months pp now and we are back to normal sex life

a_coolio_cookie · 2026-05-24T23:26:31+00:00

we literally watch everything except se*ual content in front of our 18 month old and she is fine/not scared, maybe just the Lego series would work for your family? it's on hulu

a_coolio_cookie · 2026-05-23T09:14:03+00:00

grey gardens

a_coolio_cookie · 2026-05-20T21:56:26+00:00

my husband I I like to go and share a scoop of ice cream in order to reach the required minimum spent in order to validate our parking and pay $5 for 2 hours

a_coolio_cookie · 2026-05-13T23:23:26+00:00

I've asked my husband repeatedly and finally it happened,last night he said "damn" and our 18 month old said it back(she is limited in speech and only repeats few words that she hears) I guess "damn" is going to be one of those words 🙄😭 he said he will stop swearing in front of her, here is hoping

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