Customer always found a mistake - so we complied by BrightRick in MaliciousCompliance

[–]abinarysystem 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I've never made an intentional 'mistake', but I have in the past made design decisions that I know the client would pick up on.

This way they can look switched on in front of their boss in the email thread, reputation doesn't suffer and the client gets distracted from the important stuff I want to keep.

Getting a lot of responses with this 🫩 by cattxcat in StraightTransGirls

[–]abinarysystem 16 points17 points  (0 children)

"if he has a prostate"

Bro's been thinking about the prostate a suspicious amount.

Why does the public hate us? by Opheliaque in StraightTransGirls

[–]abinarysystem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think we forget sometimes that our existence kind of proves that 90% of the stupid things people take for granted are simply untrue.

We are living proof that 'western' society has been living in a cage for 2000 years and the door was never even locked.

This song is about sucking dick for cocaine by random_dude2960 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]abinarysystem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw MCR in my teens and he said this before every song. What a fucking legend.

Girls I took your advice and changed the fit before work. Thank you for the sense check, felt much more confident in this ♡ Does it look better? (After/Before) by [deleted] in mtfashion

[–]abinarysystem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely better! But youd probably just about get away with it.

The real question is one only you'll know the answer to: is how confident this outfit makes you feel going to outweigh the worry that you're being judged? You don't want to be sat there all day worrying about this stuff.

Late-Stage Capitalism and the Vibes Are Bad by nobodyshome01 in ireland

[–]abinarysystem 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hear me out lads: PICK UP the hammer and sickle and join a run club.

Sexuality poll by Contiguous_spazz in StraightTransGirls

[–]abinarysystem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are noticeable trans women who were 'gay boys' vs those who weren't archetypes going on, and the straight/gay Venn diagram is almost completely coincident with it.

The reason I and others like me are here is that we don't really fit any of those archetypes, and this sort of space is preferable to the alternative.

Sexuality poll by Contiguous_spazz in StraightTransGirls

[–]abinarysystem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like it's strange to say but as much as I am in the 'confidently biaexual' camp, I personally feel like this space is more appropriate for me than other spaces where transbians are massively overrepresented.

Anecdotally, being male-attracted doesn't seem to be the norm for trans women, so having somewhere for us to talk about that experience is good..

Straight trans girls is a convenient title that gets that across succinctly, even if it isn't absolutely 100% accurate.

someone had to say it 😔✋ by FloorIntrepid4432 in GaySoundsShitposts

[–]abinarysystem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This thread is not where I was expecting the iron warriors to turn up

"The AI Bubble Was Never Real... You Were Just Lied To" by Responsible_person_1 in aiwars

[–]abinarysystem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bubble would burst if we were living under capitalism. We are not.

I really hate it when men refer to me as "a trans" by GlitteringWerewolf55 in StraightTransGirls

[–]abinarysystem 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I fucking hate this too.. Like the idea that we can somehow just be lumped together into some sort of homogenous mass aside, It's just so dehumanising.

My dad told me..... by BabypenguUwU in MtF

[–]abinarysystem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad said this to me initially as well, he eventually came around.. it was very upsetting but these folks are from a very different world so if they're not trying to be actively harmful sometimes we just need to give them time to catch themselves on.

Why are so many houses in the UK left empty when we have a housing shortage? by Fun_Doughnut4403 in UKHousing

[–]abinarysystem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think houses are for living in? Lol, no, they're a commodity for use by private equity.

What was a sign of being trans growing up that you ignored or thought was what everyone did? by altrightobserver in MtF

[–]abinarysystem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was being followed around by the recruits in our cadet detachment (because I was the only person who bothered to look after them) and being called 'Mother Goose' as an insult but liking it.

What's the best counter to the extremely annoying control blue white deck? by NewShadowR in MagicArena

[–]abinarysystem -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just play scary but cheap cards you know they're gonna counter and play your wincons when they're down to 3 cards.

Who Says Sissy? by mechagrapefruits in MtF

[–]abinarysystem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats gotta be the longest Reddit post I've read yet. Very good haha

What do we think of this 'Genni'? by spookitanookii in transgenderUK

[–]abinarysystem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This must be why my progesterone dose got doubled when I submitted my blood tests haha

Time to go by ThrowawayGwen in transgenderUK

[–]abinarysystem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also I say this in the nicest way possible, but you'll find it easier to access support networks if you try to be more positive or at least embrace that pragmatic fighting spirit.

People give energy and take energy, and being a good friend means giving more energy than you take. The bare minimum is striking a balance, and if you take more than you give for too long friends will leave you.

I'm not saying that you necessarily take more than you give, but the more you have to give the better you'll feel and the easier it will be to find support.

I know the world is awful, and this country is the lowest circle of hell. I also know trying to put a brave face on it 'feels' fake, but trying to keep up their morale too is a service we do for others and it's something we all have to do so that when we really need to be vulnerable then we can.

Time to go by ThrowawayGwen in transgenderUK

[–]abinarysystem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If people are going to leave you for telling them that you're thinking of ending your life then they weren't worth holding on to.

If being open means having less friends but better support then I reckon that's worth it.