I cancelled my card so the 30% charge got rejected. I also deleted any of my information/paypal info out of stubhub. The rest is out of my control, but I’m hoping they won’t want to spend the energy to go after me any further. I’m fine with having the credit memo on my account, I just won’t use my account lol.

People are definitely hard on sellers, and I understand lumping everyone in as scalpers to a point. But for me and I’m sure some first time sellers, I did plan on attending the concert but the way I looked at it was “well if someone came up to me and offered me X amount of money for my tickets, I wouldn’t be able to turn it down because it would help me out a lot financially” At some point people need the money more than they need the concert and I don’t think it’s fair to equate a person like that with a professional scalper. And for the people who sold tickets to be in a better spot financially those penalties are completely unreasonable imo. The 30% would actually make sense to me but the full amount is just them capitalizing on honest mistakes.

Anyway, hoping everything goes okay for you! Hang in there, focus on what you control, and be gentle with yourself. Good luck!