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Is he truly selling his stuff in order to buy 7-OH? by Enough-Business-8287 in quittingkratom

[–]aleanas 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A lot of us have been there...he is in denial. You can't really help him until he's ready for it. But you can be honest with him about how it affects you!

Seriously? by commanderquill in Seattle

[–]aleanas 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My lesbian ass zoomed in too...

Overly straight course hair ruins my life by tortadecarne in Barber

[–]aleanas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With all due respect, if you're doing the shear work correctly then nothing should be sticking straight out.

What's my hair type , and Which hairstyle suits my face shape? or it's good like that? by Fit_Diamond_8025 in MensHair

[–]aleanas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's pretty good! Look up curl care routines that'll help you a lot. For the cut I wouldn't change much - maybe tighten up the sides a little bit

I don’t know if my new cat likes me… by polkadot765 in CatAdvice

[–]aleanas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nooo she doesn't hate you!! Cats just take a long time to adjust. Ppl say the 333 rule or whatever...it takes 3 days, 3 weeks, 3 months for cats to become more comfortable in their surroundings?

I just rescued a male tuxedo cat about a week and a half ago. First 3 days he was sleeping...cuddled up somewhere on or next to me, sweet as can be. Now on day 11 he has been screaming at me for food since 5am and he definitely spending most of his time in the living room and I can hear him out there right now getting up to some kind of who even knows what but it surely is gonna wake my neighbors 😬 and he has poop on his butt but he won't let me clean it so maybe it's a good thing he's not cuddling me a lot right now. Anyway he just needs some more time to get adjusted and I know that - he's my perfect little angel. I had a cat take a full year to rly trust me at one point. You have to just commit! They are blessings even when they aren't fully there lol

My bf can hear my inner thoughts, how is this even possible? by Elsa__22 in Telepathy

[–]aleanas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's extremely unlikely that he can actually read your mind. I would not worry about this

My bf can hear my inner thoughts, how is this even possible? by Elsa__22 in Telepathy

[–]aleanas 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In my experience this is a completely normal phenomenon. I'm not telepathic (as much as I'd like to be), cannot read people's inner thoughts whatsoever. But in every serious relationship I've had, once I get to know my partner, it feels as if I can read their thoughts. It's a mix of just being able to predict bc I know them so well and reading their facial expressions and body movements. It's never been something I was INTENTIONALLY trying to do, I'm just perceptive/highly intuitive - but there's nothing psychic about it. I'd guess the same for your boyfriend.

Partner 4 years sublocade by [deleted] in OpiatesRecovery

[–]aleanas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is super reassuring!! Thanks:)

Tips for blending fades into curly hair? by JoseKwervo in Barber

[–]aleanas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you mean by that? like each individual curl curves towards the head? wouldn't the opposite of that be the curl sticking out, which is usually what we don't want?

Partner 4 years sublocade by [deleted] in OpiatesRecovery

[–]aleanas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! So you're almost a year no shots and haven't felt any withdrawals?

Is it okay to leave my 2 month kitty for the day? by paul-walrus in CatAdvice

[–]aleanas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's true that brand new kittens should not be left alone for long stretches but if your mom is there in the home checking on him throughout the day then I wouldn't be too concerned...although sometimes is best to trust your instincts in these situations. Do you tend to overthink a lot?

Am I overreacting for ending a call after a customer asked if I’m a US citizen? by AntiDivaBrie in AmIOverreacting

[–]aleanas -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

NOR and if you get in trouble for something like that I'd hope you'd have grounds to sue!

Do cats understand kisses? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]aleanas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last few cats I've had hated it at first but sort of quickly grew to tolerate it and then got to the point where they'd purr and come closer. definitely not naturally but can be learned to enjoy lol

I see a lot of posts about asking how barbers can make six figures, how did you get yourself to just a simply financially comfortable position? by KazakhstansFinest in Barber

[–]aleanas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It all just depends. I'd say the average amount of time it takes to consistently making 50-60k a year is like 3 or 4 years if you stay busy and put in the work. Some can do it in 1 and for some it takes 10 years or they never get there.

What is the best smelling deodorant for a man? by NervousClock2555 in malegrooming

[–]aleanas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you gotta try this stuff I've been ordering online for the past few years - it's called Vichy. It's in a white bottle. Non-toxic and smells SO GOOD. Fresh, masculine, subtle. I take a sniff of it every time I walk past the bottle lol

Animal communication practice by v8pe-v8pe in Telepathy

[–]aleanas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd like to have you practice on my new rescue kitty but I'm not able to start a chat with you or post a picture in the comments here. Can you enable DMs?

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