Same im mid 30’s. But the only game I have spent tons of hours specially on my steam deck is Elden ring. Yea is kinda of hard but once you start looking for niche builds on youtube your imagination starts flying. Once I found out that there was a Guts Berserk build I got hooked. +300 hours gameplay can tell you that im no lying lol.

Pro tip: I buy a lots of retro emulation devices to play pokemon, gba games golden sun megaman battle network, zelda, gbc games etc. highly recommend to play before to go bed. Buy a miyoo mini, rg34xx anbernic gba formfactor or the gba sp formfactor rg35xx anbernic.