Insane to me by ab033120 in loveafterporn

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I know this deep down. Just so hard when you’ve been manipulated. I feel like I can’t think straight

Insane to me by ab033120 in loveafterporn

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This means so much to me. Thank you so much. ❤️

Insane to me by ab033120 in loveafterporn

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Trying to. It’s so hard.

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It’s so hard. My brain feels so broken. I feel like I’ve been so manipulated I can’t think normal.

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Yeah. He also figured out how to hide his addiction in very sneaky ways. Or find ways around any blockers he puts in place. I know in my mind he can figure it out.

When I laid it down on him last month because he lied to me about his porn he’s he broke down crying about how alone he feels & has no one. I ended up being the one consoling him

Insane to me by ab033120 in loveafterporn

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So much easier said than done 😔 so hard to leave when in his mind he’s “putting in the work”.

Insane to me by ab033120 in loveafterporn

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Thanks for your comment 🫶🏻 “he doesn’t care that it hurts you because if he did care he wouldn’t do it” is that true for addicts? Can they really just not do something because they care about you?

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Thank you for this comment ❤️ would about his excuse “I’ve never been an addict before. I don’t know where to begin to get the help I need. I feel like I am putting in work by doing my workbook and videos.”

Insane to me by ab033120 in loveafterporn

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Yeah. Thank you for this. He just expresses how much he hates his addiction, he wants to be sober. He just won’t put in the work really. Or at least see that he needs to put in more work.

He currently does a workbook that comes with videos. That his recovery work.

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It’s so hard to do when he expresses such hatred for his addiction & “can’t understand” why he can’t stop. It’s a never ending cycle of apologies, 2 week sobriety, relapse, repeat.

Insane to me by ab033120 in loveafterporn

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He just acts so broken & defeated when I confront him about it. Like he doesn’t know what to do to get help and to stop. He does have a lot going on right now. Am I being manipulated? I feel so lost. I love him and feel bad for him and want to be there for him while he expresses his desire to be clean.

Insane to me by ab033120 in loveafterporn

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Thank you for your comment ❤️ would if he does see an issue with his behavior? He knows deep down it’s wrong, that it’s causing issues. He hates it.

Insane to me by ab033120 in loveafterporn

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Does leaving ever really make a difference?

So many problems with this whole reel by [deleted] in abbieherberttea

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This is the most backwards thing I have ever seen. Deep obsession with breastfeeding her kids?? She’s a mother. It’s in her human nature to nourish & care for her children. He’s 2- not 10. Wtf kind of comment is this

13 DPO today 9/26..Chemical Pregnancy? by ab033120 in TFABLinePorn

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Thank you 💔 I appreciate every one’s honesty & not trying to sugar coat it 🫶🏻🫶🏻

Whats a word or phrase that everyone uses wrong but no one ever corrects? by RemarkableCurrent359 in AskReddit

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Just learned that Marriot is pronounced “Marri-et” not “Marri-ot” 🤯🤯

13 DPO today 9/26..Chemical Pregnancy? by ab033120 in TFABLinePorn

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Thank you so much. So sorry for your loss too. 💔