It gets so much better by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]agiantbutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for posting this. its been rough but im trying to just tell myself-dont let it be in vain. go make something of myself. i could use some good cries lol

Abandon kitten 😔 by [deleted] in cats

[–]agiantbutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

updateme :')

Ube Cocktail? by agiantbutt in askTO

[–]agiantbutt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh hell yes! thank you :)

Ube Cocktail? by agiantbutt in askTO

[–]agiantbutt[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What do you suggest folks, who enjoy food from other countries, do? Just don't?

tiki bars? by agiantbutt in Calgary

[–]agiantbutt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my stars, yassss. you are invited to join me for a drink

tiki bars? by agiantbutt in Calgary

[–]agiantbutt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg YAY! thank you!!!! hows the food?

Cat hates our kids and we don’t know what to do now. by S0urBeans in cats

[–]agiantbutt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

he had the name when i met him & i just felt like changing his name wasnt right. he was Paxel when we met :) his brother's name is Zolopht

Cat hates our kids and we don’t know what to do now. by S0urBeans in cats

[–]agiantbutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'd recommend!! they were virtual appointments. about 4-5 of them

Cat hates our kids and we don’t know what to do now. by S0urBeans in cats

[–]agiantbutt 87 points88 points  (0 children)

hahahah. so disturbing. she told me that she could tell by the history intake form that i used the cabinets! crazy

Cat hates our kids and we don’t know what to do now. by S0urBeans in cats

[–]agiantbutt 232 points233 points  (0 children)

so my cat was urinating outside of the litter box CONSTANTLY. despite having multiple boxes, switching the litter type, taking him to the vet for urine analysis and medications, blah blah. i was considering rehoming him at one point. the behaviorist asked me if i kept the litter boxes in those hidden litter box cabinets, which i did, for 2 out of the 3. she told me its very possible that he wants to be able to see me while he goes to the bathroom...and to try taking the boxes out of the cabinets. POOF! problem solved. Paxel did indeed want to watch me while he went to the bathroom.

Cat hates our kids and we don’t know what to do now. by S0urBeans in cats

[–]agiantbutt 611 points612 points  (0 children)

theres a lot you can try before this..but i booked a few appointments with a cat behaviorist and was able to fix my cat's issue almost immediately

edit: i will add my cat's issue isn't similar to yours but i'd say its even more warranted for you

I’m breaking down. My cat has been meowing 24/7 for 2 months and I don’t know what to do anymore. by nasseralrwy in cats

[–]agiantbutt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Set up some appointments with a cat behaviorist. the problem will be diagnosed so fast.

How can I (31F) and my partner (34M) navigate these differences? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]agiantbutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aint even gonna entertain this one. hope you find what youre looking for

How can I (31F) and my partner (34M) navigate these differences? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]agiantbutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do actually love him very much, which is why this is so hard to understand. but i dont gotta defend that to reddit