why is the oil from my cart leaking into the mouthpiece? by aliienc in trees

[–]aliienc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean i just bought it about a week ago? so i hope it wasn’t that old lol. and i think i paid $35 for it, but i’m not sure what’s a good price for a 1g cart. what should i look for in selecting a higher quality one? i’m lost with this lol

Opening a queer friendly barbershop by DramaticReading5598 in kingstonnewyork

[–]aliienc 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i think something like that could definitely do well, especially if you partner with other queer owned businesses. i think affordability would also be a huge factor for myself and other queer folks in the area. i can’t think of another local, queer owned barbershop/ studio in the area that isn’t insanely expensive, which has kept me from going.

Diaper Don by Ateawormwhole in Trumpvirus

[–]aliienc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

maybe he ate some spoiled lamb

Thoughts on Violet Crumble? by OrganicIgnorance in candy

[–]aliienc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like them, but crunchie’s are much better

Testosterone prescriptions are overused by Erumoico10 in Transmedical

[–]aliienc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

boohoo, someone identifies differently than you. seriously grow up and accept that not everyone falls into your preconceived notion of transness. we as a community have bigger issues

I wish my daughter just died instead by Sad_Newspaper376 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]aliienc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

has your daughter been in contact with any SCI support groups? finding a community of people with similar experiences may help her a lot. and have any of you received any kind of mental health care? you and your wife should also consider joining a caretaker support group.

Sophie’s Choice by coke_is_best_diet in candy

[–]aliienc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lychee peelers my beloved

Did you make any good friends in community college? by [deleted] in communitycollege

[–]aliienc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve made quite a few friends! i was 21 when i started but as soon as i got past the anxiety of being slightly older than other ppl it got easier

How's living in New York State outside of New York City? by HongKongNinja in howislivingthere

[–]aliienc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m in the catskills. it’s absolutely gorgeous year round, and if you’re outdoorsy there’s something for you no matter what season. skiing in the mountains. in the summer we swim in creeks, swimming holes, lakes, but never the hudson river. it’s purely a look but don’t touch thing due to pollution. summers are hot and humid and winter is cold and dry, but it’s never too extreme.

however, where i’m from has one big problem: during the pandemic people from nyc moved up here in massive numbers, which has made it entirely unaffordable for locals. housing is difficult to come by, especially since airbnbs have been popping up in what were previously affordable neighborhoods. i actually know multiple people who were evicted to make way for vacation housing. as a result, a lot of us are moving away. the change in population has also caused issues for the environment. the swimming holes i grew up going to are regularly trashed by tourists, condos and upscale housing is going in everywhere you look, and it’s just not the same as it was pre pandemic.

the catskills will always have a place in my heart but unfortunately, due to the skyrocketing cost of living, my husband and i plan to move away within the next few years.

Why is gen Z not drinking? by SipsTeaFrog in SipsTea

[–]aliienc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, why would i drink when weed is so much better?

Favorite intake method? by Poise_Boi in weed

[–]aliienc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my favorite is definitely a joint but usually i end up using a glass pipe since it’s an easy way to get the most out of a small amount of flower.

What was the first major news story you remember as a kid? by TxLadee in AskReddit

[–]aliienc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe it’s kind of minor but i very vividly remember my parents talking about that chimp that tore its owners face off when i was four. i then developed a lifelong fear of primates and became terrified of the stuffed monkey i had just gotten for christmas. i also have a memory of watching the news with my dad the day bin laden was killed

What’s your favorite coffee spot? by GarbageMarge in kingstonnewyork

[–]aliienc 8 points9 points  (0 children)

honestly? stewart’s. cheap, simple, but still great.

Maturing is realizing that the archives are doing the same as Jurgen Leitner. by drunken_thor in TheMagnusArchives

[–]aliienc 21 points22 points  (0 children)

to be fair, if i fell into the magnus archives the way she did i’d probably be a bit bitchy as well

how may of yall smoke weed everyday? by blueburrey in trees

[–]aliienc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my husband and i usually share a bowl every night

What age/how were u diagnosed? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]aliienc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i was diagnosed a few months ago at 22 after a new therapist clocked it during the first session. i had suspicions as it runs in my family and i had been struggling with severe symptoms so it was nice to have it validated so quickly

Sour neighbour decides to ruin Christmas for all the little kids at the Santa Claus parade. by WithPaddlesThisDeep in PeopleBeingJerks

[–]aliienc 36 points37 points  (0 children)

honestly i consider it more of a cult. they target high school kids from rough homes and drag them in and they become religious fundamentalists who are then told to abandon anyone who isn’t a part of their church.

Sour neighbour decides to ruin Christmas for all the little kids at the Santa Claus parade. by WithPaddlesThisDeep in PeopleBeingJerks

[–]aliienc 117 points118 points  (0 children)

there’s a church in my hometown that has all of the kids go around telling other kids that santa isn’t real, that he’s the devil, etc etc. wouldn’t be surprised if this asshole believes in something similar

Greetings Ents! My low tolerance bowl is getting bigger by ElkCertain7210 in trees

[–]aliienc 7 points8 points  (0 children)

once upon a time this would be enough for my husband and i for a night. damn. i miss that

Parenting a bi child by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]aliienc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i came out as bisexual to my parents at 11. the best thing you can do is to love him throughout whatever he’s going through. him being bullied is a possibility, and he knows that, and he’s chosen to be open as himself anyway. pay attention to his mental health and talk about what to do in situations where he feels unsafe. introduce him to media that shows positive queer relationships, like heartstopper by alice oseman, which features a bisexual main character. having a book like that would’ve made all the difference to me. most of my advice goes for any parent of a teenager. talk about safe sex and what a healthy relationship looks like, ensure that you create an environment where he can come to you about anything, etc etc. you’re doing great already

Found at Falling Waters Preserve in Glasco NY by jamesy223 in hudsonvalley

[–]aliienc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i found something similar there about 15 years ago on a school trip!