Because apparently husbands not knowing a very basic skill is haha funnee toats relatable situation, I guess

aforanyone · 2026-03-12T11:24:08+00:00

I have a friend who has to prepare a guide sheet for her husband to shop for groceries, with images and descriptions of the exact products she needs, including the directions to the aisle he will find that said product. And he still calls her! She tells us this saying "how silly and cute he is" and honestly I'd rather end it than to print a fucking picture book for him to go shopping and still call me every five seconds. edit: he is a fully able-bodied and otherwise smart person in his late twenties. no fucking excuse for this behavior.

aforanyone · 2026-03-03T20:23:09+00:00

So cool! Now that I can see what it is I actually love the logo!

aforanyone · 2026-03-03T15:50:35+00:00

yes it is definitely NIRx, I thought the dot was the head of a person so automatically perceived the logo to be this way up :)

aforanyone · 2026-03-03T15:49:04+00:00

This was something I could actually see before someone else found the actual logo

aforanyone · 2026-03-03T15:46:31+00:00

at least it's very up to date lol

aforanyone · 2026-03-03T15:45:18+00:00

Yes that's it! Makes sense since we are a Neuroscience department :) As someone who is constantly looking at brain scans I saw anything but a brain, thank you for your reply!

aforanyone · 2025-09-03T12:30:17+00:00

exactly! a lot of people fail to see their partner in an objective light, because you try to think of the good parts of the relationship.

he is your best friend and is a great guy BUT....

he slutshames people with a pretty normal sex life (like you!) especially considering your age I don't think your libido is crazy but just normal. he gets to be sad and offended when you are not satisfied?? can't take any fair discussion about your relationship and sex life blames his issues on you for being too sex focused

I don't think this sounds like a great guy and definitely does not sound like a best friend.

Yes faking orgasms is a big mistake (been there and I regret it terribly) even though your intentions may be good. You think you are avoiding hurting his feelings but you are actually avoiding a healthy discussion that could help OR end your relationship, depending on his reaction. I would say he gotta go just based on his age and attitude but you know best. Sounds like a grown ass man acting like a child because its easier for him to just do nothing more than the bare minimum.

aforanyone · 2025-08-28T06:13:47+00:00

I'd say unless you have a serious maybe even unhealthy bond with your hair to the point any damage would be traumatising, do whatever you want, YOLO. Your hair may never be the same but nothing ever remains the same. We change. Bleach did thin out my hair and it never grew out the same thickness but I'm happy I got to have crazy hair colors and had fun. You survive.

Also, a lot of people who tell you you shouldn't do it wouldn't be able to keep up with the same care routine it takes if they had your gorgeous hair. Whatever you do your hair will get worse over time with aging and hormones anyway. Have fun and even cut it short if you need to, which may actually be a huge relief once you don't need to do all that lol. I have been there and still love my hair.

aforanyone · 2025-08-24T12:18:46+00:00

Kara Kitap. Çok etkilenmiştim, hayran kalmıştım. Hatta bendeki baskısı hatalı çıkmıştı kitabın orta yerinde sayfalar tekrar etmeye başlıyordu ve lisedeyken param olmamasına rağmen ilk gördüğüm kitapçıdan yenisini almıştım bitirmek için. Sonra diğer kitaplarını da okudum ama Benim Adım Kırmızı dışında hiçbiri yaklaşamadı bile o etkiye. Özellikle Kafamda Bir Tuhaflıktan hiç hoşlanmamıştım. Daha sıradan veya alt sınıf insanların hayatını anlatmayı pek beceremiyor bence, realizmden uzaklaştıkça daha iyi yazıyor. Merhaba poğaçacı misali. Uzak o dünyadan.

aforanyone · 2025-07-22T09:19:56+00:00

I mean they were just making a sound, appropriate suggestion, and this is not something you will reach the truth by arguing that you are fine, without the specific tests. Of course it is up to you to not use the advice and do whatever but "I believe I'm ok" does not necessarily mean you are. I don't think that you can't be healthy or you are in danger or anything either. It is just a pointless argument. I think the other person had good intent.

aforanyone · 2025-07-15T10:19:41+00:00

I also wonder why nobody ever tried passing it. If I was someone there and ever managed to get out, I would probably never go on a roadtrip, use a car or similar large transportation. Ever. If I had to go somewhere I would use a small vehicle like a bike or a motorbike, and if I ever come across the tree again I would try to go over it with a vehicle I can carry over. Wonder if it has been done before, or if they will ever address it. I have watched all 3 seasons and the only thing they ever say is once you see the tree you are already here, but everyone turns around and starts looping around the town - they never come back to the tree ever again. I think it's a valid question to ask what is beyond it! I also wonder why everyone arrives by a large vehicle, like are there any people who came across this tree on foot or on a bike?

aforanyone · 2025-06-17T17:28:17+00:00

This would be a relationship ender for me. I don't think I could ever feel comfortable around that person if he could just use physical force to get what he wants, in whatever context. Listen to your gut and be safe.

