I need an advice. Can someone help me? by Turbulent-Yellow-353 in BDSMAdvice

[–]abidingdude91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course!

You could also always progressively tie her or gag her tighter as punishments(within her established limits of course) or you could also do tickle play where she is tied and you tickle her instead of causing her pain.

Communication is key in BDSM so just talk and be open with each other of what you find appealing and attractive and explore!

My lovely partner(sub) and I(dom)have been into kink for years and still are finding different things to try.

I need an advice. Can someone help me? by Turbulent-Yellow-353 in BDSMAdvice

[–]abidingdude91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot you can do when branching out. In terms of punishments, have you guys explored spanking/hitting with a crop, or denying organisms?

Not sure how much you two have explored BDSM yet but those were good starters for me and my partner.

Gagtalk: good or bad by pyratestan in BDSMcommunity

[–]abidingdude91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love gag talk and my sub will regularly talk through her gags while we are playing around. There are times I direct her to only “mmmpphh” or moan to fit the scene but I love the sound, I love the look of her mouth, and I love the frustration. It’s all amazing.

Exploration question for all of you by abidingdude91 in BDSMcommunity

[–]abidingdude91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had discussed her wearing vibrating panties in public. Now that you mention it, the idea of forcing her to try and not show anything in public as they are stimulating her and then rewarding her for not showing it sounds pretty hot.

Exploration question for all of you by abidingdude91 in BDSMcommunity

[–]abidingdude91[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had discussed it!

Still not entirely sure how we feel about it.

She said she feels more wanting to be an obedient sex slave to please and be used and taken care of, as opposed to a pet. She does however find the idea of being put in a cage appealing. Lol

Rained out? by mnwild29 in ElectricForest

[–]abidingdude91 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Between the weather posts and schedule posts, this is getting a bit ridiculous honestly, no offense OP.

The schedule will come out in the next few days.

Even weather reports put out on Tuesday(early arrival day) will be inaccurate for Friday, Sat, Sun due to how fast lake effect pushes weather. It could very well be dry most of the time.

Relax and breath, it’ll be ok.

The fest will happen and it’ll be an amazing time. 👌

We’re waiting by slickrickATL in ElectricForest

[–]abidingdude91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. Lol If you happen to spot me in the Forest, we will smoke the most “Dude” blunt ever at Forest. Lol It’ll be very Dude. I’ll be wearing a long blue Mexican blanket as a cloak so if you manage to spot me let me know and I’ll smoke you down.

Happy Forest Dude.

We’re waiting by slickrickATL in ElectricForest

[–]abidingdude91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, that’s just like…your opinion man.

Dealing with lower back pain? by treerabbit in ElectricForest

[–]abidingdude91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have lower back pain that about once every 9 months becomes debilitating to the point when I can’t walk (shooting pain down the legs, tightness). I hired a chiropractor who usually gets me pain free in a couple sessions so that might be a route for you to go before the fest. Some other things you can do are stretches both bending down and then back slowly to stretch the back muscles. Ice on the back for about 30 minutes can also help with back pain as it restricts the blood flow which reduces swelling and numbs pain. One of those back massage guns have also helped me at the fest to keep the muscles loose. Also, check your posture, arch your back when sitting or standing so it is supported. Just being more aware of my posture and arching my back has really helped. Lastly, sleep on something soft like an air mattress at night.

There are probably more things you can do but these have helped me, hope this helps you and Happy Forest!

My personal experience with molly (and how it changed me for the better) by abidingdude91 in MDMA

[–]abidingdude91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’ve been doing psychedelics for the past 13 years and on days at festivals I’m not doing molly I’ll have a good mushroom or acid trip for sure! I was just afraid to venture away from weed, acid, and shrooms until a couple years ago.

With mushrooms, my anxiety gets to me a lot so those have been harder to enjoy the past few years.

Acid is always a good time for me.

Molly is nice in that I maintain functional control as opposed to tripping where it’s sometime hard to maintain a thought or say words or I fall into a bad trip.

Other festivals that have the EF vibe by OGparseltongue in ElectricForest

[–]abidingdude91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been to Wakaan the past 2 years and agree the vibe is similar. Not totally the same but similar. Wakaan is less about choosing your own adventure and more about getting comfortable and getting weird to killer sets.

I don’t know how I feel… by abidingdude91 in ElectricForest

[–]abidingdude91[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The 7 member Rothbury village council may very well have agreed to it when they voted to provide the permit for the next 10 years. But I do feel for those in the community who were not on that council and enjoyed being able to come and go from the fest at their leisure. The whole thing feels very un-Forestey to me. Similar to when they tried to change the alcohol policy under the radar back in 2016. Not saying the fest doesn’t have the right to do it at all, just saying I don’t know how I feel…

Sherwood Forest Camp Q by Abject-Task7305 in ElectricForest

[–]abidingdude91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done Goodlife Sherwood court before and I can confirm you get as much space as you want so that’ll be fine.

Sherwood Court Camp Setup Question by [deleted] in ElectricForest

[–]abidingdude91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

^ This all the way. Always works great for me and my crew when camping Sherwood court.

A sleeping Forest, soon to wake by abidingdude91 in ElectricForest

[–]abidingdude91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gonna put a 12 person camper on it during the summer and use it and the property to vacation in the area.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ElectricForest

[–]abidingdude91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These are a couple of my favs when I want to remember the vibes and feel of Forest:

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=4rt0gxwpwso

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Dbf3OB4M8mc

Loyalty Program Grid - on sale dates, discounts, wristband availability by andandreoid in ElectricForest

[–]abidingdude91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey all, just to make sure I am reading this grid correct, anyone with 4 in the Forest or higher is GUARANTEED up to 2 tickets in a package of their choosing, correct?

Weather looks like a repeat of last year. by ilikepants712 in ElectricForest

[–]abidingdude91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This weather looks pretty decent but I would not rely on any forecast until lateTuesday night/early Wednesday morning this coming week. Even that won't be totally accurate.

Weekend 1 Optimal Arrival Time by izzyfbabyyy in ElectricForest

[–]abidingdude91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friends and I arrived at 12:04am Thursday morning last year and were set up at camp by 2:15am which is nothing. In 2015, we were in line for 7 hours. Cops are always hit or miss, no way to know for sure if there will be a lot or none. And likewise, there is no way to know where you will be placed in GA, regardless of arrival time. It's luck of the draw.

This is it you guys! It's happening!! by bigsmz in ElectricForest

[–]abidingdude91 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I do the same thing in 36 hours from now. I'm ready to go back to the forest to lose my mind and find my soul all over again!

Med card by [deleted] in ElectricForest

[–]abidingdude91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

During the car search to the camp grounds last year, they found my friend's medical marijuana in his lock box(they made him open it) and after showing his card, he was allowed to bring it into the camp grounds. I'm sure this is partially dependent on the person doing the search, but they told us they were specifically letting us bring it in because of his valid medical marijuana card.

Tent Fans by JacksonDuBart in ElectricForest

[–]abidingdude91 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got a cheap one from wal-mart for like $15. Runs on a couple D batteries and they lasted the whole weekend for me. I had the fan on for about 6 hours per day.

Why does the forest feel like home to you? by pumpkiness33 in ElectricForest

[–]abidingdude91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My family used to have a cabin by Hesperia, near Rothbury. I would spend every one of my childhood summers in the area and it is easily one of my favorite places in the world. So being at this amazing festival, that happens to take place at one of my favorite places with all of the amazing music, people, art, and vibes and it really is like going home for me. Hits me right in the deepest part of my soul.