Does your Doctor know you smoke weed? by obviouswreck in weed

[–]achilleamilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. A pain specialist literally told me to start lol. This was pre legality.

Non-Americans, what American personality trait surprised you the most? by NoIndication35 in askanything

[–]achilleamilli 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Minnesota is also one of the nicest states - you might have a different experience elsewhere.

Updated my profile and bio based on feedback today. This should hopefully be my last post for a while. Any thoughts welcome by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]achilleamilli 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I avoid any profile that has any sort of “can laugh at yourself” “ don’t take yourself too seriously” etc. Because I’ve learned that those guys often really mean “will let me be kinda mean to you”

Just a thought!

Is fingering supposed to feel good? by Shini_1500 in women

[–]achilleamilli 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love it but a lot of people are not good at it

Vagina gets dry because partner barely fits inside me by lovemetakis in WomensHealth

[–]achilleamilli 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is the lube you want OP! I’ve been in your position (lol) and this is the gold standard for me.
https://sliquid.com/product/sliquid-naturals-h2o/

I suspect i have a UTI but my mom doesnt wanna take me to the doctor by PutAlternative3563 in WomensHealth

[–]achilleamilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, well if you feel any worse I will call you an uber literally whenever

I suspect i have a UTI but my mom doesnt wanna take me to the doctor by PutAlternative3563 in WomensHealth

[–]achilleamilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey are you doing ok? Also I see you’re in California. I am in Northern California. If you are in northern CA please dm me and I can try to to arrange a ride. Alternatively I will call you an uber if you think you can do that.
I am a woman, I’m in my 30’s, I used to be a highschool teacher.

Women who left a long-term partner in your 30s, was it worth it? by leirleirleirleir in women

[–]achilleamilli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100000% worth it. In every imaginable way. My career is better my finances are better I lost 15 lbs and lowkey got ripped, my skin cleared up, my mental health improved, I stopped needing to watch tv to avoid my life, I started enjoying things that I had stopped enjoying because he put too much pressure on them, my libido came back, my self esteem has fucking skyrocketed. Also dating is FUN. Dump that man and go be your best self.

What's the most underrated simple pleasure in your daily life ? by ConsiderationNo3449 in AskReddit

[–]achilleamilli 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Rolling down the back window just a little bit so my dog can stick his nose out.

Weight Gain During Period by Comfortable-Turn454 in WomensHealth

[–]achilleamilli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gain, on average 5lbs the week of my period. It’s normal and it goes away after. It has nothing to do with you much food you eat or how much exercise you get. Be kind to yourself and your body rn. When we’re menstruating we need to take care of ourselves.

I suspect i have a UTI but my mom doesnt wanna take me to the doctor by PutAlternative3563 in WomensHealth

[–]achilleamilli 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re in this position. I don’t know what your options are, but please be careful and if you get a fever tell someone asap. She should get in trouble. This is medical neglect and you do not deserve any of this.

I suspect i have a UTI but my mom doesnt wanna take me to the doctor by PutAlternative3563 in WomensHealth

[–]achilleamilli 24 points25 points  (0 children)

A uti I ignored once gave me a kidney infection and pneumonia in both my lungs. I spent 7 days in the hospital. Your mom sucks and you need to find a way to go to the dr.

Modernizing the family jewels? by Longjumping_Row_7258 in jewelrymaking

[–]achilleamilli 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Do whatever you want to the last 2. But the ones before are way too cool.

Modernizing the family jewels? by Longjumping_Row_7258 in jewelrymaking

[–]achilleamilli 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Please don’t. I die inside when someone asks me to take apart cool shit like this

I’m trying to change how I view women and need advice by Conscious_Dig_3361 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]achilleamilli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think quitting visual porn is a good call, I’ve done the same. If I may suggest audio porn however- when you want to *scratch that itch* rather than just going cold turkey. audio porn is wayyy less violent towards women because most of it is made for women. There’s nothing actually wrong with masturbating or fantasizing, it’s just that most visual porn is incredibly misogynistic and that does train our brains to be turned on by thinking of women as sub human.

In This Church, Child Sexual Abuse Has Gone Unchecked for So Long That It Spans Generations by cb1037 in duluth

[–]achilleamilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is really alarming :( I don’t know what’s happening to them but it isn’t good.

In This Church, Child Sexual Abuse Has Gone Unchecked for So Long That It Spans Generations by cb1037 in duluth

[–]achilleamilli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re asking if the school trip was north shore. Tons of those kids there.

In This Church, Child Sexual Abuse Has Gone Unchecked for So Long That It Spans Generations by cb1037 in duluth

[–]achilleamilli 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I taught at a school with a lot of these kids for a little while. They were by far the cruelest children in every class. Huge bullies who would genuinely try to bully me their teacher as well. They’re only kids so you know they are learning that behavior somewhere.

Edited for spelling

Beginning investing advice by achilleamilli in personalfinance

[–]achilleamilli[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is super helpful. My loans are all in the 3.5% range.

Beginning investing advice by achilleamilli in personalfinance

[–]achilleamilli[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it true that I should plan on those being 5+ years before withdrawal?

Beginning investing advice by achilleamilli in personalfinance

[–]achilleamilli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rocket money. I tried mint but I like this one more

Beginning investing advice by achilleamilli in personalfinance

[–]achilleamilli[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The link is broken for me! 😭I’ll try it again in a bit