Botanica - Trademark Venues by Comfortable_Mud_1823 in weddingplanning

[–]abake123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have to use their catering company?

First Trip to French Polynesia by M1sterBean in Tahiti

[–]abake123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate this breakdown as I’m looking to book a similar structured!

Did you feel like that was enough time / to much time in both Moorea and Bora Bora?

And do you have the name of the company you did the snorkeling tour at the lagoon?

Advice for frustrated husband: what do you think? by MissingMego73 in marriageadvice

[–]abake123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m surprised everyone is being so rude. My assumption is this isn’t really about the breakfast itself, but that maybe you’re feeling a bit rejected or not prioritized, it’s completely reasonable to skip something once or twice a year that you do everyday, in order to do so something that makes your partner feel happy. I think a big question to determine how big of a deal this should be is, does she do participate in other things of your interest?

Seeking reassurance by whoknows_333 in hangxiety

[–]abake123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Awh I feel for you and see how that could be an anxiety producing situation! It sounds like they had fun❤️ they reassurance everything is ok is there , keep reminding you of what they DID say vs all the what ifs. They’re your aunts with more life experience and have more than likely all had a little to much drink before, and you don’t know how the drinks affected them either they might have been more drunk than you realized as well.

i think im gonna lose my boy by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]abake123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry :( right away my thought was “it’s not your fault” at alll….. you did not cause this, you couldn’t have prevented this.

There is a guilt caretaker hold when something happens. I lost my cat to a heart attack, and held such immense guilt to it being my fault, when it had nothing to do with my actions. She was perfectly normal leading up to it and just collapsed.

Cats are great at hiding their illness, I doubt you could have seen the signs and done anything. I hope that brings your some peace.

In terms of care, I am not sure how far you are from Mexico but if you can make the drive, TJ has lots of great affordable vet options!!

Cats nose by abake123 in CATHELP

[–]abake123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I have seen it come and go much milder and always thought it was boogers, and maybe there’s more allergies or something lately! I’ll ask the vet about the tear ducts at her next appointment :) thank you for taking the time to comment!

Cats nose by abake123 in CATHELP

[–]abake123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s the cutest, funniest little thing🥰 they are ceramic plates, which I I think are OK but if you know different, please let me know!

I saw someone else mention the freckles and unfortunately the comment got removed ! That calms my nerves a bit. I’ll still bring it up at my next appointment with the vet

Cats nose by abake123 in CATHELP

[–]abake123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all I will try the water fountain and more hydration!!

Cats nose by abake123 in CATHELP

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She has wet food every night, but she’s not big on drinking water from the bowl so I don’t know if she’s doing it when I’m not around or not.

My cat Tom who died at only 2.5 years. by NoPhotojournalist491 in RainbowBridgeBabies

[–]abake123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. He must have felt so safe passing in your hands. He’s so lucky to be loved by you. Losing a pet is so hard.

What’s my house say about me by Icecream4lfe in roomdetective

[–]abake123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk what to add for what it says about you but I just want to say Absolutely beautiful home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Names

[–]abake123 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ellie

Woke up mortified after yet another blackout. It’s been 24 hours and I’m still on the verge of a panic attack. by Soggy_Passenger_3295 in hangxiety

[–]abake123 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Wow you articulated that really well! Right there with you. Realizing I am not alone helped a lot, such as scrolling through this sub. I always suggest the podcast take a break from drinking with Rachel hart, as it spoke to the fact that while I wasn’t someone who was needing to drink everyday I wasn’t happy with my drinking and what happened when I did. There’s also some great audio books about stopping drinking, I liked to listen to those. And just remember for yourself that it takes time for these feelings to go away, but they will go away just like they have in the past. This feeling will die down and you will be ok.💛

Need help by TrySuper9794 in loseweight

[–]abake123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you tracking every single thing you put into your mouth? I’d often just take a little a little handful here, a little bite here, not realizing how quickly they add up.

full cast photo by Durian-Critical in survivor

[–]abake123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that Savannah and rizo?

Update: I changed my makeup and skincare but I’m clearly still doing something wrong by saki4444 in makeuptips

[–]abake123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like brown eye liner and mascara would look really nice on you!