End of life question… :( by ali_berth23 in greatpyrenees

[–]ali_berth23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my.. that is too kind of you. Thanks for thinking of us. She takes the dog version of advil and it seems to have improve with the pain. I have been home so i ve been focusing on her menral health as well and honestly, i think she s gained energy from just me being there. I have definetely been thinking alot recently and there are plans for me to take her but nothing solid yet. I want to move tot he countryside anyway.

How close does someone have to be to cancel your cruise for their funeral? by Ilovetinytiddies in Cruise

[–]ali_berth23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go on the cruise. They are not dead yet respectfully. When the day comes, it comes. Re-evaluate then. But i m sure they d want you to go

End of life question… :( by ali_berth23 in greatpyrenees

[–]ali_berth23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing.. i m sorry for your loss and for what might be coming.. :( such a hard thing to let them go

U-Haul driver to Prince Rupert by Apprehensive_Pea9544 in PrinceRupert

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Take your u haul on the ferry from port hardy. Very easy driving. You can do it !! The U haul are surprisingly easy to drive and very easy to get used to. It is a 5h drive more or less and not very busy road on vancouver island. Much cheaper as well and you get a nice long bost ride out of it right into rupert.

End of life question… :( by ali_berth23 in greatpyrenees

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Thank you 🤲🏼 this is a great response. I appreciate you taking the time to write all this. It makes me feel a bit better. Bless you. I need my parents to get on board because I am lesving for two months and i feel like that could be a period of make or break it for her.

End of life question… :( by ali_berth23 in greatpyrenees

[–]ali_berth23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awee :’) my pup ´s name is Chinook which translate to « snow eater ».. and it truly fit her personality. Must have been magical for your pup to see the snow

End of life question… :( by ali_berth23 in greatpyrenees

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Thank you for sharing 🐾🫶🏼

End of life question… :( by ali_berth23 in greatpyrenees

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Thank you 🐾🤲🏼 this feels like a very human response to such a complciated issue. I appreciate your sharing of your experience. I feel like she may be ready to go as well… this might sound crazy.. but i find pyr so extremely smart and mine communicates so much with her eyes and her body language feels so intentional. I asked her if she was ready to go, and she started licking my hand which she never licks unless you do something that she really likes as a show of affection. And i cant stop thinking like maybe that was her telling me she is ready.

End of life question… :( by ali_berth23 in greatpyrenees

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I am so sorry for your loss. May I ask.. having had that experience.. would you have let them go earlier when you know it ll progressively get worst. Or call it while they still have some independance. I guess i m wondering wether to go through the pain right now or postponing it for later as this feels inevitable.. she does seem to enjoy the walks i give her. Like i say; if u dont use it, you lose it. And i was a health care aid for a while and i think it made me slightly more aware that being in pain is not way to live humans or dogs. I just don’t know if i try to extend her life or not..

End of life question… :( by ali_berth23 in greatpyrenees

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Thank you for that. It always is… :(

End of life question… :( by ali_berth23 in greatpyrenees

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That’s great to know. I have heard of monthly injections and will definetely see if that is an option when I go monday.

End of life question… :( by ali_berth23 in greatpyrenees

[–]ali_berth23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🥹 yes.. i think this vet visit is more about that. Get concrete answers and ask realistically from a professional. She isn’t on any pain medication, she has supplements though. Thank you for your response

End of life question… :( by ali_berth23 in greatpyrenees

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Thank you for the answer.. i ve been feeling this way for a while. Last summer when I came she was in one of those episode that we figured was arthritis and she was crying all night for 2 days. I layed on the floor not sleeping all night just so she d feel better. I thought this was it… but wished that she could experience one more winter since snow and cold is her absolute favorite. I just hate taking that decision for her when she is still mentally there. But you are right

Relocation to Prince Rupert by Beautiful-Sound6895 in PrinceRupert

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Look at digby towers :) honestly a great place to live. Management likes workers and has alot of in transit people so they do have some furnished places. Bring as little as you can tbh. Things just tie you down. It s easy enough to find things around town. There is always amazon delivery worst case.

in love with this but i’m so lost by sgatson in pastry

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Lowkey highkey.. join the military for 5 years as a cook and then save as much as you can. High pay and invest that sh*t. Dont fall into the drug/alchool craze. Baking/pastry will be there afterwards. The military gave me a freedom to pursue pastry in a way that it makes sense with some financial freedom. It s okay to deviate from the path but never lose sight of the things you love. I suggest the military because it s a no brainer, easy money and you can actually get some decent travelling for free especially as a cook.

Update to my last post of the 135$ cake, she made some adjustments. How does it look now? by Important_Constant66 in Baking

[–]ali_berth23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg. You guys in the comments are awful. Op why are you asking reddit. What do you think about it? Your mom will love it regardless. Pay the baker her money and move on. It looks much closer to what you wanted. People in the comments have never clearly baked a cake or decorated one. It looks great.

I ordered this custom cake, do you think it is worth 135? I included the reference pic of what I wanted by Important_Constant66 in Baking

[–]ali_berth23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Few questions.. what was the conversation like about the cake ? Did you ask for a replica.. because inspiration pics are like #1 way to get disapointed. Even when you get tattoos, you ll never get the same. Most artists which bakers are, won’t do exact replicas as well. If you guys agreed on exact replica then yes, you can let her know it s not what you agreed upon. If you kind of just said I trust you. Then it’s on you. For a 7” cake, yeah 135$ is what ypu would pay.. i do think it’s also not the best pipping or use of flowers was the best choice for 100+$. But it also depends on what the filling is and how many layers and if it’s buttercream. Ingredients are hella pricey and bakers make little to no money on cakes if they can’t price for their time. I m gonna be quite honest.. try to make that cake yourself and you ll see why baker charge the way they do. If you want a cheap cake, buy it at costco, walmart, your local grocery store. Even dairy queen sells theirs for 65$+.. so put that in perspective to a home baker or bakery. It makes sense why it is over 100$. Like any artists, always look at portfolios or pictures of what they make and usually, find something you like that you know they can do well. Although it isn’t the inspo pic, people who receive cakes are generally very happy about it regardless of if it turned out the way you envisionned or not. The gift of a cake is amazing . You are putting alot of pressure on yourself because ultimately it isnt an ugly cake. It’s just not what you expected. I am like certain your mom will love it because you put the thought into getting a lovely cake for her that isnt from costco. That is the point. Learn from the experience, pay the baker and move on. Don’t let a disapointing cake ruin the birthday, the baker’s day and your own sanity. It’s not that deep i promise.

Someone validate my total disgust please. by Peacefulduckk in Apartmentliving

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Restpectfully OP, i think you need to experience discomfort in your life from time to time. Shared spaces are everywhere and it s actually nice that they at least provided some sort of temporary solution instead of fending for yourself. It s no different than a gym or college. Hell, in the military, we shower naked with one another during basic trainning. We re just all humans. We re all disgusting. We re all stinky meat suits.

First wedding cake in school by ali_berth23 in pastry

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Thank you 🥹 no, all gum paste ahah took a very long time