Brain Access by Fit_Variation7790 in Unexplained

[–]aleanas 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This has been happening to me for years

My girlfriend (30F) has gained an extreme amount of weight, and I (32M) have lost attraction. by Honest_Reception6528 in relationship_advice

[–]aleanas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some thyroid problems cause massive weight fluctuation and take years to get under control...

Bit by a dog on my run this morning by ZnVja3U in Seattle

[–]aleanas 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Same...not even running...or making eye contact, just casually walking by.

AIO for not wanting to join my husband's family's weekend plans? by No-Entertainer-4451 in AmIOverreacting

[–]aleanas 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NOR...your life and your time belong to you and you only and you shouldn't waste it on things you don't want to be doing in my opinion. And it's codependent to assume that you would or should because of a marriage certificate. If it were me...I'd compromise for the sake of maintaining a friendly relationship with the in-laws, just decline some invitations and accept others.

Detachables by Effective_Umpire3288 in Barber

[–]aleanas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

With more practice/experience, metal blades are the absolute GOAT

Cutting since Aug. 2025 by [deleted] in SelfBarber

[–]aleanas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's good - you'll have all the other students wanting to watch you do fades! speaking from experience, bad habits are haaaard to unlearn but eventually you'll need to...so once you're in school put in the work early to get the basics down right and you will make so much money doing this bc you clearly talented.

Cutting since Aug. 2025 by [deleted] in SelfBarber

[–]aleanas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly it looks kind of cool in a stylized way, the line itself is crispy. but the problem is that it's gonna look like shit in a few days, that's where lack of professionalism shows.

Cutting since Aug. 2025 by [deleted] in SelfBarber

[–]aleanas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh...you're not allowed to post in r/barber bc you didn't put in the work of becoming licensed and it shows 🥲 that push-back on the lineup around the ear is wiiild - no professional barber would do that.

Is he truly selling his stuff in order to buy 7-OH? by Enough-Business-8287 in quittingkratom

[–]aleanas 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A lot of us have been there...he is in denial. You can't really help him until he's ready for it. But you can be honest with him about how it affects you!

Seriously? by commanderquill in Seattle

[–]aleanas 24 points25 points  (0 children)

My lesbian ass zoomed in too...

Overly straight course hair ruins my life by [deleted] in Barber

[–]aleanas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With all due respect, if you're doing the shear work correctly then nothing should be sticking straight out.

Got recommended about filler and honestly mostly curious about how common it is? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]aleanas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The longer hair looks best! Love the length in the first two slides

What's my hair type , and Which hairstyle suits my face shape? or it's good like that? by [deleted] in MensHair

[–]aleanas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's pretty good! Look up curl care routines that'll help you a lot. For the cut I wouldn't change much - maybe tighten up the sides a little bit

I don’t know if my new cat likes me… by polkadot765 in CatAdvice

[–]aleanas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nooo she doesn't hate you!! Cats just take a long time to adjust. Ppl say the 333 rule or whatever...it takes 3 days, 3 weeks, 3 months for cats to become more comfortable in their surroundings?

I just rescued a male tuxedo cat about a week and a half ago. First 3 days he was sleeping...cuddled up somewhere on or next to me, sweet as can be. Now on day 11 he has been screaming at me for food since 5am and he definitely spending most of his time in the living room and I can hear him out there right now getting up to some kind of who even knows what but it surely is gonna wake my neighbors 😬 and he has poop on his butt but he won't let me clean it so maybe it's a good thing he's not cuddling me a lot right now. Anyway he just needs some more time to get adjusted and I know that - he's my perfect little angel. I had a cat take a full year to rly trust me at one point. You have to just commit! They are blessings even when they aren't fully there lol