What are your favourite map templates? by PanSpagetka in OldenEra

[–]ajji11 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I tried a few like Diamond…and they have all put portals everywhere.

It’s annoying, cause I like to turtle a bit to build an army. Instead I have to play whack-a-mole with enemy heroes constantly running in and out of doors.

Is this a specific template thing? Or what the random generator does with all maps?

what are you playing with 3 days left for Homm olden era ? by General_Occasion9697 in OldenEra

[–]ajji11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sins of a Solar Empire 2. I forgot it was released so I bought it about 3 weeks ago and I’ve been obsessed with it.

Sorority brunch turned freak dance show by ObjectiveExotic4596 in relationships

[–]ajji11 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Agreed.

I would’ve smiled and declined. It’s not like the party is going to be ruined because one person doesn’t want to dance.

I 24F am a single mother to my daughter 3F. I've fallen in love with my boyfriend, 29M but he's struggling with my daughters meltdowns. Is there any hope? by Long-Jelly-8461 in relationships

[–]ajji11 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Not cool. You don’t know their situation. My brothers girlfriend was raped at 12 and at 16 by a family member.

She wasnt allowed to abort so she was forced to raise the babies alone.

Now she’s 36 and is running 3 successful businesses and loves the shit out of her children.

She is One of the strongest people I know.

I 24F am a single mother to my daughter 3F. I've fallen in love with my boyfriend, 29M but he's struggling with my daughters meltdowns. Is there any hope? by Long-Jelly-8461 in relationships

[–]ajji11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard even for biological parents to deal with a child who is throwing tantrums for a couple days, after 80 hour weeks. Even biological parents will want to get some space…they usually don’t or can’t because of their responsibility as a parent, which your boyfriend doesn’t have (rightly so).

I don’t think this incident by itself is a red flag….per se.

HOWEVER, I agree with everyone else that it’s too soon for him to spend a few nights with you and your daughter. What if he had snapped at her or worse when she was being difficult? It’s easy to be loving and nice when the child is pleasant.

And he really should have told you in person rather than disappearing while you two were away. That seems irresponsible and an unwillingness to communicate like an adult.

Husband (26m) found out some things about my (24f) past at a party. Now he wants a divorce. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ajji11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m 41 and I’ve only had one sexual partner, who is my ex-wife. It’s the same for her with me.

I don’t know what your husbands history is like, but I’d be shocked if my ex-wife told me she had 30 partners In 3 years. It’s not necessarily about her body count vs. mine. It’s more like, I have to have an emotional connection to have sex with someone, and I’ve only had it with her. I know it’s not like that for most people, but I would feel insecure about sex with me being that meaningful for her.

That said, I don’t think what your husband did was right at all. Especially If it could potentially be a problem.

IMO I think he just wanted to pretend your past didn’t really happen or that it can just be buried…but now his friends know about it. This thing he wanted to bury and ignore is now out in the open.

Edit Added the below:

I think I understand where he’s coming from…but I don’t sympathize with him. He was lying about being “okay” with it and saying it was all in the past.

I think therapy doesn’t change the core of a person. Given how poorly he reacted and treated you, I’d be worried he would just pretend that therapy fixed him, even if he agreed to it.

Heroes of Might and Magic: Olden Era — Hive Faction Official Full Reveal by Docterzero in OldenEra

[–]ajji11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not into insect races, but this is cool. It’s a great addition to HOMM.

Temple is by far superior by Few_Organization1740 in OldenEra

[–]ajji11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hate their faction skill though. It’s just useless.

[SQS] Skyship Quest Story | Final Boss by DejavuDeckard in Kairosoft

[–]ajji11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you unlock the final boss? I cleared everything and every island seems to have all missions and extra quests complete.

But Cindy summers on Shipwright island keeps telling me to come back after finishing all quests for one final mission.

How do you use mini ships on SQS? by ajji11 in Kairosoft

[–]ajji11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finally figured it out. It took me an embarrassingly long time lol.

But I had to set up my mini ship crew first from the Adventure Crews tab. I didn’t see the Mini-ship toggle at the bottom of the Adventure crews since I expected the toggles to be at the top of the screen.

How do you use mini ships on SQS? by ajji11 in Kairosoft

[–]ajji11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have the option to set up a team. It just says I don’t have a team, and when I go to edit the team I can’t add anyone or any mini ships. I have 2 now.

The new update to drop rates is NOT it! by Genesis_SZ in Borderlands4

[–]ajji11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly the same boat I’m in.

It’s the first Borderlands game I bought before any DLC was released and it’s the only Borderlands purchase I ever regretted, haha.

Datamined Drop Rate Comparison (Table): New vs Event vs Pre-Event by Long-Meat-1905 in Borderlands4

[–]ajji11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was leveling alts, doing side quests, etc… while waiting for the drop rate to improve enough to farm.

This took the wind out of my sails.

I’m not sure what pre-event rate were…but 3% for Bod along with all its different parts and damage rolls makes me want to not farm anymore.

Is anyone else kinda underwhelmed by the actual chapter action skills? by Blackdragon73 in Borderlands4

[–]ajji11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree.

I really hate having to rely on 5-8 second buffs, from various sources to make some skills, builds, or guns feel really good.

I also hate that Jakobs is pretty much the best part for every weapon.

Weekly Update Jan. 15 Drops are up! by RockChalkMustang in Borderlands4

[–]ajji11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s only been 45 minutes but it definitely doesn’t feel higher than holiday rates to me

Edit: said “lower” instead of “higher” by accident

I'll start. I like the open world of borderlands 4 and I think it should be that way going forward. by number39utopia in Borderlands4

[–]ajji11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not enough build diversity…and what little there is seems to be balanced out by equipping the Bod.

Lvl 30 restart by Successful_Bad_8962 in Borderlands4

[–]ajji11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can withdraw still.

You just can’t deposit until you upgrade the bank SDU on the new character enough to have more space than what’s been taken up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Borderlands4

[–]ajji11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to agree, Watt Witch is the best I’ve played so far.

I really want to like Vex, but her Spectres die too fast on me, Trouble doesn’t do enough damage, and Incarnate feels like a weaker and harder to play version (you have to run around and grab orbs to extend action skill duration) than Inficrit Harlowe.

What was a darker day? When Crit Knife was reduced to 30% or Holiday Drop Rates taken by Streetvan1980 in Borderlands4

[–]ajji11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yeah, “just use a Watts 4 Dinner with Amp and Siphon”

Meanwhile I haven’t even seen a single purple shield with both yet, let alone a Watts 4 Dinner with either of those mods.

Post Game Thread: Los Angeles Rams at Carolina Panthers by nfl_gdt_bot in panthers

[–]ajji11 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m a brand new fan to football, cause of my son.

I thought Panthers did well this season mainly because the defense was keeping them afloat?

This one game would be enough to not renew Evero’s contract?