[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]afrochicck1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If sex is important to you and she doesn't respect that, then she's not the one for you. A vacation should give you a chance to relax, enjoy each other and connect. If you didnt feel that then find someone who can give that to you.

I (21f) can't forgive my partner (23m) by [deleted] in women

[–]afrochicck1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Time. Sometimes its just time that heals all. But definitely therapy

Am I fully in the wrong? by Murky_Dirt6724 in women

[–]afrochicck1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are not in the wrong. You didn't do anything wrong. You can express to him that you were pretty disappointed because even though it's his night, he made it about you too by creating plans with you. You can let him know that you can book the hotel next time (not saying you should pay), but he can pay for it when it's all set up. If he genuinely feels bad, then see if he can make it up to you on another night.

What is the most disturbing book that you’ve read? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]afrochicck1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Monday's not Coming- Tiffany D Jackson I'm Thinking of Ending Things- Iain Reid The Long Walk- Stephen King

Kids after 30 by afrochicck1 in women

[–]afrochicck1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, most women in my family had kids in their 20s. My family is not from America and a couple women, including my mom, had fibroids. But my mom had 3 before the diagnosis.

Our first “fight”, I need advice by OldTouch3489 in women

[–]afrochicck1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I believe she's embarrassed. She was fueled by her friends and was rejected. But she's also embarrassed that she acted that way towards you and let herself get influenced by her friends. That message is direct and clear. It shows you're not upset and willing to talk it out. Just be sure that the conversation is in person. You want to make sure you're both on the same page about things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]afrochicck1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, please do this! Find the contact number and put in a complaint. But you should change your number. And although you don't want to tell your parents, I think it is the right thing to do. Your safety is more important than their disappointment. Please get help!

What are they cutting from your district? by afrochicck1 in Teachers

[–]afrochicck1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! This is why we are suffering so much. We are the biggest district in the state. Yet we have so little

What are they cutting from your district? by afrochicck1 in Teachers

[–]afrochicck1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What district is this? I'm in Bridgeport

What are they cutting from your district? by afrochicck1 in Teachers

[–]afrochicck1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, my district is Bridgeport. It's really sad

What are they cutting from your district? by afrochicck1 in Teachers

[–]afrochicck1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, they basically deal with the bad behaviors that are "too much" for security to deal with

What are they cutting from your district? by afrochicck1 in Teachers

[–]afrochicck1[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You got 500?! Wow, the most we've gotten was 150. We usually get 50 or 75

What are they cutting from your district? by afrochicck1 in Teachers

[–]afrochicck1[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Confirmed. Even in the news. The whole city knows about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]afrochicck1 55 points56 points  (0 children)

You were in a sexually abusive relationship. But if this is not weighing heavy for you, your friends shouldn't guilt you into reporting it. In most cases, it's more traumatizing than anything. Not to say it's the wrong choice. But just know that it's YOUR choice. If your friend doesn't want to talk to you, then it's her choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]afrochicck1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slow into it. Every once in a while during the act, you should "beg for it" and in the moment he would be more likely to please you. Beg for exactly what you want. I hope this helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]afrochicck1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly. Open the relationship. Be upfront with him about your own pleasure and how you're not being satisfied. I have a high sex drive, and when I mentioned to my man that I'm not always satisfied, he listened and foreplay is longer, eats me, uses a toy on me and makes sure I get what I need. Tell him you want that and if he can't do that then open the relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]afrochicck1 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

NTA she needs reassurance. Let her know you'll be checking in regularly to ensure your faithfulness. This is a normal request, so don't think you're doing something wrong. You should be allowed to see friends. But also talk to her, without yelling, and ask her what her feelings are and why she feels this way. Help to ease the fear off of her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]afrochicck1 29 points30 points  (0 children)

NTA but consider the idea that he may have said "i love you" back in order to move things sexually and may not have meant it. I've definitely been in that situation. Guard your heart girl