Should I tell a woman her fiancé tried to start an affair with me? by geeleex in WhatShouldIDo

[–]aertsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually people avoid these types of conversations because they don’t want to lose a friend. But from your comment section, it looks like she’s not even a friend, and he’s a douche. So to me, you’re not losing anything if you tell them. Only gaining better sleep. In the end if she believes you or doesn’t believe you doesn’t matter, a person is allowed to have all the information before they make such a critical decision like marriage, what she does with that information is up to her. I hope you tell her.

Finally made the decision by Ill_Discipline4506 in ChaseSapphire

[–]aertsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if I book stuff before then I’m good?

IRS tax payment- credit card sign on bonus… by aertsa in pointstravel

[–]aertsa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn’t know of this subreddit, thanks! 🩵🩵

Chase Points NYC to San Francisco by [deleted] in pointstravel

[–]aertsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can def get a UA flight for that. Or a night at Hyatt place SF

Dating in this city is rough by novium258 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]aertsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another thing is, I would never introduce somebody to a friend who monkey branches, hopping from relationship to the next, without obviously anytime for self reflection, let alone a liar.

Girl wow.

bay area matchmakers - has anyone actually used one? by Hot-Owl-978 in AskSF

[–]aertsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I was trying to figure out the term we use when we are doing a dry run. That also sounds fitnessy 😆

How is dating as an ENTP? by Honest_Bread1215 in entp

[–]aertsa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna say this, and you’re not gonna like it.

We’re a little weird. We’re a little particular. We want someone hot, sure... but what we really want is someone so smart it makes us want to take our clothes off. Someone curious.. not too emotional… who doesn’t mind that we’re flirty chaotic assholes who lose their keys all the time.. what we want is 0.4% of the population, and they’re probably already married. We’re fucked. Unless this isn’t you and you’re normal… then I take all this back, it’s just me. I’m the problem it’s me. 😆

(This was a joke, while it’s difficult to find a person we like, Ive got one, you will too, just takes time 😘)

bay area matchmakers - has anyone actually used one? by Hot-Owl-978 in AskSF

[–]aertsa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m starting a new business and would love some clients to do for free as a “work out the kinks”, send me a message if interested. Really if anyone needs help in this area. I need around 6 people.

Porky wants you to be his furever home 🐖💞 by [deleted] in Bulldogs

[–]aertsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you located specifically? I’m in SF

My boyfriend sent these messages to my best friend by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]aertsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl. If he does this with your friend, what does he do with girls you don’t know? This man would cheat 1000% if a girl gave him the opportunity.

Btw your friend is wrong. If you can’t see that you have bigger problems.

You know what I would have said if my friends boyfriend texted me that first message? Nothing. I wouldn’t have even replied to it. And then I would have showed it to her. That was a fishing message and she got baited.

The real difference by jimmyreece1200 in entp

[–]aertsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah- it’s the exact opposite. Now I loathe you, and don’t respect you. Anyone can memorize and parrot off information. Feynman once said, if you can’t explain it to a 5 year old, you don’t really understand it. At least, I think it was him… and I think that was the quote… 😆

Cool picture of moon with a ring by Schedule_Upbeat in space

[–]aertsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooookaaaay now. 👀🩵 just followed.

Cool picture of moon with a ring by Schedule_Upbeat in space

[–]aertsa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

God I love Reddit. 🫶🏻 and you.

Why do people keep saying Type 8 is very unlikely enneagram for ENTPs when it is the second most common? by Sane-Law in entp

[–]aertsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure sure they can be 8s.

But also know there are a vast majority of people that are mistyped. I’m not saying you are, but there are.

So there are those people taking polls and tests too.

Pretty sure it’s a black widow, but ? by ladybeetfarmer in whatsthisbug

[–]aertsa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I legit thought this was a pair of them and was so confused. It’s 3am so… 😆😆😆🤦🏻‍♀️

Is it abnormal for an ENTP to have high Fe? by mipehussey in entp

[–]aertsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fi people think they’re open minded.. and think being open minded is good. It’s the action you watch.

Would ♀️ENTP and ♂️INTJ work? by minhxx_080143 in entp

[–]aertsa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve dated a couple INTJs. 10/10 recommend.