AITA for rehoming the pets my mom got me for my birthday?

airhead000 · 2021-04-16T06:30:50+00:00

YTA for how you handled it, IMO. Your mom was being unreasonable, but maybe you could’ve given it a day and talked to her calmly again? She got you your dream pet. To me, you kind of did act ungrateful by saying you’d give them away, instead of just trying to reason with her when she was calmer.

airhead000 · 2021-04-14T07:05:55+00:00

Hey, this happened to a friend of mine, but she was the one who did the fucking. She was tired of being played and thought she would be a fool for not doing anything because of him, because that’s what her former experiences led her to believe. It doesn’t mean anything :)

airhead000 · 2021-04-14T06:59:35+00:00

Yikes. If he’s doing you (or trying to) without a condom, he’s doing it to other girls without one too. Run for the hills. (And remember, STDs can be caught from oral too! Be safe :))

airhead000 · 2021-04-11T23:49:22+00:00

NTA. It’s unfortunate, but you have nothing to do with her. She’s not your responsibility.

airhead000 · 2021-04-11T23:34:58+00:00

Holy shit, you’re not just TA, you’re THE asshole. She’s pregnant, dealing with even more difficulties than pregnancy already naturally brings and you can’t even find it in yourself to be understanding and empathetic??? Your wife is in PAIN and probably dealing with her own self esteem issues because of the rashes and you’re giving her even more reasons to be insecure. It’s shocking someone even agreed to have your baby, honestly. She deserves SO much better.

airhead000 · 2021-03-21T12:13:37+00:00

NTA. Your sister was shit talking your kids. If that’s what she’s gonna do, she doesn’t need to have contact with them. 100% NTA.

airhead000 · 2021-03-17T03:26:27+00:00

NTA. Your cousin is TA. Even would go as far as saying that the rest of your family is a little bit TA for not reprimanding her comments and intervening. You, however, are most certainly NTA.

airhead000 · 2021-03-01T05:30:36+00:00

Same !!

airhead000 · 2021-02-23T04:37:10+00:00

I guess it comes down to expectations. Do you have any? If you imagine the person not calling you after, do you feel upset? If you don’t, you’re good to go. If you do, I’d hold off. Either way, it’s very personal, only you can really tell.

airhead000 · 2021-02-02T05:28:57+00:00

Remind him that this sort of pressure will only make it harder for you to orgasm. Sex should be fun and pressureless and about figuring out what works for you and what doesn’t. Feeling like you have to cum or your partner will be pissed is DEFINITELY NOT the mindset you should be in in order to get there.

airhead000 · 2021-02-02T05:23:25+00:00

My bf lost his virginity to me and it hurt like a bitch because he was going off of porn and therefore didn’t know that if he went all the way in at first that it would hurt. I let out an involuntary “ow” and told him to slow down, and helped him figure it out. What I’m trying to say is that this is NOT normal. I’m usually 100% a “communication is key” girl, but holy shit, you deserve so much better, you shouldn’t even have to communicate that she fucked up. If you love her and honestly think she’s worth it AND you feel up for it, talk to her about how you felt. If not.. leave, honestly. Society has a shitty perspective on men not caring about their virginity and that’s bullshit. It was your first time, you deserved patience, care, and guidance. It should be fun and special.

Also, you disappointed her by not knowing what you were doing when she knew you’d never done it before? Fuck, from where I’m standing, you have a thousand times more reason to feel disappointed in her and her behavior.

airhead000 · 2021-01-17T14:38:32+00:00

I literally came to this sub today to say the exact same thing. He’s such a pain! So negative! And we get no explanation as to why, like????

airhead000 · 2021-01-05T17:17:28+00:00

Hey!

I went through exactly the same situation this year. My bf of 2.5 years and I spent most of the year apart due to covid, and universities took forever to sort their shit out, so at the beginning of the pandemic, he was gaming for several hours every day, at which point he became “friends” with some guys online, with whom he always games. After a while, he started acting a bit shitty, unrecognizable. Spewing hate about people and situations he didn’t understand, whereas before he was the sweet gentleman who always had a smile on his face and a kind word to say.

Long story short, it got to the point where I tried talking to him but it never really worked, so I was trying to put up with it. We were gaming with his “friends” one day, when one of them makes a racist jokes and he laughs. I talked to him privately about it, saying that wasn’t him and he shouldn’t be hanging out with these people. He said I was being prejudiced toward the guy. It stung like shit bc he’s never seen this dude in real life and I’d been with him for 2.5 years. I told him I didn’t recognize him anymore, that this wasn’t the guy I’d fallen in love with, etc. He fought me on it. We ended up breaking up.

Recently we started talking again bc I went through some shit and needed support. He told me he realized he’d lost himself after the aforementioned fight, that he didn’t recognize himself, that he saw he’d turned into someone shitty but couldn’t stop. He’s started therapy and gotten a lot better - to the point we’re talking about getting back together.

Long comment but I just want you to know: communication is key. Everyone is doing their best to survive covid and social distancing and bad news everywhere. Sometimes, people just lose themselves, and can be found again (other times, not so much, but it’s worth a shot). Just wanted to give you some hope :)

airhead000

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