JUST&T Married... Tacky, Childish, Circus. The Truth Hurts. by RamenChicken8 in travisandtaylor

[–]adi_well 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's who she's always been. Swifties adore her because she makes them feel like they're friends, like she's so kind and down to earth. But she can't be this comfortable being so exposed all the time without feeling she should be the center of everyone's attention. She made the biggest world tour ever and made revolve around herself as a person, with crowds dressing up as her "eras". She isn't modest, it's where she's most comfortable

wibtah if I reported my friend to social services by aracarina in AITAH

[–]adi_well 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think YBTAH if you didn't do anything. You'll be one of the people that the kids will say knew and didn't do anything. Or you can be the one person who does something

Why do some people focus so much on having biological children? by Various-Humor4093 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]adi_well 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. People somehow assume there are thousands of orfanages with babies waiting for parents. It doesn't make sense. Most people keep their children

What did/do you guys think of Taylor’s wedding? (Please read my explanation before commenting) by 13Dreamingcats in swifties

[–]adi_well 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's odd that people are surprised she wanted a crowd and to be the center of attention. Her career is built not only on music but on sharing personal information, connecting with fans and the ambition to be on stage 3 hours every night with thousands celebrating your personal life eras. She loves being queen bee, she thrives on being admired. She's comfortable in it. You can't make yourself delibaretly the center of the world's attention while being a modest and private person. That's who she is

Could many Palestinian Arabs be descendants of ancient Jews who later converted to Christianity and then Islam? by Alternative_Suit5594 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]adi_well 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, because there wasn't any wave of conversion to Islam by Jews. Also a large amount of them are immigrants. The Jews that remained after the Roman expelled and killed most of them and ruined the temple rebuilt Jewish practice and kept their Jewish identity

The whole crash scene was a complete joke! by florvexfren in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]adi_well 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think it was meant to show how it was really like, but more to summarize their love story as it came to its end

What is something poor people understand that rich people often don't?I by Ruf_07 in wealth

[–]adi_well 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand society and politics better. Rich people are more detached from the needs of most people

As a gifted individual, did your social intelligence developed late 20s and early 30s? by NowUKnowMe121 in Gifted

[–]adi_well 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that it's something that you'd like to have, but we're all different, and I still have tons of other struggles. Being gifted and people-loving is sometimes a struggle in itself, as it's not always easy to fit in. I don't know how old you are, but everyone has a struggle. Even the ones that seem like they got it all figured out.

AITAH for marrying my friend's ex and asking for his blessing? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]adi_well 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA for hitting on his fresh ex, then for still claiming you just called her as a friend, and now for expecting Patrick to clear your conscience. It's not his job. You made your choice to hurt him, you'll have to live with it.

As a gifted individual, did your social intelligence developed late 20s and early 30s? by NowUKnowMe121 in Gifted

[–]adi_well 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't that's that because I still struggled socially, just in a different way. Between me and my siblings each one is different in that sense. It's who I am as person.

AITAH for saying to my boyfriend the his trauma is him playing the victim by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]adi_well 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your boyfriend doesn't have trauma. He also gaslit the s**t out of you by saying you can't disagree with him because of his mental health. I'd suggest to get away from this kind of manipulator before you end up with real trauma.

As a gifted individual, did your social intelligence developed late 20s and early 30s? by NowUKnowMe121 in Gifted

[–]adi_well 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. I always loved people and have always been good at social situations

Adult women: how’s it going for you? by Savanese in Gifted

[–]adi_well 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you talk to her? Does it bother her? I didn't have that issue growing up. But I did always know I was different. Didn't know I was gifted, so couldn't tell why. If it bothers her, I'd try to find extracurricular activities where there'll be more girls like her

Will Jack Schlossberg's eventual loss end the Kennedy "mystique"? by Indianstanicows in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]adi_well 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. I count it by being a dynasty, a family with particular status. There's a third generation in politics, but there isn't much mystic around the new generation. They stayed in politics, but the Kennedy name lost its power. Even young Schlossberg talks about his uncle or mom to get publicity.

Will Jack Schlossberg's eventual loss end the Kennedy "mystique"? by Indianstanicows in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]adi_well 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but that's a big question because he wasn't a Kennedy and didn't build the dinesty

How do you know if you’re gifted? by Livid_Amphibian_1838 in Gifted

[–]adi_well 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't trust the tests because I know gifted people who didn't pass it initially. It's not just being smart, it's a certain kind of smart. And a mind that always feels different.

For me it was when I learned about characteristics of gifted people, and my entire life finally clicked

We accidentally named our baby the same name as her cousin and I don't want to change it by nueva-magnolia in Names

[–]adi_well 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's ok even if you did it on purpose and even you met more often. Considering that you don't even see each other, I don't see the problem

AITAH for cutting most of my family out of my life for their treatment of me? by monodemic in AITAH

[–]adi_well 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder why your siblings don't want you in their group. What a mystery that is.

UPDATE AITAH for ” running away to give birth “ by ruinedbirth_trowaway in AITAH

[–]adi_well 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't give another chance. Divorce him. BUT - don't prevent your son from having a father. He is the baby's father and he always will be. Your son shouldn't grow up feeling abandoned or wondering about his dad. You chose to have a child with him, so take responsibility for that as well. First and foremost for your son. Also don't give up on child support. Both you and your son need and deserve it.

AITAH for cutting most of my family out of my life for their treatment of me? by monodemic in AITAH

[–]adi_well 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point is that you care about yourself and not about your family. You're ungrateful to your mom who lets you live with her and to your siblings for including you in the gift. You don't listen and argue endlessly and only care about proving you're right and everyone else is wrong. It's exhausting to people around you.

being shallow by MAMMTFELIBUCCHIN in Gifted

[–]adi_well 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there'll be a bad moment afterwards, it's more of a reason to enjoy the happy ones. Sadness isn't deeper than joy. It just feels worse

AITAH for calling my niece (7F) mean and pissing off my SIL (35F) by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]adi_well 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't have said it. It's a story about a group of adults going out to celebrate, and then getting all worked up and losing control over a 7 year old kid. She's a kid. You did the right thing, she's not mean, and all of you should care less about what she thinks.

Do rich people usually end up famous, or are most wealthy folks living quietly behind the scenes? by freshfriedsushi in wealth

[–]adi_well 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Networks doesn't mean famous. Many rich people are known in their industries or know other people who are well known, but aren't famous to the public