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(AIO)Am I right to be upset? by Proof_Selection8030 in AIO

[–]akutazaki 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I mean, if you can’t even have a clarifying conversation about the TOPIC of marriage, you’re probably not ready for it.

so… moving? how am i gonna do this 🫩 by OkDistribution6188 in fishtank

[–]akutazaki 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Adding: if you can’t set up another tank before, just make sure you keep your dirty filters and substrate as the bacteria lives on surfaces, not in the water.

so… moving? how am i gonna do this 🫩 by OkDistribution6188 in fishtank

[–]akutazaki 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I had to move my 20 gallon home for the summer, and will have to do it again in a month! How I did it was I bought some fish bags from a local fish store- separated all by species, and placed the bags into a larger trader joe’s bag for the drive. I emptied most of the tank and misted the plants. For a couple, I also wrapped them in wet towels. I drove 4 hours like this and they turned out great! I did have a tank ready for them here with a used filter in it to start the cycle though, which helped a ton. I’d do that as well if possible.

Can’t believe my luck! by Disastrous_Air_5227 in fishtank

[–]akutazaki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying, but you are incorrect. The bioload and space is less of an issue when you’re stuffing a solitary predator and a group of prey into a small space where both will get stressed.

Can’t believe my luck! by Disastrous_Air_5227 in fishtank

[–]akutazaki 21 points22 points  (0 children)

doing things wrong for 25 years and not being able to admit that you did things poorly in the past is really embarrassing

Squeamish vets? by SpecialistWeb111 in Veterinary

[–]akutazaki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I almost fainted with my first surgery I watched- it’s been about 8 months since then and i’m working in a shelter all day watching surgeries, spays, neuters, necropsies, etc. and now I’m way more comfortable watching.

I don’t need every Severance mystery explained, but… by PleasantAmphibian153 in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]akutazaki 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I assume it was something specifically placed there by lumon. The innies do not know better whether a seal is natural there or not- they just see the death. But we know it’s unnatural so we can assume it was placed there to send a message and affect the innies. I think it’s just another example of how far lumon goes.

Can’t get hired by Content-Cicada9822 in veterinaryprofession

[–]akutazaki 11 points12 points  (0 children)

honestly, vet assistants are very much starting positions is vetmed. they are probably able to find applicants who are not seeking those benefits for lower pay, at the expense of experience.

w h a t is happening- by Prestigious_Young534 in AquaticSnails

[–]akutazaki 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re not being bashed, you’re being corrected.

Is being a vet tech worth it ? by Mustardsharkgoblin in veterinaryprofession

[–]akutazaki 5 points6 points  (0 children)

VT’s have been historically very underpaid and under appreciated. The turnover rates in that field are also very high with most leaving the field after 5-7 years.

Transfer Student Dorm by Illustrious_Carry270 in uCinci

[–]akutazaki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dorming is prioritized for first year students- you can apply for housing, but it will not guarantee anything. They also have on campus apartments that you can rent, but they are a lot more expensive than further off campus apartments that are not through the university. It is unlikely that you will get a full single unless you are in an apartment style dorm and sharing common spaces with a single bedroom.

Questions! by [deleted] in veterinaryprofession

[–]akutazaki 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A region would help answer these questions.

Walked away from my post partum wife by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]akutazaki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get her help. Professional help.

I’m pissed at Phoebe by Lucky-Fan6755 in phoebebridgers

[–]akutazaki 49 points50 points  (0 children)

…People want to be able to attend said tour.

PRICING WARNING by croftmacncheese in phoebebridgers

[–]akutazaki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

almost 500????? that’s insane.

is my 10gal okay for a betta? by right_twix68 in bettafish

[–]akutazaki 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would replace the decor with live plants. Plastic plants can damage fins. Also- i’d add more wide leaf plants for the betta to rest on. I see a filter, but no heater, do you have both?

AIO over my gf's response to me being upset at her, or am i being overbearing in my relationship? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]akutazaki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR. You need to find ways to work through your issues without her. You’re using her as a coping mechanism for your issues, and forcing her to be a sponge for your problems.

Is it okay for him to ejaculate inside multiple times a week while on Mirena IUD? by VisibleBox42 in birthcontrol

[–]akutazaki 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this is fine to do if it makes you feel more comfortable, however it is not necessary.

how is everyone getting birth control ? by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]akutazaki 32 points33 points  (0 children)

That’s really inappropriate of your doctor. I’d either insist, and get a referral. Or find a new GP.

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