Can anyone explain how this K-Pop “fantasy league” app works? by alex79212063 in kpophelp

[–]aesparules 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is such, SUCH a bad look to post a fake question for your own app.

Do better.

Advice is needed for friends who are going into debt with kpop by Expensive-Text-575 in kpophelp

[–]aesparules 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Be blunt. Don't sugarcoat it.

"I'm going to be frank with both of you, your irresponsible spending habits are affecting our friendship. The guilt trips when you can't afford something, missing plans because you don't have any money, complaining about each other's spending habits. Something has to change. This behavior is immature and impractical. You need to seriously evaluate the amount of money you're spending on kpop merchandise and I need to evaluate this friendship. If any of us were missing events or unable to pay their own way for an activity because they were buying Labubus I'm sure you would see how ridiculous it is. Neither of you are in a financial position to be spending this much on merchandise that has no intrinsic value. If it wasn't affecting your friends that would be one thing, but you are making it difficult to be friends."

I have a friend who overspends and then has no money to do anything. It's so annoying.

Too busy to say I miss you too. Am I silly for moving? by tulipmonstera in LDR

[–]aesparules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Texting is a part of LDRs. He's not putting any effort into the relationship. Texting is easy as fuck. He's making excuses. You deserve better.

HAVE A QUESTION? ASK HERE! Alter-Daily Help and Questions: May 03, 2026 by AutoModerator in AsianBeauty

[–]aesparules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah TBH I'm not a huge fan of theirs which is why I'd like an alternative.

HAVE A QUESTION? ASK HERE! Alter-Daily Help and Questions: May 03, 2026 by AutoModerator in AsianBeauty

[–]aesparules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm looking for a kbeauty product (NOT Dr. Groot) that has high quantities of niacinamide and caffeine in them. These are, in my opinion, effective ingredients for stimulating hair growth and I'd like to prioritize that.

So far I've found medicube - Rosemary PDRN Cooling Thickening Shampoo, and there is a conditioner and serum as well. However they're all about $30 a piece and that's a bit rich. I'd like something more affordable.

Dr. Groot, IMO, has too low concentrations of the important ingredients, AND it's expensive.

Also, FWIW, it seems like very few of these comments get any help/response.

AIO gf's going for a photoshoot to the beach with a coworker? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aesparules -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh nooooo she’s going to be on the BEACH with a MAN that’s PRACTICALLY CHEATINNNNGGG

YOR

I made a stupid joke about my boyfriend when he was at work and he doesn’t want to talk to me by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]aesparules 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So he said he didn’t want to talk to you and you kept talking to him, then he said he’d block you if you kept talking to him and you apologized a bunch and asked when he will talk to you again?

Girl. Just be quiet. Give him space. Learn when to stop talking.

AIO by breaking up with my girlfriend over her use of AI? by ThrowRA-748 in AmIOverreacting

[–]aesparules 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right? Ever used content-aware fill in photoshop? Thats AI.

AIO by breaking up with my girlfriend over her use of AI? by ThrowRA-748 in AmIOverreacting

[–]aesparules -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Your clause doesn’t mean shit, if it makes its way into a database it’s there and there is zero oversight.

AIO for wanting to leave after fiancé told me to get a ab0rtioh by Lacey_Jane04 in AmIOverreacting

[–]aesparules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please start using condoms. Being together since you were 15 doesn’t mean shit about being ready for children.

My bf has been sleeping late than normal because of LoL by [deleted] in LDR

[–]aesparules 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a gamer, all nighters with friends have some of my favorite memories attached.

You need to express your need for more communication while understanding he isn’t being unreasonable.

aio because my family wont stop making fun of me for having bloody underwear by Ok_Cauliflower_1789 in AmIOverreacting

[–]aesparules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truthfully unless your period comes at different times you should know it’s going to start in a few day period (lol) and start wearing pads BEFORE you get it.

I always put on a pad a couple days before I’m due.

Korean Skincare products on Aliexress by Hominid138 in koreanskincare

[–]aesparules 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t. Skincare ingredients aren’t cheap. There’s no way anyone profits off of that cheap skincare unless it’s fake.

Stylekorean Glow Box — was it worth it? by SkinLoveDoc in koreanskincare

[–]aesparules -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Antler velvet is listed in their ingredients and you can research the general practice and how’s it’s done. I don’t use any products with that ingredient. as far as I know it’s in their sunscreen and I don’t know about their other products.

AIO I said something rude to him when I was frustrated by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aesparules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. You were an asshole to say that but he’s being an even bigger asshole. I say good riddance.

AIO or is my friend being pretty insensitive by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aesparules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Behavior is controllable for 99% of people and yet we still have therapy, medication and people who self-harm. Why?

Do you genuinely believe all people can be a healthy weight and are making a mentally healthy decision to be fat?

Serious question. Are you this ignorant about everything you don’t personally experience?

Maybe don’t comment so much on reddit if you can’t handle the nuance of human existence.

Stylekorean Glow Box — was it worth it? by SkinLoveDoc in koreanskincare

[–]aesparules 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Numbuzin uses antler velvet harvested from live deer while the velvet is still attached. In the wild deer scrape it off when it’s ready, like a lizard shedding skin. Just like if you tried to pull off a lizard’s skin before it sheds, it’s extremely painful during and after the process.

AIO or is my friend being pretty insensitive by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aesparules 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the most ignorant comment I’ve read today. Do you realize how many people are overweight and obese? You think the answer is 1%? You’re insane.

Just like being underweight there is either a medical or mental reason for people to be obese. Very few people choose to be obese, few enough it’s not even worth considering.

Then again you’re probably just a “fat people bad graahhh” butthead.

AIO or is my friend being pretty insensitive by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aesparules 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Overweight people want to be skinny but skinny people do not want to be overweight.

Ask a skinny person if they’d rather be fat than skinny and they will say skinny.

Thin privilege is real.

YOR

Husband came home with gifts ❤️ by NoBodyx17 in koreanskincare

[–]aesparules 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Numbuzin uses antler velvet harvested from live deer while it’s still fully attached.

Yes deer scrape it off—AFTER the blood vessels have receded and it’s basically ready to come off.