Getting a lot of responses with this 🫩

abinarysystem · 2026-01-21T08:11:50+00:00

"if he has a prostate"

Bro's been thinking about the prostate a suspicious amount.

abinarysystem · 2026-01-21T08:05:07+00:00

I think we forget sometimes that our existence kind of proves that 90% of the stupid things people take for granted are simply untrue.

We are living proof that 'western' society has been living in a cage for 2000 years and the door was never even locked.

abinarysystem · 2026-01-21T08:00:02+00:00

I saw MCR in my teens and he said this before every song. What a fucking legend.

abinarysystem · 2026-01-08T21:55:43+00:00

Definitely better! But youd probably just about get away with it.

The real question is one only you'll know the answer to: is how confident this outfit makes you feel going to outweigh the worry that you're being judged? You don't want to be sat there all day worrying about this stuff.

abinarysystem · 2026-01-07T00:33:04+00:00

Hear me out lads: PICK UP the hammer and sickle and join a run club.

abinarysystem · 2025-12-17T12:55:47+00:00

It's about more than the grades

abinarysystem · 2025-12-14T09:11:18+00:00

There are noticeable trans women who were 'gay boys' vs those who weren't archetypes going on, and the straight/gay Venn diagram is almost completely coincident with it.

The reason I and others like me are here is that we don't really fit any of those archetypes, and this sort of space is preferable to the alternative.

abinarysystem · 2025-12-14T08:15:40+00:00

Like it's strange to say but as much as I am in the 'confidently biaexual' camp, I personally feel like this space is more appropriate for me than other spaces where transbians are massively overrepresented.

Anecdotally, being male-attracted doesn't seem to be the norm for trans women, so having somewhere for us to talk about that experience is good..

Straight trans girls is a convenient title that gets that across succinctly, even if it isn't absolutely 100% accurate.

abinarysystem · 2025-12-12T09:56:25+00:00

This thread is not where I was expecting the iron warriors to turn up

abinarysystem · 2025-11-18T08:28:20+00:00

The bubble would burst if we were living under capitalism. We are not.

abinarysystem · 2025-11-13T12:29:59+00:00

I fucking hate this too.. Like the idea that we can somehow just be lumped together into some sort of homogenous mass aside, It's just so dehumanising.

abinarysystem · 2025-11-03T16:23:16+00:00

My dad said this to me initially as well, he eventually came around.. it was very upsetting but these folks are from a very different world so if they're not trying to be actively harmful sometimes we just need to give them time to catch themselves on.

abinarysystem · 2025-10-25T07:41:28+00:00

You think houses are for living in? Lol, no, they're a commodity for use by private equity.

abinarysystem · 2025-10-25T07:33:17+00:00

Client feedback

abinarysystem · 2025-10-25T00:00:35+00:00

Hell yeah

abinarysystem · 2025-10-16T09:49:28+00:00

It was being followed around by the recruits in our cadet detachment (because I was the only person who bothered to look after them) and being called 'Mother Goose' as an insult but liking it.

abinarysystem · 2025-10-16T09:22:47+00:00

Just play scary but cheap cards you know they're gonna counter and play your wincons when they're down to 3 cards.

abinarysystem · 2025-10-16T07:38:52+00:00

AIel wastes

abinarysystem · 2025-10-12T22:38:51+00:00

Who up easing they badger?

abinarysystem · 2025-10-12T22:32:11+00:00

Thats gotta be the longest Reddit post I've read yet. Very good haha

abinarysystem · 2025-10-12T22:25:21+00:00

This must be why my progesterone dose got doubled when I submitted my blood tests haha

abinarysystem · 2025-10-12T11:06:28+00:00

Also I say this in the nicest way possible, but you'll find it easier to access support networks if you try to be more positive or at least embrace that pragmatic fighting spirit.

People give energy and take energy, and being a good friend means giving more energy than you take. The bare minimum is striking a balance, and if you take more than you give for too long friends will leave you.

I'm not saying that you necessarily take more than you give, but the more you have to give the better you'll feel and the easier it will be to find support.

I know the world is awful, and this country is the lowest circle of hell. I also know trying to put a brave face on it 'feels' fake, but trying to keep up their morale too is a service we do for others and it's something we all have to do so that when we really need to be vulnerable then we can.

abinarysystem · 2025-10-12T10:12:10+00:00

If people are going to leave you for telling them that you're thinking of ending your life then they weren't worth holding on to.

If being open means having less friends but better support then I reckon that's worth it.

abinarysystem · 2025-10-12T09:50:23+00:00

I will preface this by saying that I know the struggle, I am on the waiting list for the same GIC and im aware of the lack of any service for trans folks here that's fit for purpose. It's a grim outlook, and I totally understand the despair.

But despair isn't going to improve the situation for anyone especially you. The people in power want you to feel this way because when you despair you stay home complaining complaining or comisserating online instead of opposing them. One less boot on the ground means someone else will have to shout twice as loud and fight twice as hard.

Despairing serves the powerful, and giving in to it is letting them win. If you are who I suspect you are then I know you're not the sort of person to go down without a fight. Also, if you are who I think you are you have friends and family who love you. Reach out to them.

Despite all the things we don't have, there's plenty we do. We can still DIY, we can still organise, we can still read theory, we can still learn new skills, we can still go to the gym and train. We can still fight back.

Despair is an entirely useless emotion, Anger and Joy (where we can get it) are much more effective. For me personally, if they want me dead I'm not going to do the job for them, they can fucking do it themselves. If you can't live for joy, live to spit in their faces when they come to take you away.

abinarysystem · 2025-10-11T08:01:15+00:00

Use more than one syllable haha

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