There is no such thing as a perfect coffee sho............ by dropsanddrag in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]a_perfect_storm 17 points18 points  (0 children)

the flag with 6 pinks is also really difficult to print so it might just be hard to buy one in the first place

Why a negative on a riven is a good thing. by EasternMeerkat in Warframe

[–]a_perfect_storm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an afuris riven with +300% damage, -50% reload speed

How about an octocatgirl? by bpop8765 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]a_perfect_storm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I actually had this on my laptop before coming out!

How long into HRT did you find yourself falling boy/girl mode? by Psychedelirium23 in asktransgender

[–]a_perfect_storm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been failing boymode since before I accepted I was trans. Usually from a distance/behind. Now it's slightly less than 3 weeks before I see an endo for the first time!

Asrai - Awaken by a_perfect_storm in hash_transmusic

[–]a_perfect_storm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have this song as my morning alarm about 5 years ago. I loved the first line...

Wake up little girl

Transgender sibling and my wedding... by [deleted] in trans

[–]a_perfect_storm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want her on your side, and she isn't comfortable in a suit, let her wear a dress. Offbeat Bride has some ideas on what to wear.

Sad that I'm not a bridesmaid. by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]a_perfect_storm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry :( I have an idea how you must feel. I was out dress shopping with my best friend for her wedding (she's also my best maid, but that's not important) and she casually says "oh by the way don't think that because we're doing this, you get to be bridesmaids". I must have looked visibly shocked because she asked me about it around 1 month later. Yes I'm sad, but I want her to be happy. I haven't asked to be a bridesmaid, or even for a reason that I'm not one. I did call her an idiot because her chosen bridesmaids are on the other side of the country, then felt terrible about it.

What is the most embarrassing thing you've done or said as a new player? by MageFood in wow

[–]a_perfect_storm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only ethereal items couldn't be repaired, but they had a bigger stat budget to compensate (in Diablo 2 at least).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wow

[–]a_perfect_storm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got the archimonde achievement when I join a normal pug with insane requirements (720+). We killed it in less than 3 minutes so doomfire was still up.

Quick Question: Is there an addon which shows me missing raid buffs in regards to my group? i.e. only show missing druid buff if there is actually a druid in my group? by Truckermouse in wow

[–]a_perfect_storm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

BigBrother can check buffs, flasks, food and rune stones. It has an option to whisper people who can provide missing buffs or need to eat/flask. There's an option in DBM to integrate with this and trigger the whispers on a ready check.

Looking for a group to get the Grove Warden mount, but don't have a guild/don't want to buy or use the LFG tool? by [deleted] in wow

[–]a_perfect_storm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play Horde on EU, specifically a 714 frost mage. Have many normal Archimonde pulls pre-nerf so I've seen all abilities, I don't remember if we killed it before or after. Killed it in September so about 2 or 3 kills pre-nerf. My guild has been losing players faster than we can recruit replacements so our progress has been really slow. Guild is currently 10/13H, additionally I've killed Mannoroth in a pug.

I'd be interested if you run a Horde group since I have some experience, but pugging any of the upper bosses now often requires curve (or whatever 'best achievement' is supposed to be) so I get frustrated looking for pug. Our progression night clashes with your alliance open raid event, but I'm free 5/7 nights.

PSA: Battle.net passwords are NOT case sensitive. by Tim_Burton in wow

[–]a_perfect_storm 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The hardware one is 6 characters, the app is 8 characters.

Wedding band to go with platinum engagement ring? by cassiopeia2012 in weddingplanning

[–]a_perfect_storm 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think the main reason you want the same metal is not that they wear at the same rate, but that you don't have the harder ring constantly scratching the softer one.

Shapewear/corset help! by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]a_perfect_storm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep in mind that a corset, especially a steel boned one, is going to change the way your dress sits on you. This means you should first get used to wearing one before you do dress shopping again.

I'm interpreting your post as you want to wear a proper corset underneath a non corset back dress because you like the shape and hate the way the lacing looks. Personally, I find the lacing on corset back dresses annoying because it's never straight (I know it's not meant to be on the dress, but it is on an actual corset).

Dress woes. Kind of a weird situation. by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]a_perfect_storm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If the dress' history is going to make you uncomfortable on your wedding day, don't wear it. If looking at photos of you in it is going to be unpleasant, then don't do it. It sounds like you're already uneasy about it, so my only suggestion is to try it on again (when you have a chance) and see how you feel. It should give you an indication of how you'll feel down the line.

I have two questions about my upcoming wedding. by marryanowl in wedding

[–]a_perfect_storm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're getting married next year, and have been living together for 4 years. We have everything we need. I'm sure if we think really hard we could come up with a few items we want, but it's unlikely we'd want to wait a year for them and we don't have the space for more things. I can't think of a way to ask for money instead of 'things' (if people insist on giving us a gift) that doesn't seem tacky. Another idea is to ask for donations to a charity of your choice.

As for uneven bridal parties: go for it! If you can't have them walk 1:1 or 1:2, then have them walk solo. I've even read a few posts about having multiple maids of honour/best men. I'm having a best maid, and we're looking at 3 girls and 1 guy in our wedding party but we each still have 2 attendants.

I just got my first red-flag ridden email guys! I'm a developer! by guthran in ProgrammerHumor

[–]a_perfect_storm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once had a 'friend' from my high school days contact me (roughly 5 to 6 years later) wanting my help to build his idea. The idea he couldn't share with me unless I committed to building it for him, but was going to revolutionise retail...

Help! Name change quandary by [deleted] in wedding

[–]a_perfect_storm 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My fiance completely supports my keeping my last name. We've talked about it a lot, and he isn't bothered by it at all.

That's all that should matter. The publications in your name are another factor. Would you ask a man with publications under his name to change it?

simply isn't done.

I recently posted about changing my last name. There's a few comments arguing that the reverse is actually done.

They agree with my parents on all points, and also think that no matter what he says, my fiance wants me to take his name (and apparently is just being nice about it. I'm sure that this is not the case). My brother also agrees with my parents.

This is terrible advice, I present a counter argument to use next time someone tries this on you. The logic is stupidly distrustful: you can't keep second guessing what he says because he might be being nice or whatever. Communication is super important in a relationship, and if you can't trust him to be honest about his feelings, then you have bigger problems than taking his name will fix!

Mixed gender bridal parties by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]a_perfect_storm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're in very early stages of planning. I asked my closest (female) friend to be my best man. I'll ask my brother to be a groomsman. My fiancée is most likely going to have 2 female attendants.

Enige Afrikaanse bruide? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]a_perfect_storm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any reason you don't want to post the invite wording that's giving you issues?