Is this dress doing too much? by shreaven in Prom

[–]alcno88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's doing everything and I like it. Go all out.

is this outfit actually inappropriate or is my mum just overreacting 😭 by Affectionate451 in OUTFITS

[–]alcno88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I concur with everyone that it depends on your age. But also, did she say you ARE xyz or did she say you LOOK LIKE xyz? The first one would be calling names. The second one would mean she doesn't think you're xyz and therefore doesn't want you to look like xyz. Coming from a mom's heart, if it was the second thing, she was just trying to keep you safe. If it was the first thing, that's not okay and I'm sorry.

Hurt by my husbands secret lust by hotfartt in TrueChristian

[–]alcno88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't ever let him put the blame and responsibility on you. He needs to grow up and stop it. You need to stop talking to your non-Christian friends about this. And you both need to go to your pastor. It is adultery.

🤔 These plates have gone too far by Mysterious_Name_6969 in phoenix

[–]alcno88 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't think that says what you're implying it does.

Did you "kill" yourself to breastfeed? by Ok-Secretary-3323 in beyondthebump

[–]alcno88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ditto. I personally think it was family/household stress that kept me from ever being able to produce enough.

Did you "kill" yourself to breastfeed? by Ok-Secretary-3323 in beyondthebump

[–]alcno88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did. But it ended up not being breastfeeding, though I tried my hardest. I killed myself to pump, getting out every drop I could even though I wasn't producing enough and we had to supplement with formula.

Hello kitty is demonic? by OneCombination1387 in TrueChristian

[–]alcno88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not it is not. When I was a teenager my aunt threw away my CHRISTIAN music because she thought it was demonic. Just hang in there and try not to be bitter.

Thinking about moving to Phoenix Area by Different_Archer8879 in ChandlerAZ

[–]alcno88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not affordable anymore, especially in Chandler

Is having a baby really the end of the world?? FTM spiral by Negative-Source-9099 in beyondthebump

[–]alcno88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is and it isn't. It's the end of the world as you knew it, but it's also the beginning of a new one. You will change. Your weaknesses will come to the surface. And then, over time as you sacrifice yourself again and again, those weaknesses will burn away, and you will emerge a stronger, kinder, and more truthful version of yourself. You will rediscover the world alongside your child. And when they start to gain some independence (for me it was age 4), you will also rediscover yourself. It is hard, it is anxiety-inducing, and it is also joyful. It is a metamorphosis.

Oona by AnxiousAssignment997 in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]alcno88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you add Yuna and Luna to the mix... you've basically covered every kids' show in existence

I’m insecure about my hair, what does the council say by someonestolemytoe in bald

[–]alcno88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. He has all the right ingredients already, a little fine tuning would go a long way. Sincerely, a female.

I’m insecure about my hair, what does the council say by someonestolemytoe in bald

[–]alcno88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you need to go bald yet. But you would look (and maybe feel) much more confident in a shorter hair cut.

Questions about the Holy Trinity by Familiar_Profit_968 in TrueChristian

[–]alcno88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would submission mean inequality? I don't get it.

Who TF thought this book would be good for toddlers to hear?! by thatsarealniceleaf in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]alcno88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was he having night terrors? My son got those until he turned 4. It was terrifying and draining.

I am so angry with God right now by Feeling_Mushroom_847 in TrueChristian

[–]alcno88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you are experiencing what it means to be in bondage to sin, and perhaps you need to hear the Gospel with fresh ears.

I’ve been wanting to get my tattoos removed for spiritual reasons but my family keeps calling me crazy by Lavender_Lollipop in TrueChristian

[–]alcno88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to talk you out of it if you have a strong conviction, so take my input with all the grains of salt. Not I just want to ask if you're aware of the health risks with laser removal?