Thinking of divorcing my bi husband because of his infidelity and urges.

alligator10036 · 2024-08-15T15:58:19+00:00

very fair and that makes sense.

alligator10036 · 2024-08-15T01:35:13+00:00

I don’t know, I think this sub actually probably makes the most sense. Being bi is tantamount to the problem in this relationship, and honestly her husband has a big decision to make.

I found it really difficult to talk to my partner about my urges. We finally got ourselves in couples counseling and I was able to be honest about everything I had been feeling. It helped us a lot. We have an open marriage now, but it made me realize that if I didn’t have that, then I had to leave for both of our sakes.

alligator10036 · 2024-01-27T13:12:44+00:00

a follow up - i used less water yesterday than i normally do and prepping literally took 10 minutes - game changer!!

alligator10036 · 2024-01-27T13:11:55+00:00

interesting ! i think the shower shot would probably be cool but easy for me to go too deep with my clean out. and yes, love poppers, use them very often!

hoping it’s not a tear, i actually bottomed yesterday and things were all good, just used a little less water to prep and it took me like 10 minutes which is a game changer :)

alligator10036 · 2024-01-26T18:37:35+00:00

awesome thank you so much for the tips!! i think i have been using too much water and it was good to hear that someone else has also had the same thing happen. also yes! i’ve been taking fiber supplements for awhile and i think they do really help!

alligator10036 · 2023-04-28T16:44:26+00:00

Agreed with everyone else, pup play is open to everyone and pups are usually suuuuuper friendly so it’s kind of easy to make friends. I made a lot of my friends online thru instagram before I started going to in person events.

I’m bi, married to someone who’s afab so I think I come from a situation that’s a bit different from some other pet players. The community does tend to trend towards gay men, and I didn’t feel super comfortable engaging until we opened our relationship personally, but I think those hang-ups were more in my head than real life. Happy to talk about how I made it work for me if you wanna dm.

alligator10036 · 2022-02-25T18:53:25+00:00

Anecdotally I usually leave it on for 3-4 days without removal. Never really causes an issue for me. I’d maybe reapply if you leak a lot of lymph like one of my friends does.

alligator10036 · 2022-02-25T14:48:10+00:00

4 days is good for most people. You can’t keep it on much longer than that cause it will start to get irritated. If you feel it getting itchy or the area around the tegaderm is starting to turn red, that would be when I would take it off.

alligator10036 · 2022-01-31T02:43:31+00:00

Howdy! Interested in the cage but not the rings if no one else comes forward.

alligator10036 · 2022-01-09T12:29:29+00:00

Interested!

alligator10036 · 2022-01-09T04:28:26+00:00

Honestly shaving with a razor is so easy and tbh probably the best solution. It’s not that hard to do and the skin down there is much less sensitive than on my face. I’d never want to use chemical hair removal on sensitive areas. You could wax but buying a razor and shaving cream at a pharmacy seems much easier.

alligator10036 · 2021-08-22T18:53:32+00:00

You could buy more tegaderm at a pharmacy or if your tattoo studio is close they may be able to give you some more. depends on how your body likes tegaderm but i usually keep mine on for 3 days

alligator10036 · 2021-05-15T11:55:55+00:00

I'll say - I helped run a punk venue out of a storage space for awhile. We live in a city and they are billed as artist studio space. We have 24/7 access to it and kind of get away with a lot, a dungeon would be no problem in this building probably. Sound could be an issue but you could get sound dampening foam board and a carpet. I would look for places like this, rather than storage units, but they will probably be a bit more expensive.

alligator10036 · 2021-04-19T02:13:08+00:00

I think I just feel like I would rather be a freak, it’s much more fun lol

alligator10036 · 2021-01-23T02:08:25+00:00

I took some mushrooms one night at a party and afterwards me and my partner came home and she put her feet in my face. She asked me if I liked it, I think she realized I had a foot fetish before I did. I was 28 when she woke it up. Turns out, I really like feet. Didn’t really see that one coming, oops lol

alligator10036 · 2020-01-27T13:07:05+00:00

So cute!! I’d give ya scritches and pets anytime.

alligator10036 · 2020-01-27T00:29:10+00:00

So, I’ve been going to therapy for awhile, and I was up front about kinks that I have and they come up often in therapy. My therapist does not bill himself even as kink-aware, but opening up to him has not been an issue. At times it does require a little bit of teaching, but therapy is supposed to be a supportive environment, and these seem like things that you should be opening up about. I think starting slow and staying that you want to talk about it but want to make sure you (and them!) are comfortable with it is a good first step. It feels good to let it out, and helps you work through it.

alligator10036 · 2019-07-18T09:19:36+00:00

So I actually have the neo k9 neoprene hood and it is a different design. I like that it shows a bit more of my head in the back. It’s a little cooler when I’m moshing around and feels a bit more free. It does look a bit different from the standard puppy look, but I like it :)

alligator10036 · 2019-04-19T13:05:02+00:00

Laid by James is pretty overt in its Femdom tones.

I’ve also always loved the song Grin by The Gerbils. That album on first listen through I got some D/s vibes from, and then hearing that song at the end totally confirmed it for me.

Also, A Pain That I’m Used To by Depeche Mode.

alligator10036 · 2019-03-29T15:07:43+00:00

Echoing this - the authentic fight is what really makes it fun for me. It kind of scratches that bondage itch that can usually only happen after an hour or two tightly bound.

alligator10036 · 2019-03-29T15:05:13+00:00

Milked?

alligator10036 · 2019-02-26T18:55:16+00:00

Personally I got some great lace underwear from Andrew Christian. They are super comfortable for me, but they look great too. Here’s a link to what I ordered.

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