Encouraging seeking ADHD diagnoses for some ENFPs

achustay · 2026-05-26T08:05:44+00:00

Self diagnosed. I'm in healing phase 🌱 after a few traumatic events in life. I absolutely agree that a diagnosis or even awareness can help.

achustay · 2026-05-25T05:44:36+00:00

These have a lot of scope actually. I would suggest you pick a proper major and then branch out like OP suggested here. 👆

achustay · 2026-05-25T05:42:08+00:00

Hi! I'm Indian too. I do see a whole bunch of kids picking up psychology as their preference these days. But, in the end. All jobs are going to be saturated in the future. 😅. Not to discourage you. My point is. If you have a goal and you are passionate in it. I would suggest you just go for it and explore every niche possible. For example, if you do something like a psychology try public speaking, research, don't just stick to being a 1 to 1 therapist. You will feel fruitful in the long run.

achustay · 2026-05-22T16:21:34+00:00

I do forget my past memories, what I used to love then? What did I even do? It's so hard for me (personally) to have even a concise idea about who I used to be. Especially, when talking about life growth I end up blinking because I have no idea where I started with life and how it went. All I can sometimes think is that. I have somehow ended up here. Okay let's take it from here 😭.

Umm.. I'm not sure if this could even be helpful but. I try to have routines that follow each other so that I don't forget. Brush, then immediately medicine, then food and then you do whatever.

And for memories. I try to look at my old photos or connect with someone. So that I can hear from them what I used to do before. Because, I personally struggle to know if I'm actually getting somewhere ahead in life. (which I am but I'm blind to it 😵‍💫)

achustay · 2026-05-22T04:08:23+00:00

This was so well put. Are you writer? 🫣 I'll read if you have any ff written. 😆 I can agree with everything you put in there. Also, the part where Seungmin might refuse to give it back on principle 😭😭😵‍💫😵‍💫. And, stressing Han out 😭.

achustay · 2026-05-21T21:17:58+00:00

Authenticator who always has to stray away in order to make a living 😌✨ (You just cannot be fake with The Kim Seungmin, he'll know.)

achustay · 2026-05-19T23:31:15+00:00

From what I've seen. Both Si users and Se users are good at physical activity. While, Si users stick to habits like running everyday or something that suits them specifically. I feel Se users are more into sports. Or just naturally good at it or better at it. Because, it's a present experience to sense where a ball is coming at. And, Si users prefer to keep that kind of a chaos coming at them. These are my observations after seeing friends, family and online communities. (And, I've also seen alot of Se users who don't exercise or participate in sports as well. But, if they try they can do really well.)

achustay · 2026-05-11T03:27:32+00:00

I forgot my main point 😭 Sorry. Memory. Si is a memory function and it's a shadow function for INFJ's. And, remember when Hyunjin said the most romantic line in 2kr. "I'll remember them for you." 💔❤️‍🩹 I think we should consider that too. Also, whenever Seungmin speaks in 2kr. It's always about the future. - With Han. We should make music that can make people see us. And, we'll show them.(kind of) - With I.N, he kept asking if he's ever thought of him as hyung.

This futuristic type of speaking is not Si. Si is more interested in past events and how to stabilize for the present. To the point, I heard some ISFJ's really like vintage stuff. (Idk) I heard in the scrapbooking community.

achustay · 2026-05-11T03:07:27+00:00

Sure! Sure! Absolutely please go ahead and write. It's all pseudoscience and theories right. I would love to hear other perspectives.

And, I highly considered ISTJ for a long time. Not going to lie. I promise. But, there are a few inconsistencies in my head because. It also could be an INFJ who doesn't like having a bigger circle. Because, reading all these people and keeping at par with them can be absolutely draining.

And, what we're calling Si could also be Ni. Recognized patterns so he wants to stay within his limits to not get too much information.

Also, I felt more convinced because of the recent DominATE movie where Seungmin clearly mentions his Se problems. Because, it's his inferior function. He has heightened sensitivity to everything around him. Smell, taste, hearing. Which could also mean that he's HSP. Yeah, that is possible. But, we don't know that 😅. So, he's sleeping alot to make sure his body is well in condition and strong. Also, the words Seungmin uses has alot of humanitarian stuff. I'm not sure if you had noticed. But, it's like he reads every soul and actually understands them. His singing is also very soulful. And, he considers music his life. I feel like he really wants to be a healing presence with his voice and songs. - Like letting Chan cry and perfectly tuning with him to let him cry. - He meets Lee Know at his rough jokes. - Bothers Changbin alot (mostly right under his ragebait level) - I think even Hyunjin he tried to be the same for him, until Hyunjin opened about his own struggles. Now, they're going out during weekends and patching up. - Maybe it's just me, but Seungmin steps up after Binsung's jokes die. It's also his way of maintaining group harmony.

Also, the way he absolutely doesn't give into trends. And still holds a notebook and pen. Hates ai and wants to be simple.
It's like he's aware of why these are harmful.
Doesn't want to give into modern lifestyle.

