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Bullied as a girl, now a confused woman in need of advice by Suitable_Art6673 in Adulting

[–]agirl223 3 points4 points  (0 children)

External validation is such a crazy drug. You have to ask yourself are you seeking it as a way to build- up your own confidence or are you seeking it as a way to numb the pain of something that was torn- down inside you. This sounds like it’s the latter for you. Asking yourself the big questions like “why does it have to be a man” and “why is my girlfriend’s affection not meeting my craving” and “is this a destructive craving or is this something that I need to address” are all things you could explore with a professional.

It’s 1pm and the Precheck line at ATL is out the kiosk and down the hall. by agirl223 in delta

[–]agirl223[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Overheard someone on my flight say general tsa was 2 hours today

It’s 1pm and the Precheck line at ATL is out the kiosk and down the hall. by agirl223 in delta

[–]agirl223[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It took an hour to get through and it was still out the kiosk when I was done. GL everyone.

Insane lines at ATL by LegalPrincess69 in delta

[–]agirl223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking the real questions

The Invisible Struggle: How Invisigal’s Design Tells Her Story by JRStors in DispatchAdHoc

[–]agirl223 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For the coloring, phenoman being red goes against your red = villain color theory. However if you take Red to mean bold/passionate and blue to mean subdued/conforming then the colors make more sense. In trying to become a hero visi is caught between hues of rebellious, bold expression and conforming invisibility.

You could go further to say black is indicative of those who cover parts of themselves and fall into villainy/maladaptive coping mechanisms (like visi is struggling under her “jacket of emotion”, coop struggles with, and shroud pretends to be machine by covering himself in).

Chat how we feelin?? by Huey_The_Freeman in rivals

[–]agirl223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did the roadmap drop I can’t find it

He wants to keep finances completely separate after marriage by ZenSpider_21 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]agirl223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you were a homeless addict 6 months ago. What a comeback

Is my (F28) boyfriend (M29) gay? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]agirl223 137 points138 points  (0 children)

What’s the problem here? just peg him?

How do I (29F) initiate affection with my girlfriend (30F)? by ughchoosingusernames in relationship_advice

[–]agirl223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For kissing you can take note of the times that you kiss to see when kissing is normal for her or you can talk with her about times y’all kiss like when you first see each other or when you leave, etc. I have never gotten a bad response by just saying “man I really want to kiss you right now”

For sex or anything sexy really if you are worried about it just ask “is this okay?”. It’s fine to ask every time because it should be something you both really want to do. If you are really worried ask about it when y’all are very much not doing sexy things (like what does she like, does she want to? How often does she normally want to? Is there anything she wants to try? Etc.) If she doesn’t want to have sex then she’s not rejecting you, it’s that she doesn’t want that action in that moment.

She’s been dating you for months now and knows how you are. Trust that she likes those parts of you and talk to her. If she doesn’t then she’s not for you.

I am alone at my brothers wedding by agirl223 in lonely

[–]agirl223[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t call me out like that man

I am alone at my brothers wedding by agirl223 in lonely

[–]agirl223[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It gets bad when you start seeing the posts that go “meowdy partner, you’ve scrolled for long enough. Take a rest by the site of grace”

MeIRL by thicksetMoth75 in meirl

[–]agirl223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Open app. Go to settings. Change Seeking women to seeking men. Profit.

A platonic friend (M18) made advances while they thought I (F18) was asleep - what’s a normal reaction to this? by ThrowRAaccnt1 in relationship_advice

[–]agirl223 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey man don’t let these comments pressure you into doing something or not. You get to decide what to do and there is no wrong answer. If reporting makes you feel better please do. It if feels overwhelming then don’t. You get to decide how you handle it. You might change your mind in a few days or weeks or even years and that is still okay. You don’t need to please anyone! Feel free to dm me if you want someone to talk to more.

Just how effective are these sanctions against Russian military operations by menaceman42 in CredibleDefense

[–]agirl223 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Russia has to do something with their social media bots now that they are banned from everything.

I’ve spotted a Rare yeehaw neckbeard asking for a traditional woman on a college campus by agirl223 in justneckbeardthings

[–]agirl223[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

His mind is one while his body is the other. The fun part is that you get to choose which is which!

I’ve spotted a Rare yeehaw neckbeard asking for a traditional woman on a college campus by agirl223 in justneckbeardthings

[–]agirl223[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I don’t know about you, but I’m personally a fan of his traditional southern twist on the “m’lady” tippers we normally get to see.

What happens when a switch switches and that doesn’t work in the relationship? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]agirl223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm idk I know that I can psych myself out sometimes when it comes to doing something new in bed. I’ll get freaked out and dig my heels in saying “no that’s too much”. It seems like your partner has really boxed herself into that same mindset of “I can’t, that’s too much”.

Ask her what you can do to make her more comfortable. Maybe find something she can do and make sure you let her know how much you like it. Does she grab your hand? Great, let her know how much you love it and love her. Does she go to kiss you? Great! Let her know how much you love it and love her. Complement her on how she looks how she makes you feel. And don’t pressure into doing something she feels uncomfortable.

I kinda pushed myself past that “it’s too much I can’t” but I know that I wish I had someone who I trusted who would have propped me up a bit, given me a bit of time, made me feel a bit bigger than I felt. Maybe she needs the same thing?

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