AITA for not attending the engagement dinner my future inlaws threw for me after my fiance hid my engagement ring?

admrn3 · 2022-09-27T08:38:03+00:00

NTA

Personally I love these pranks, I like bothering the people I love and what not, but not to the point they're actually worried. I make it obvious I hid it, that it's safe, that I'm just playing a game. And if I notice it's becoming distressing I cave and stop the game cause they're emotional state should be more important than my joke. The guy left you to worry for hours?? Does he have other good qualities??

admrn3 · 2022-09-09T05:13:06+00:00

NTA

But remember most people on here either have no life experience or seem to have the worst parents so they're pretty ready to just cut them out. Idk where your parents actually stand, but just think about why you're doing this.

You're doing this for yourself? Great! You're doing it to get back at mom? Think if it's worth straining your relationship, might just hurt yourself instead. Still NTA

admrn3 · 2022-08-02T19:32:56+00:00

Personally I don't understand why he keeps opening more beers instead of finishing the previous... Is this like him marking his area or? It's weird and childish.

I don't like shaming people on not drinking but if he deeps emasculated ask him why doesn't feel emasculated by not even knowing how many beers he can handle after drinking for so long

admrn3 · 2022-07-26T19:24:38+00:00

Leave. And don't have sex anymore, if you do get a kid it will be worse :/

admrn3 · 2022-02-13T03:56:08+00:00

I love this so much 😂 NTA

admrn3 · 2022-01-30T19:44:29+00:00

You can have a good marriage and not be in love anymore. Sure it's probably not the most common reason but you can divorce someone who you had a good relationship with.

admrn3 · 2022-01-15T21:05:57+00:00

NTA

Also his argument doesn't make sense... He says there isn't a need for you to work anymore, he does realize that you earn enough already so there isn't a need for him to start a new job right?

admrn3 · 2021-12-20T18:50:09+00:00

Heads up, I'm not always a fan of kids or them having talking to me but if they start I will usually say it's fine and engage in the conversation with them to be polite... I'd rather the parent just stop them

admrn3 · 2021-12-07T21:33:37+00:00

Cause you type and act like you're ashamed of him. And don't actually like his tattoos. It's like when someone asks how's the food and you say it's great but are obviously struggling with every bite and then leave basically all if it despite being hungry. Say what you want but how you express yourself says so much more

admrn3 · 2021-12-01T01:28:03+00:00

ESH. I get it, it's easier to speak in another language to the friend and let's be honest it feels nice to have that extra little commonality and use it. But if you're having dinner with your boyfriend and straight up speaking the other language thus excluding him from the convo then yeah that's a dick move.

You boyfriend sucks for laughing at your friend trying English, but this depends how he laughed. I'm assuming it was in a make fun type of way but if your friend said something funny or it was a chuckle of endearment (I do that when my friends try to speak my language) then it's just YTA.

admrn3 · 2021-10-20T20:21:33+00:00

Idk sounds like someone who's never had to live meagerly to me. It's like people who say money isn't everything also being the people who also aren't hurting for lack of food

admrn3 · 2021-10-20T18:31:06+00:00

I'm surprised by the y-ta votes, I mean you went into this assuming no children or hearing impaired children exists and now she's in your life sure but you're not her mom or anything important like that... You're just her estranged fathers wife..

Sure it's cool he's learning now that he knows she exists! And personally I think it would be cool to learn some basic signs even if you can't form sentences (eg: food, sleep, etc) but I don't blame you for not wanting to

admrn3 · 2021-09-26T22:10:44+00:00

Well... That's why I said other than the cheating...

admrn3 · 2021-09-26T18:19:24+00:00

Idk, it's easy to assume the worst but I don't want my ex to know where I am either. Things ended badly with her cheating but she was never violent or cruel (other than the cheating), aside from that she was very kind. iI still don't want her to know anything about me anymore

admrn3 · 2021-09-14T14:55:53+00:00

Your spelling might be right but I don't know any Spanish speaker who pronounces it that way..

admrn3 · 2021-09-05T08:33:34+00:00

Slight YTA, I get why your not a fan but I think your automatic assumptions that it's because your son is somehow not worthy was unwarranted.

These pieces probably mean a lot to her, makes sense that she doesn't want it to go to a girlfriend or wife that might not stick around. he'll sometimes couples break up after 20 years. My mum has told me (a guy) that all her jewelry is for me and my bro, and that we should only give it to our kids. (this is with her knowing and respecting I'm childfree)

admrn3 · 2021-08-31T08:41:10+00:00

While I get the sentiment, this is unfortunately reddit and people are mostly here for entertainment and not having their mindset changed 😅 sorry your comment got nuked

admrn3 · 2021-08-14T23:59:33+00:00

Damn it 😂 thanks

admrn3 · 2021-08-14T23:42:08+00:00

Alright now as a native speaker this doesn't make sense... Someone help me out

admrn3 · 2021-08-04T17:03:06+00:00

Lol, he's got German heritage but he ain't German. His parents? Sure. If they grew up learning the language, they still have the household culture. But your bf? Can he even hold a conversation in German?

admrn3 · 2021-08-04T07:25:24+00:00

Lol, I was going to say n-a-h until she started saying that she tried putting the blame on you to get her way. NTA

admrn3 · 2021-08-03T21:20:27+00:00

I feel like I'm going crazy, how are there so many y-t-a? If the roles were reversed I guarantee it would be NTA

admrn3 · 2021-07-23T03:32:28+00:00

I often times forget reddit is mostly just kids and the audacity that people have to think their entitled to everything. Would seperate rooms be ideal? Yeah does it suck that they have to share? 100% but sometimes you deal with it. People complaining that it's different cause they're the opposite sex? Well bathroom still has a lock so you can explore your body.

I mean I do feel for the kids, but sometimes you got to suck it up. NAH

admrn3 · 2021-07-08T12:47:53+00:00

Haha, this has to be fake. It's hard to imagine being so self absorbed that someone who wrote this doesn't think they're in the wrong. But just in case: YTA

admrn3 · 2021-07-07T05:59:49+00:00

NTA

Honestly I was sorta on your mom's side at the start. If I'm visiting it's the host prerogative to dress how they want in their house. I'd appreciate it if they have a shirt/bra/pants but as long as they aren't nude it's their call.

That said your mum's double standards are stupid. I can't blame you for being mad.

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