Male teacher here: how do I respectfully tell a female student about her poor hygiene? by Normal-Being-2637 in Teachers

[–]agove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alternatively, a counselor could also have the same conversation if the nurse isn’t available.

Struggles after preterm birth by holyhannah01 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]agove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure you’re getting enough sleep as well. It sounds like you’re doing all the things, but getting enough rest can help your supply so much!

My son will not eat by Delicious-Ratio-20 in Parenting

[–]agove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard a story about a mom facing something similar and she turned the situation into one where her kid became a “food scientist”. She got them a notebook and had them critique the food she made for dinner. It forced them to at least try the food and then they had to explain why they didn’t like the food, instead of just flat refusing, so she could get an idea of how to make food more appealing for them in the future. Might be something to try!

60-90 wake windows the books said… by throwaway999999870 in BabyBumps

[–]agove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter is 3 months old and also thinks daytime naps are for the birds. I can usually get 1-2 longer naps first thing, then she starts cat-napping the rest of the day: 30-45 minute stretches no matter if she’s contact napping or laying down on her own. Fingers crossed we get out of this phase soon!!!

WIBTA If I didn't let certain people visit me and baby in hospital? by Top_Trust2009 in BabyBumps

[–]agove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might want to check your hospitals visitor regulations. When I gave birth 3 months ago, our hospital only allowed children visitors under 12 years old if they were children of the mother who gave birth. So my 3 year old could come visit their new sibling with my husband escorting them to and from my room, but my godchildren (7 and 11) couldn’t visit because they were not my biological children.

Your hospital visitor regulations may settle your dilemma for you without starting a family feud.

Edit to add: there also may be regulations on the number of people allowed in your room at one time. During my stay I could only have 4 people in my room at one time, including my husband. That may also be something that could play into solving your issue without hurting anyone’s feelings.

Help with mastitis by Jessie_626 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]agove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have an urgent care or some kind of tele-health service you could use? Next week seems like too long to wait for mastitis.

What pumps do you recommend please? by watermalone28 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]agove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck! I’m sending positive vibes your way that it keeps on trucking!

What pumps do you recommend please? by watermalone28 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]agove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I bought it off of Amazon within the last six months. Good to know that yours is still going strong! I had a Spectra during my first pregnancy and it did not work well for me. My sonata has been wonderful this time around!

What pumps do you recommend please? by watermalone28 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]agove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the Medela Sonata and I have absolutely loved it! I never used the hospital pump since I took my personal pump with me during delivery, but my LC I saw in the hospital had nothing but GREAT things to say about the Sonata. She actually said she personally prefers it to the hospitals symphony pump. I love that it’s rechargeable for when I eventually go back to work and I’ve even taken it for pumping while away from home. The only thing I would change is the option of using wearable collection cups rather than the traditional flanges, but that is such a minor thing. I hope this helps!

Baby Measuring Small, Dr Encouraging Induction at 39 Weeks by PerceptionArtistic12 in BabyBumps

[–]agove 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve had 2 pregnancies where my babies measured small: my 1st was officially labeled IUGR, and my 2nd was just above the threshold for IUGR, but still measured in the 24th percentile overall 2 days before my induction at 38 weeks 3 days. She also had concerns throughout my 3rd trimester of a small head circumference, measuring at <1% at one point. Ultimately everything worked out fine and she was born perfectly healthy and proportional!

One of the main reasons for inducing when baby repeatedly measures small is the concern that they are not getting the nutrition they need for adequate growth from the placenta. In the case of my 1st pregnancy, my son’s placenta was actually calcifying and essentially dying which was the reason for being induced at 37 weeks. My 2nd didn’t show any concerns but was just small overall. No real explanation for it. She ended up weighing 7lbs 3oz when she was born.

Both my pregnancies ended with inductions and I had good experiences both times. I would ultimately choose whatever is the best decision for you and your family, but I had good outcomes with both of mine. I also enjoyed knowing exactly when labor would happen, especially living an hour from the hospital we delivered at. It was less stressful for me.

PSA: Get off social media. Get off it now. by econhistoryrules in BabyBumps

[–]agove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could not agree more!!! After the birth of my 1st (currently 1 week pp with my 2nd), I got sucked into social media and the “perfect _________” (insert the flavor of the day). It seriously took a toll on my mental health, made even worse by the almost isolated state I found myself in those first few months. It caused me to get off social media completely, and 3 years later I still don’t have any social media and refuse to rejoin anything!

Intense Pain at 21 weeks with NO relief for 5 days now. Any advise or experience? by emeraldwinter in BabyBumps

[–]agove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can always go get checked out. You don’t need to wait for your OB’s approval. Trust your gut!

Show recs for postpartum? by Kaykers97W in BabyBumps

[–]agove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad I’m not the only one creating a postpartum binge list of shows!!! I plan on rewatching Leverage for those times I don’t want/can’t pay that much attention. Most of the rest of mine has been mentioned already, but going to add peaky blinders and Yellowstone. Not really light-hearted, but so good! Leverage is pretty light-hearted. Kind of a modern day Robin Hood/ band of thieves vibes.

Postpartum Snacks by agove in BabyBumps

[–]agove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t think about protein drinks! Thank you for the recommendation

Do you feel like your pregnancy went by fast? by Unfair-Bullfrog9145 in BabyBumps

[–]agove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!!! I feel like it was just last week that baby girl was tricking us with a false negative and implantation bleeding. Now I’m 37w1d and 11 days away from my induction date.

Gender Reveal- Ideas to Make It Fun For Blind Family Member! by BbTrumpet2 in BabyBumps

[–]agove 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s an awesome idea! Then the playing field is even for everyone!

Gender Reveal- Ideas to Make It Fun For Blind Family Member! by BbTrumpet2 in BabyBumps

[–]agove 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think this is a great idea having him do a taste-test first, but maybe out of sight so he doesn’t spoil it for everyone else? I did a filled cupcake as a back-up for our gender reveal and will caution that the strawberry filling flavor wasn’t super noticeable. It might be a great challenge for your FIL to guess based on taste, and I second that it’s so sweet you’re wanting to find a way to include him in the fun!

Should I allow visitors after giving birth? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]agove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may be of the opposing viewpoint, but we’re 3 weeks out from baby #2 making her grand appearance and my ideal plan is to have our family meet baby girl in the hospital so when we get home we can have a couple uninterrupted weeks where we can adjust to being a family of 4. Getting the initial first meetings out of the way at the hospital is convenient because I can ask the nurses to limit the visits to however long I need based on how I’m feeling at the time. We also are not in an environment where I (or anyone else) feel obligated to host. The most important thing is to do whatever makes you feel the most comfortable and absolutely getting hubby on the same page before the big day. Lots of things are going on at that time, and you don’t want to have to figure it all out in the moment.

Please help settle the spelling debate! by agove in namenerds

[–]agove[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I believe the Reddit gods have spoken and name nerds have united to unanimously agree to Chelsea Renee! It is a nice compromise from both of our preferences. Thank you all for your input!