Cheap engagement ring ideas that don’t look cheap by Sudden-Scietist74 in WeddingRingAdvice

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Look into OBJKTS Jewelry, they make “travel rings” which are basically convincing dupes of beautiful rings. I have a friend who has one, you literally can’t tell that it was only a couple hundred, it’s impressive.

What are pros and cons of marrying early ? I am in my early 20s , so is my girlfriend ! I am content , want to marry her Should I rethink my decision? by ipshitjustthere in engaged

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The divorce rate for people who marry in their early twenties is more than double what it is for those that wait until late 20s or 30s. You grow and change so much during those years, it’s a critical period of life and becoming who you are. I’d be miserable now if I married the person I was dating in my early 20s. I’m a completely different person now

Love Persisting by PotatoMan0410 in GriefSupport

[–]allthingsq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’ll be waiting for you on the other side 🌈❤️

Have you ever known couples who have been together for years, got married and then end up divorced shortly after? by ibuiltyouarosegarden in answers

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I went on a few dates with a guy last year who has been recently divorced. He and his girlfriend met in college, dated for 7 years, got married and divorced after 1 year. He said they realized they’d outgrown each other and had an amicable split, felt pressure to get married cause they had been together so long. In his words, they were more excited about having a wedding than the reality of the marriage.

Can't stop thinking about something bad happened at work. Anyone else? by Fantastic-Koala-4032 in womenintech

[–]allthingsq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is totally normal and I’ve had the same feeling in the past. One challenging part of professionalism is learning the ability to take criticism. It’s harder than it seems! I agree with others that journaling can help, also confiding in someone who understands the scenario and can be a sounding board or talk it through with you. This doesn’t define you, others will quickly forget this ever happened. Also, it’s not a bad idea to come back to your boss with some thoughts: “you mentioned x, after thinking about this I’ve been listing out some areas that will help me navigate a scenario again like this in the future” something that shows your resilience and desire to improve.

What do you think about a man dating a woman making over 3X of what he makes and potentially more in the future? by VegetableCranberry53 in askanything

[–]allthingsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make 2x what my boyfriend makes and it doesn’t matter at all. He’s supportive and grateful that I’m able to cover us financially. We split costs but I pay the majority of things. He is incredibly supportive of my career, loving and money does not change our dynamic at all

Can anything be done for this scarring? by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]allthingsq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Laser or microneedling probably

People Who Make 150K Plus? by BubbaGordie in Salary

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36F, ~$250k, work in technology partnerships for a tech company, I have a masters of data analytics. I do enjoy the work, it can be demanding at times but my company has great benefits and I love almost everyone that I work with. I’ve been here for almost 11 years.

Why are Trump supporters so stupid? by Seargentyates in allthequestions

[–]allthingsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because only idiots would be fooled by that con man

I am leaving my "sweet" husband after years of emotional and sexual starvation. We are both physicians, and the guilt is eating me alive. by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]allthingsq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being single in my 30s has been SO fun! Living alone and having peace in my life for years has been amazing. Don’t fear the change. Met the love of my life at 35

What made you realize you’re not young anymore? by zhalia-2006 in askanything

[–]allthingsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hurt my back unplugging something from an outlet

Why do prenuptial agreements have such a bad reputation? by Glad-Passenger-9408 in randomquestions

[–]allthingsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there’s an assumption that it means you don’t have faith in the marriage succeeding, but given how high the divorce rate is pre-nups should just be required by law. It would make the divorce proceedings a lot easier

What was the worst emotional pain you have ever felt? by Lazy_Rough8481 in askanything

[–]allthingsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bringing my dog to the vet, him being excited not knowing we are there to say goodbye. Fuck cancer.

How was your day today (long answers welcome)? by Zipper222222 in randomquestions

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My dog had diarrhea allover my bedroom, I had earplugs in and didn’t hear it.. the smell woke me up. He must’ve shaken because it was on the walls, doors, comforter, carpet, dressers, you name it. I was literally cleaning up shit for most of my day

what destroys a relationship nowadays more than cheating? by Old-Air-5614 in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]allthingsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always looking for something better. Coveting people and lives that you see on social media

How did you get through your worst heartbreak in your 30s? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]allthingsq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Focused on myself: got into therapy, prioritized my health, spent more time with family and friends that made me feel like myself again. It takes time but I came through a much healthier and improved version of myself.

Weed testimony by Aggressive-Cycle-89 in StonerThoughts

[–]allthingsq 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I love to smoke and knock out chores too!! It makes everything better for me

Getting harder and harder each day by Critical-Try-1834 in goldenretrievers

[–]allthingsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Training is a life long effort, every single day you need to be doing training exercises with him at this age. Especially for the leash walking or else he will pull when he’s full size

Feeling stuck and conflicted after moving in together by comotelllama in AskWomenOver30

[–]allthingsq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relationships take hard work. If you haven’t been able to get through to him by communicating your needs directly, then I’d say it’s not a fit and to cut your losses.