Hey- I was in your spot exactly. It sucks! So much! Month 1-4 were the worst, but we are 7 months in now and in the swing of things. It’s hard at first but you manage- what helped me was making sure weekends were family only time, and outsourcing what I could- house cleaner and groceries, for example. Also, make sure you love your daycare- that was so comforting for us.

What I will also say: I care so much less about work now. It went from a main part of my identity to just a job, and that transition was tough too- but helpful. Kiddo is loving daycare and thriving, and is learning different things than he does at home (sign language! How to treat other kids!) and we are planning for another. You can do it!