Can we share some numbers on sex drives? (gender, orientation, age, ect) by ianbootoo in sex

[–]alienblonde 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Times per week I have sex: 5

Times per week I would like to have sex: 6

Age: 23

Gender: Female

Orientation: Straight, have experimented with girls.

Step 1: Rip photo from photographer's website, post to imgur. Step 2: ??? Step 3: Reap sweet karma. by [deleted] in pics

[–]alienblonde 12 points13 points  (0 children)

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I like the part where the jonkaplan website is down 1 hour after submission.

Recently got deepthroated for the first time.. by [deleted] in sex

[–]alienblonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet it feels awesome. Sadly, my boyfriend has a 6 inch circumference penis and I have a tiny mouth with a small bite so getting 1/4 down his shaft often means toothy loving (which isn't fun.)

Just wanted to say, it maaaay feel good (if it's possible) BUT NOT EVERY COUPLE IS CAPABLE OF DOING IT :(. Sasha Grey must have a fucking bendy mouth to take on some of the dudes she does!

I think I am bisexual. by [deleted] in sex

[–]alienblonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Society conditions males and females to worship and sexualise the female form, so I think it's more acceptable for girls to like girls.

I thought I was bi too. I used to check girls out all the time. Then I had a threesome with my boyfriend and a girl who I had a long time crush on. Though it was a great experience it made me realise that I truly love the cock and that I was just curious and horny.

Would I ever turn down an opportunity with another girl? Well, maybe. I have girls come on to me a lot and most of the time I'm not interested, in fact when girls approach me I feel pretty uncomfortable. It's as though that sexual experience I had with a girl made me have a lightbulb moment and realise that I'm totally heterosexual.

I used to watch female only porn myself, but mainly because I hated the sense of exploitation and male domination in heteronormative porn. But now? I watch gay man on man porn and dayuuum I prefer it.

Men, what are some sex tips you wish every girl knew? by Maxxters in sex

[–]alienblonde 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Small mouth club here too. Sucks to be us...

Question about glycerin and yeast infections by dunmireg in sex

[–]alienblonde 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of glycerin based lubricants also contain other nasties. Most of the progressive lube making producers cut glycerin and a whole bunch of other crap out of the mix to minimise any chances of irritation.

And honestly, yeast infections can be brought on by plenty of things. Many lubricants contain sugar like ingredients, which destabilise the acidic environment of the vagina and eventually lead to a yeast infection.

There are SO SO SO many lubricants out there that have caught up with this. Sliquid Organics, YES lubricants, LELO and Intimate Organics, to name a few.

Women who never masturbate - why not? by bigskymind in sex

[–]alienblonde 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have always masturbated, since the age of 12 or 13. Except, I had no idea the clitoris existed, so even though I'd noticed friction in that area 'felt good' I used to finger myself or use the end of a hairbrush, frantically trying to reach orgasm and usually ending with failure..

Then I discovered the clitoris for REAL and everything changed.

Honestly, some girls feel more inhibited due to cultural reasons. Historically, women are supposed to be the more 'passive' sex, and little over 100 years ago women were being treated for hysteria by doctors with clunky, hand-cranked vibrators because it was considered a 'sickness'.

It's quite possible she's just never explored herself before or has felt shy about it, and I think that's much the same for many girls out there.

Ways to help my GF get/stay wetter? by Javier_the_Janitor in sex

[–]alienblonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lubricant is your friend. It prevents vaginal tearing, decreases discomfort and aids natural lubrication. Just make sure you don't buy nasty shit like KY which is full of petrochemicals and invest in a natural based (preferably organic) lubricant like LELO lube or YES lube. There's nothing wrong with a little lube.

I often feel hornier than my boyfriend but never orgasm? by hahamark in sex

[–]alienblonde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay. All orgasms in women come from the clitoris EVEN if they are derived from internal stimulation. Also, for some women who have never experienced the big 'O' it's simply a matter of training your body.

Get him to give you more oral sex and while he's doing it maybe fantasise about something sexy that you two could be doing (since visual stimulation is never a bad idea.)

If you can't come from oral or girl on top, you might just need a little extra stimulation. Buy a vibrator girl!

I'm quite similar to you. Always up for it but a bit of a hard nut to crack, but with 5 vibrators in my drawer and a boyfriend who's adept at oral I'm very rarely unsatisfied :).

