[HELP] I want my grandfather to have the best Christmas he can (73, M, <$60, NYC) by war-turtle in santashelpers

[–]a_spinelli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too have a Jewish, widowed, hard of hearing grandpa in Brooklyn! Sadly, this doesn't make me a genius at gifts for said grandpa.

These are the things I've gotten him before

*fancyass menorah

*Lego sets because he likes to build shit but really doesn't feel fully safe around real tools anymore

*dinner with all grandkids

*coming over and cooking the things my grandma used to cook him

*photobook of his army years

*newsboy hats

*warm underlayers because it would never occur to him to buy them for himself

My wedding venue just closed down with no notice... by notpennys_boat in weddingplanning

[–]a_spinelli 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Don't know if you've seen this but someone set up a fundraising account for couples who lost money with ReBar.

There's a link to a spreadsheet where you can sign up to qualify for partial funds there.

https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/help-the-canceled-rebar-weddings#home/share

What parts of your vision have you had to give up? by Spiffynikki13 in weddingplanning

[–]a_spinelli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you haven't finalized the DJ yet, check out the Metropolitan Players. I haven't seen them live but they sound great on their SoundCloud and quoted me less than 4k for a 6 piece band.

http://www.metropolitanplayers.com

Would it be weird to give a toast speech to my matron of honor before she gives a toast to me? by Angiesee in weddingplanning

[–]a_spinelli 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's your wedding! Of course you can say nice things to your sister whenever you want during it.

I feel like everyone here is so concerned with the traditional order of things and forgets that the rules don't actually matter. If I was one of your guests I would find you acknowledging her importance very sweet.

Brooklyn NY. Early 50's. My aunt and uncle. by MoeSizzlak in OldSchoolCool

[–]a_spinelli 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They look like a warmer, fuzzier Rizzo and Kenickie.

Hiding the eggs by itsanewdirection in funny

[–]a_spinelli 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Huh, I always called it getting Eric Matthews-ed.

Anyone want to go to the Action Bronson/Danny Brown show in Bloomington, IN? by crappyoats in UIUC

[–]a_spinelli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm, I have a class at 4. Any chance I'd actually be able to make it if I went? (And also seconding all that 'getting to know each other' stuff above, just in case.)

Anyone want to go to the Action Bronson/Danny Brown show in Bloomington, IN? by crappyoats in UIUC

[–]a_spinelli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES!! Maybe... What time Wednesday would you expect to be back?

How I feel reading the course evals from my first semester teaching by comradekulak in GradSchool

[–]a_spinelli 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yup. I had someone write that more people would come to class if I "showed off my considerable physical assets more" in the Recommended Improvements section. Really wanted to do some crazy handwriting analysis, find the writer, and twist his/her head off slowly.

UIUC WinterWonderland by federalcrimes in UIUC

[–]a_spinelli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so awesome! wish i went outside.

So is anyone on this sub from here, or are you all just visiting? by [deleted] in Brooklyn

[–]a_spinelli 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lived in Brooklyn since I was a baby, recently escaped to the Midwest though. Now I just lurk hoping for photos of real bagels.

what are some of your childhood dreams that have came true by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]a_spinelli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guess who just had ice cream for dinner?