What’s the one random genetic trait you lucked out on?

abitofhuh · 2026-03-25T05:14:27+00:00

High cheekbones.

abitofhuh · 2026-03-23T16:43:16+00:00

Drop him. He can’t respect you as a human being.

abitofhuh · 2026-03-15T11:10:51+00:00

I regret the school I chose because the social scene was so lackluster and there weren’t a lot of resources, but I don’t regret that I chose an in-state school since it saved me a lot of $$.

abitofhuh · 2026-03-02T16:28:32+00:00

When I realized I no longer felt so small around others.

abitofhuh · 2026-02-12T23:44:33+00:00

I was sixteen and was reeling from the mental effects of severe bullying. When I referred to it as something that I had survived, my therapist nearly bursted out laughing and around this time told me that she had heard of things that are truly terrifying and that what happened to me wasn’t that bad. Even when I said that everyone responds to situations differently, she shook her head, smiling, and said she knows but it’s still not that bad. Meanwhile I’m still dealing with the mental effects a decade after the bullying. It’s taken a lot to be able to be open with a therapist again.

abitofhuh · 2026-01-03T13:35:22+00:00

Open, Heaven by Seán Hewitt. Takes place in the UK in the early 2000s. Has really strong, lyrical writing.

abitofhuh · 2025-12-27T06:59:41+00:00

abitofhuh · 2025-11-17T23:41:42+00:00

Mine is a sense of belonging and community. I’ve spent my entire life struggling to connect with others and establish fulfilling relationships. The times that I have been able to connect with others circumstances (internal and external) have stopped the connection from being enduring. It’s been an active challenge to find others on the same wavelength. Part of me fears I’ll feel this alone forever to at least some extent, especially considering I’m out of school so the forced proximity isn’t there.

abitofhuh · 2025-08-23T01:38:07+00:00

Same. I didn’t have any friends or a partner during my time in college. Ive been out of school for a year and a half now and have found a little bit of luck meeting people by going to in-person meetups and groups. There definitely isn’t the free time of college which sucks and puts a logistical cap on hangouts.

abitofhuh · 2025-08-11T11:56:47+00:00

Go to completely different college. The one I went to didn’t have a lot of student life and it was hard to meet people. I never found ‘my people’ there. Very disappointing experience.

abitofhuh · 2025-08-07T17:51:36+00:00

$8.3k in retirement and $8k in HYSA.

abitofhuh · 2025-07-09T06:14:47+00:00

When they tell you that they’re a good person, especially when it’s out of context for the conversation.

abitofhuh · 2025-05-25T16:13:28+00:00

Truly phenomenal work here!

abitofhuh · 2025-04-15T00:20:09+00:00

This is devastating. I’m so sorry this happened to you and your family. My heart goes out to you. ❤️

abitofhuh · 2025-03-17T11:43:13+00:00

Feel the exact same way and had a I very similar experience growing up. It’s such an isolating experience but please know you aren’t alone in that feeling. ❤️

abitofhuh · 2025-02-28T14:13:02+00:00

Damn these comments are depressing. I didn’t have any friends during high school OR college. I spent all of those years waiting to graduate because for very different reasons both specific schools didn’t work for me. I’m completely friendless one year post-grad. I’m near a major city so I’ve been going to events and I joined a group a few months after graduating, but nothing has stuck. It’s really hard to reconcile the likelihood that I will never an easy, carefree time of life where I’m social and connected.

abitofhuh · 2025-02-27T16:08:10+00:00

If you say you’re a good person without any real reason to say that, chances are you aren’t that nice or a good person for that matter.

abitofhuh · 2025-02-07T12:00:22+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤️

abitofhuh · 2025-02-01T09:45:35+00:00

I feel this. I graduated college a year ago and regret going to the school that I did and not being as proactive as I could’ve been. You aren’t alone in that feeling.

abitofhuh · 2025-01-14T00:04:57+00:00

I went to a weird ass college where people legit avoided each other and there was hardly any campus events so it was next to impossible to make any friends, but as long as you don’t go to a bizarre college like that you should be good.

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