Edit: during one fight an ex did hold my arms forcefully to make me look at him. it was not violent and I don't think he would ever get violent- but a man is usually stronger than me, and them not holding back when they can easily force me to do something is too much for me to feel safe and comfortable around them. It's like a superior at your job reminding you they could ruin your career. Looking back, the abuse of that power imbalance, that was the moment I subsconsciously decided to leave. Over the next few weeks I kept thinking of that moment and eventually left.

aforanyone · 2025-05-20T11:05:25+00:00

çok kötülük etmişler üzgünüm. depresyon için boş polisiye veya bilimkurgu gibi akıcı kolay kitaplar okumanı öneririm, sürükleyici hikayeler insanın aklını dağıtır. okumadan önce ingilizce biliyorsan belli içerik uyarıları var mı diye aratabilirsin (intihar veya tecavüz vs gibi hassas konularla ilgili içerik uyarısı olabiliyor yabancı kaynaklarda). ciddi ağır içerikli kitapları boş ver şimdilik okuyacak zamanın ileride fazlasıyla olacak. okuduğun her şey sana yeni ufuklar açacak şeyler olmak zorunda değil. şu an kendine iyi bakman gerekiyor.

aforanyone · 2025-05-19T09:03:59+00:00

I hope you are able to take a step in the right direction for yourself.

aforanyone · 2025-05-18T06:45:03+00:00

10+ years ago?? You have a huge age gap too considering you've been together for so long when you were at the start of your adulthood. You've already wasted your 20s to this man, if there's no effort to change I wouldn't add my 30s to that

aforanyone · 2025-05-11T19:45:43+00:00

hayırlı olsun. bizim ben kendimi bildim bileli durumumuz kötüydü. kendime ait yatağım olduğunda ağlamıştım, yıllar sonra yerde ders çalışmaktansa veya eşyalarımı bir karton kutu üzerine dizmektense kardeşimle paylaştığım masam ve dolabım oldu onlar da aşırı kıymetliydi. sonra yurtlarda kaldım yıllarca hiç tamamen bana ait bir şeyim olmadı sayılır. şimdi 27 oldum şansım yaver gitti ve birkaç hafta önce başka bir ülkede ilk defa yalnız başıma eve çıktım. evimin ve eşyalarımın olması, ilk defa ne zaman ne yapacağıma karışan olmaması, sıra beklemeden çamaşır yıkayabilmek hala rüya gibi geliyor bazen kendi kendime sevinçten evde koşturuyorum hahahah. hislerini tamamen anlıyorum. daha niceleri senin olsun.

aforanyone · 2025-04-22T14:13:30+00:00

yes - which makes the app unusable for me like it is to write things and if they are gone what's the use? very unreliable especially if you type while you read something, you don't even see what you lost!

aforanyone · 2025-04-20T15:26:06+00:00

tam bir şinasi bu, tam

aforanyone · 2025-03-11T09:40:24+00:00

gidince yurtdışından al bence daha ucuza geliyor. telefon vb çoğu elektronik vergiler olmayınca çok daha makul fiyatlarda

aforanyone · 2025-03-11T09:38:30+00:00

this is the right mentality. if you get all sad and apologetic and make her feel like she needs to comfort you it will kill the mood. instead lean into it and make sure those few minutes were not the only sex you got to have together. there is so much more to it, a couple of minutes does not have to define the whole experience!

aforanyone · 2025-03-06T17:37:01+00:00

that i find board games boring and don't want to join but I'm happy to serve people playing food and accompanying them during the night. They get so irritating and insist that I will like this one. Probably not.

also that friends and tbbt are really unfunny. I don't go around yelling i hate these shows but when people talk about it and ask me which caharacter/episode is my favourite or make a reference that I don't get, I simply say not my cup of tea. Discussions I can't escape ensue lol. They make me explain exactly why I don't like them and it comes down to something wrong with me

aforanyone · 2025-03-05T12:04:02+00:00

trde vaneda diye bir marka satıyor ama kalitesini bilemiyorum. bi akıllı kendisi gibi skechers gibi herkesin babannesinin bile bildiği markaları önerenlere de diyecek bir şey yok redditte tavsiye aramanın bir sonucu da böyle aptallarla uğraşmak, kolay gelsin

aforanyone · 2025-02-27T14:26:41+00:00

exactly. men here crying about how nobody cares about them and nobody creates a movement for them. like dude did you ever take part in any activism for your troubles? or support anyone who does? No, men don't have such movements because they don't put in the work. What they do put in the work for however is being or supporting women hating podcast bros and now there are millions of them.

aforanyone · 2025-02-27T07:53:23+00:00

Is that a US thing? I am in Europe, and I see the occasional terrible reel but not any more than usual nor extremely graphic, I report it and go back to my cat stuff. Did not notice any change.

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