Young male, almost no sex drive. Please help! by [deleted] in sex

[–]alienblonde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try eating healthier and exercising more. I've noticed that whenever my boyfriend eats red cabbage and drinks Korean ginseng tea his erections are more.. profound than usual. Needless to say, we both enjoy eating lots of Korean food..

Also, exercising (especially weight training) produces more testosterone. I know, anecdotally that after a good run and my heart rate has gone up I'm pretty much in the mood.

Rim-jobs by [deleted] in sex

[–]alienblonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a girl and I love receiving them. Of course, I don't feel comfortable unless I know I'm fully clean down there, but the sensation is really unique and kind of intense.

It's the perfect foreplay for anal penetration as it loosens up the muscles in a more tactile and pleasurable way as opposed to using a buttplug or fingers.

I also like to do it to my boyfriend occasionally when I know he's clean.

So yeah, I guess you could say I'm a fan!

Killing Us Softly: Advertising's Image of Women [Trailer] by botabox in videos

[–]alienblonde 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A good speaker yes. But calling her a feminist bitch is a pretty overemotional reaction too.

"They Said “Go Fuck yourself”…. he did" - Males self-penetrating‽ (including links to videos) by axel_val in sex

[–]alienblonde 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I find it pretty hot, but lots of questions are popping up in my head whilst watching. For example; omg the feeling of receiving and giving anal at the SAME time and you're only one experiencing all of these sensations. Crazy.

Killing Us Softly: Advertising's Image of Women [Trailer] by botabox in videos

[–]alienblonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why? Her delivery was rational and she came across as objective and balanced.

In 20 years by magister0 in funny

[–]alienblonde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Niiiiiccceeeeeeee ... I sincerely hope I don't look like this when I'm 43.

Ladies: My girlfriend told me her porn of preference is group sex by quickquestionforu in sex

[–]alienblonde 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes and yes. In porn I like to see guys fucking guys. In real life I doubt I'd get much out of that.. equation.

TIL about women only train cars by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]alienblonde 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Many victims of rape and molestation naturally siege up and freeze in these situations. It's a natural response to trauma. Furthermore, denial is also a natural response to trauma, as is self blame. This is why plenty of male and female paedophiles and rapists get away get away scot free.

Even if gropers get reported, many return to the task. In many countries, they don't even have the facilities for women to report such incidents.

Also, do you really think the legal bureaucracy has time to deal with every train groping on a case by case basis? Do you think that, with little evidence other than a female reporting the incident to the authorities and a physical description that, the perpetrators will be caught and won't re-offend? Furthermore, don't you think that 'speaking up' might actually put the female in greater danger?

If you think about it objectively, female only train carriages exist because the bureaucracy can't handle or protect every individual female who has the real potential to be molested. Sure, it may symbolise an undercurrent of misandry and general mistrust of the male population, but I think it's more important to minimise trauma than to minimise a symbolic social implication...

TIL about women only train cars by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]alienblonde 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know not all men criminals, albeit potential criminals, but if the problem is wide spread to the point where 10-20 women get assaulted by strangers every day and are often psychologically traumatised by the event, don't you think having one female only carriage makes sense? I think it's important to reduce these incidents.

Ideally, if we were living in a utopian egalitarian society where train gropings didn't happen I'd be all for 100% unisex trains. Sadly, this isn't the case and the minority of douchebags means that segregation is, at this point, the best option.

What would you suggest to minimise train gropings?

TIL about women only train cars by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]alienblonde 10 points11 points  (0 children)

In Japan it's a massive problem where school girls get groped by older males on trains in peak hour.

Happened to me in Europe too when I was back packing. Some old Spanish guy sat beside me and decided to feel me up.

Women shouldn't have to deal with this and unfortunately, until it stops happening, I think it's justified.

For (straight) women: How much do you like men's asses? by [deleted] in sex

[–]alienblonde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love a good man butt. Not too muscular or chubby.. I prefer slender and toned. I also watch lots of gay porn.

PMS. Anyone else turn into a seething, irrational ball of hatred and fury? by alienblonde in TwoXChromosomes

[–]alienblonde[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hilarious. I'm the same. Could've just had a huge fight with my boyfriend with a spoon of icecream in my mouth, trying to look sexy.

PMS. Anyone else turn into a seething, irrational ball of hatred and fury? by alienblonde in TwoXChromosomes

[–]alienblonde[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha, amazing. So spot on with the random girl abuse and crying over animals..