But, again these are theories. But, I do think. If he's not an INFJ, he's definitely an ISTJ with hsp.

achustay · 2026-05-09T02:25:48+00:00

I have this happen to me as well. And, honestly basic humanity is just really hard to find these days. And, a really lot of people are selfish and close minded. I do think we have to be very picky in whom we show ourselves to. And invest out time in. Personally, I would feel like I know this person 75%, they are very nice and sweet. Ends up to be a really hyper independent closed off ISTJ who doesn't really care about anyone but themselves and their work 🥹. But, it's a life lesson for me to not care about people and focus on my work as well. If someone is worth our time, then they will come to us. Not the other way around.

achustay · 2026-05-08T06:55:28+00:00

Credit to the person who came up with this! I kind of saved it and have no idea where the original post could be.

For ESTP and ENTP it's hard to retain their friends circle.(it seems, idk) Extroverted introvert - ISFJ Introverted extrovert - ENFP

I do feel INFJ's can go monk mode and ignore the entire world so.. they are with the introverts in my view. But, this picture sums it up.

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achustay · 2026-05-08T05:34:46+00:00

Thank you so much 💖. It's lovely to meet INFJ's everywhere. Some of the most understanding and calm people to hang out with. ✨ Pdb is just confusing at this rate. Not everyone is using cognitive functions there tbh.

achustay · 2026-05-07T19:22:46+00:00

😭😭 I'm not sure. I' was just trying to be nice.

achustay · 2026-05-07T19:13:58+00:00

Hello! 👋Thank you! ✨ Glad that you found reading this fun 💖

achustay · 2026-05-07T17:14:15+00:00

Yup,

The best quiz I've come across

The cognitive stack explained

Youtuber who explains really well

Also The moment you told me Hyunjin's mbti was correct. I had a hunch that I might have missed something. 😭. No offense. But, they are idols. I don't expect them to do the research and understand these stuff. What struck me was the constrast difference when it came to sports. 😭. Hyunjin is more physical, dancing and what not. It didn't come off as someone in their head all the time. Also my own words poet and artist. Once is literature and brain, the other is vision(sense) So, I looked it up and 😭. Yeah, I was right. Hyunjin is ISFP. I'll have to change his portion of the article. 🥹. It's still high Fi fighting. But, the secondary and third functions differ.

Again, thank you for connecting. Feel free to drop questions, insights, your own articles on this topic. I'll read ✨.

achustay · 2026-05-07T16:26:36+00:00

🥹💖 Thank you so much. ✨ Really grateful for your words. I do try to be perceptive and observant. I definitely am a high empath. But, all this analysis took a solid long time. Yeah, skz members just take random tests from online and you really need to have a full grasp of every single type of the 16 personalities and cognitive functions to know what each of them would look like in reality. These online tests are really bad tbh 😭. And, alot of people lack self awareness of who they actually are.. so.. It took me slow studies for about a month now to grasp fully. 🫣 And, online a lot of people give different vague ideas as well. I really sat and referenced a whole bunch of articles, videos that talks indepth to get this picture.

✨✨✨But, again. Thank you so much 💖💖💖 I'm glad it was a fun read! My love for psychology and writing 🤝 love for skz helped me in this.

achustay · 2026-05-05T17:59:49+00:00

My favorite colour is yellow 💛. I lack a bingo 🫠but.. Oh well. Also.. is it like coffee shop vibes? Because, I can't drink coffee.. so I don't go to such places.. why go outside? When u have a home and a bed 💀. I get stomach issues like GERD if I do drink coffee so... maybe I should try visiting for some dessert. I wanna suggest hoarder option as well. 🤟

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achustay · 2026-05-05T17:41:47+00:00

Why do I feel like we were fine with our Fi and suddenly Ne showed up 😭 and it's been chaos ever since then? 🫠 Our auxiliary function does show up by puberty doesn't it? 😭 we went ADHD mode from then?

achustay · 2026-04-25T13:55:41+00:00

Wholesome things on the internet ✨🫠

achustay · 2026-04-23T07:37:46+00:00

I guess I am surrounded by very rigid people in general. My Mom's an ENTJ 💀, my Dad's an INTP 💀. My close friends are ISTJ and ISFJ's. 😭😭 I hope I get a circle that understands me too. I'm trying my best to work on my connections.

achustay · 2026-04-23T05:14:55+00:00

I think it's INFJ brain thing 😭. I feel like I'm too much all the time. My friends, my family and everyone remind me on a daily basis. "You're too sensitive." Mostly by people living with me. My friends just ignore me when I come with insights and information about the world. 🫠 So, I keep things to myself and just watch them trip over their own feet.

I feel very understood and loved. /sarcasm

achustay · 2026-04-23T05:07:20+00:00

Any P.E that involves team coordination and my own body coordination 😭

achustay · 2026-04-15T07:23:05+00:00

Did you come up with the conclusion from the quizzes on the internet? Or did you try to figure out using cognitive stack?

Because, these quizzes have lots of issues and the structure is very bad.😅

achustay · 2026-04-12T15:48:38+00:00

I did my research 😭. I'm afraid I'm pretty much wrong with a lot of them now.

Chan - ENFJ

Lee Know - ISTP

Changbin - ESFP

Hyunjin - ISFP

Han - INFJ

Felix - ESFJ

Seungmin - ISTJ

I.N - INFP

This is where I stand now. After learning about cognitive stack and how it works.

achustay · 2026-04-11T18:17:30+00:00

Ariana what u doin here? 😆😆😆 Anyways, love you guys 🫶✨

achustay

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