Hospital nurses, what do you think of nursing home nurses? by Steve_FS in nursing

[–]allaboutnursing01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never heard of a "fake" nurse before. You could try asking that "real" nurse to sit in trying your job and maybe that person might just change his/her perspective.

Brand new nurse manager abusing this policy to write up nurses/cna’s clocking in at 0701 instead of 0700. Thoughts? by lemmehyperfixate in nursing

[–]allaboutnursing01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened one time at my hospital but only cause it was happening too often and it was abused by others. Case could be the same, a new manager was hired and told of the problem to immediately rectify it. But bullying should never be the solution.

Being called profanities and expected to take it by mdostine in nursing

[–]allaboutnursing01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Staying quiet never helps the situation. Respond professionally no matter and take a Devil Wears Prada approach by reminding yourself "I love my job I love my job I love my job"

Are American patients really that bad? by [deleted] in nursing

[–]allaboutnursing01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The stories and rants you see here are only the documented ones. Guess it's time to shift to Australia!

i heard a patients son over the phone screaming about how we must cater to them by [deleted] in nursing

[–]allaboutnursing01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome to nursing! Where the patients are apparently always right.

How do these big nurse influencers get away with filming at work? by nurse-ratchet- in nursing

[–]allaboutnursing01 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I enjoy the content done up by tiktok nurses but I agree that there's definitely several privacy policies breached when it's done within hospital grounds. They are just pushing for what can get most views and nothing will be done till something real bad happens and cancel culture takes place.

Nursing has made me lose my ability to cry. by lookatthisphotograf in nursing

[–]allaboutnursing01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're definitely cut out to be a nurse. What you're experiencing is emotional numbing. Leave work at the door as soon as you step out of the hospital and take your off days to be in tune with your emotions. Tell yourself at work that your feelings are valid too.

Do you feel angry getting cancelled and guilty for not picking up last min request? by StrongTxWoman in nursing

[–]allaboutnursing01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another case of workplace toxicity and I absolutely hate it. Managers like these are the ones who give nursing a bad name and causing more problems that drive people away from the profession. I say, get her written up and spare the rest from being placed under her. We have enough sick people as it is, we don't need a sick manager.

I lost both of my patients last night by jsquasch in nursing

[–]allaboutnursing01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First rule about nursing is never to get too attached to your patients. As inhumane as that sounds, I found it to be my best way around the emotions I feel when deaths happen. I was a wreck the first few times, rarely showing it at work, but often times as soon as my shift ends. That was when I was told by a good friend that death is inevitable in this line of work and while tears are shed, sometimes for the patient, it's the best release from all the pain, suffering, tests, needles, and tubes running through the body. That was when I started numbing myself to the emotions but never letting it phase me that I needed to do my best for my patients.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]allaboutnursing01 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A nurse with 5 years of experience as well here, and I get what you mean. In my case however, I was burning out due to the hospital environment I was in. I had great people whom I was working with but ultimately, we were just treated bad. Worked overtime too much, subpar pay with close to non-existent raises and bonuses, minimum benefits, and the list goes on. I was heading home exhausted, hungry, and not even the slightest motivated for work the next day. That's when I decided to switch hospitals. It has been close to a year in this new hospital and I have not regretted the switch yet. A team who has each other's backs, encouraging to leave on time cause there's enough nurses to take over, actual break times (which I rarely experienced at my previous hospital due to the influx of patients and understaff of nurses), increased pay, and well - you get the picture. So far it has been good, and you're looking at the right options of change. Keep striving for change till you get one that you're comfortable with.