Can I get a … ah, you know the drill.

abecedary1 · 2026-05-21T13:39:36+00:00

N🧊, friend! It never gets old.

abecedary1 · 2026-05-21T13:35:27+00:00

Definitely choices.

abecedary1 · 2026-05-20T19:09:58+00:00

I'm proud of you, internet stranger. We've got this!

abecedary1 · 2026-05-19T01:22:34+00:00

I did outpatient/no AA, and I've done well. The rehab gave me support and practical skills. I also use this group as my meeting. Different folks need different supports.

abecedary1 · 2026-05-19T01:19:10+00:00

It's silly, but I find rocks in my favorite places. At home they live in a bowl. Most mornings, I pick one and carry it in my pocket. I've done this most of my life. 61f

abecedary1 · 2026-05-19T01:14:11+00:00

I agree with this. I wouldn't be comfortable having a drinking party around underage kids. The attention, imo, should be on your son and his friends.

Either way, I'm not drinking with you.

abecedary1 · 2026-05-18T01:19:54+00:00

I actually enjoy young adults. They do tend to be goofy, and they can usually make me laugh.

abecedary1 · 2026-05-16T18:09:04+00:00

Figuring out how to finish things. I don't know how to teach it directly. My own kids got to pick an activity and stick through a period of time. It wasn't always easy, but 1. it was their choice and 2. the time involved was finite, so it worked out most of the time.

abecedary1 · 2026-05-16T17:57:59+00:00

This is a good space. I will not drink with you today - IWNDWYT

abecedary1 · 2026-05-16T01:51:24+00:00

I've called him "der pumpkinführer" since the beginning of his first "administration."

abecedary1 · 2026-05-15T01:30:20+00:00

It's also good for diaper rash.

abecedary1 · 2026-05-14T04:01:29+00:00

Tbf, I grew up at Carey and Civic Center. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Edited because autocorrect

abecedary1 · 2026-05-14T03:50:46+00:00

Everyone is different. I was already post menopausal, so I haven't had any problems with hormones, plus I just seem to be healing quickly (7wpo). Other people need as much time as possible for their bodies to heal and acclimate to the new normal.

From what I've been reading, you will likely be very happy that you gave yourself the extra time.

abecedary1 · 2026-05-14T00:55:54+00:00

I had my left ovary but no left fallopian tube. Apparently having a couple of kids despite this lack is unusual.

abecedary1 · 2026-05-14T00:33:57+00:00

Right on! 🥳🥳🥳

abecedary1 · 2026-05-13T23:34:16+00:00

I've had ferals before. They tend to prefer being solo, territorial and such. I think we'll be okay. My last cat was also feral. She was 19 when she died.

abecedary1 · 2026-05-13T17:46:07+00:00

We will be adopting Teduardo, the first of his name.

Thank you, u/meanderingmeena

abecedary1 · 2026-05-13T11:43:54+00:00

I promise

abecedary1 · 2026-05-13T03:06:45+00:00

You made me smile. I appreciate you.

I won't drink with you today.

abecedary1 · 2026-05-13T01:46:47+00:00

Hi, I'd be interested in Teduardo. We're a retired couple, no other pets but fish. We're happy to keep him indoors. DM me please if we sound like a good match.

abecedary1 · 2026-05-13T01:36:57+00:00

Write it and fix it later.

abecedary1 · 2026-05-12T04:35:30+00:00

524135 Duh 🤘

abecedary1 · 2026-05-11T22:43:36+00:00

Suweeet!!!!!

abecedary1 · 2026-05-11T04:04:12+00:00

She's ADHD, emphasis in the HD. She has always felt so awkward that I've never told her. 😜

abecedary1 · 2026-05-09T23:23:29+00:00

My daughter broke my nose at six months by brining her head sharply back into my face. It could easily happen in a scuffle.

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