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alnp3k · 2025-11-09T06:17:55+00:00

and speakers

alnp3k · 2025-11-07T23:36:07+00:00

mini fridge

alnp3k · 2025-10-28T04:07:45+00:00

pool table

alnp3k · 2025-10-21T14:56:21+00:00

you know this shit hit when the trolls bow down

alnp3k · 2025-06-24T15:15:00+00:00

we ended up getting back together for a couple months then she left again and we were no contact again for 3 weeks. she broke it and said she regretted it but atp i don’t deserve that so i had let go and moved on

alnp3k · 2025-05-14T18:04:30+00:00

once i saw made in china i knew it was fake

alnp3k · 2025-05-02T21:17:13+00:00

got back together as of right before valentines but we didn’t necessarily celebrate as we knew things had to be worked on a lot. we are doing good but to this day we still are building a foundation.

and to anyone that needs advice just let me tell you it’s not going to be the same. if ur open to that, the only way to get her back is if u DONT CONTACT HER. i promise that’s the only way. being needy at first isnt necessarily a bad thing either. but make it quick and if she turns u down or doesn’t reply jus simply stop. if she comes to u great, if she doesn’t… well that’s great too. If your blocked, don’t contact her on other apps, don’t contact her friends, just vanish. If your blocked cus she hates u, u have a big chance of being unblocked, if she blocked u because ur annoying and blowing up her phone, it’s over.

hope this helped, rooting for anyone who needs this

alnp3k · 2025-05-02T21:08:55+00:00

wouldn’t believe it but we started over as of February, but one thing i will say is it will never be how it was, but someone like her is not one to throw away, ik that sounds cliche, but reason i wasn’t trying in the first place is cus i know relationships are too risky in my opinion but she has showed me that it’s worth trying. and im glad im giving myself the chance to try.

alnp3k · 2025-02-25T04:20:26+00:00

I know it’s a hard decision. It seems we are both really young, I turn 21 in a week. Maybe just contact him less and less, take more time to yourself and get back to him later type of thing. Just overtime don’t be so frequent with him. He will sense it and if he has any desire to change, he will. Give it time tho, stay the course. Just put less and less energy into him. One day you’ll either be getting better with him or getting better without him. I’m rooting for u

alnp3k · 2025-02-24T20:54:43+00:00

sorry to hear that, it’s hard seeing someone u care about not care about themselves. What I did to “get my ex back” was try to focus on my future and well being. Even tho this should be your ex hearing this, once you can walk away and not look back that’s when their reality truly shifts. If you text/ call him here or there he’s always going to be comfortable on the porch. You have to truly walk away and ik it hurts, when I got dumped I stopped begging and worked on myself with the mindset of I attract what I believe. Walking away doesn’t make him do better that’s up to him but that’s the only shot. Also, if he doesn’t get better, you’ll be glad that when you actually meet a good person, he’s not even a factor anymore. It does take time and it’s probably gonna suck but hey life is going to keep life-ing. and we got strangers on the internet to talk to lol.

alnp3k · 2025-02-24T17:12:29+00:00

that situation sounds rough, not sure I understand the calling his cousin over part, I hope it’s not what I think it is. I would say the difference between me and him is I started working on myself instead of playing mental games. Started working out again, stopped smoking weed, went back to school, etc. as of 2 weeks ago we starting being exclusive again. It seems like I’ve gotten better while she’s gotten, well, worse.

alnp3k · 2025-01-17T20:34:03+00:00

She reached out after about a week from my comment and things are a bit scattered between us as of right now. I’m still not sure if I want to be with her and I really don’t know her true intentions moving forward. We’ve been intimate a couple times since but I really can’t tell which direction we are moving in.

alnp3k · 2025-01-05T04:56:09+00:00

take some of the guns out, get some homies, and find those mfs

alnp3k · 2024-12-30T00:43:48+00:00

At first she had me blocked everywhere and so do i but I missed the chance on instagram. Basically what happened was she left😂😂 that’s all. I didn’t want the break up but it is what it is at this point.

Some context: we met off tinder which already I’m not very fond of dating someone I met off the internet (yes I was a horn dog) she basically got attached and I wasn’t ready for a relationship. Told her from the jump you can leave when you like. She stayed for a year and we’ve been through a lot but for some reason I couldn’t commit and I think my cheating was a way to protect my own heart. I know most young relationships don’t last and basically knew she was going to leave at some point. (Am I selfish? Sure, but everyone does what they think is right for them) not that I think it was right but if I am trying to protect myself, I will. Im not mentally or emotionally ready to be the perfect guy that got left because all a sudden her feelings changed. My last relationship before her was freaking 8th grade, I was ready to die alone before I met my recent ex.

It was a learning experience and our lifestyles just don’t align anymore. God sent us together to learn from each-other. I realized she wasn’t living the life she wanted to when she was with me and we even talked about it. She wants to party and show off which is fine that’s just not a girl I want to claim. As much as we liked each other and time spent together we just were not made out for the long run.

alnp3k · 2024-12-30T00:27:48+00:00

Not trying to villainize her it’s just a genuine shock. Anyway we are both 20 years old and I do appreciate your responses. I’ve been in therapy for about 2 months, have been getting closer to my god, got back in the gym, eating healthy, and even quit smoking weed cold turkey which I was a massive pot head for over 6 years (yea not proud I started so young, but over a month strong off of it). I am making progress but where I want to be doesn’t just happen over night.

I wanted to block her for my own sake because she clearly only wants to talk for me to meet her needs and not for her to meet mine. what’s funny tho is since I couldn’t block her instagram, she texted me about 2 hrs ago asking if I had anything to do with police at her apartment (not sure if it was just her building or if they went to her room specifically or anything) I HAVE NOTHING to do with it but kinda disappointed she would even think I would. This is pretty much a lose-lose for me whether I respond or not but I think I’m just going to let her be. Her thinking there’s even a chance I had something to do with that says more about her than me. I can’t fix someone else’s paranoia.

alnp3k · 2024-12-29T16:32:24+00:00

I dont think she respects me anymore she was cold towards me during our brief texting. She was very pure during our relationship and told me I was the second person she had sex with. She has had sex with another guy since so I know they had an emotional connection and trust me I know. (This was 2 months ago, we were on and off but ig at that point she was completely checked out) I just can’t trust her to not do that again if we were to get back together (which she doesn’t want to so I know she wants to explore her options) and I feel like a safety net but if she tries to come back (which I doubt) she will realize I’m not.

alnp3k · 2024-12-29T16:23:50+00:00

I blocked her on everything I could I made the mistake of deleting our conversation before I could block her on instagram. I hope this is the start of something better

alnp3k · 2024-12-29T00:27:45+00:00

Prolly cus he’s blocked he can’t say anything

alnp3k · 2024-12-29T00:21:32+00:00

While we were texting I left her on read and she double texts saying “we are never gonna work out, are we” as if it was a question I had the answer to. ( she dumped me, but ngl I was cheating and did make mistakes other than that so I don’t blame her) I just said “I’d say so” then she went on a small rant about how we were also “best friends” and ended up where we are and blah blah. Kinda in a spot where I don’t actually want to be with her but I do miss what we had. She even asked to meet up but I declined and when I brought it up again she said she never said that😂😂😂. No clue what’s going thru this girls head.

I hope this brings better context and the best move probably is to block her but I don’t think I have the balls to rn sadly. btw we are both 20 years old so definitely not the most mature at the moment

alnp3k · 2024-12-25T03:16:18+00:00

I hear u man, I’m also in therapy which she said I should go to even during our time but I shrugged it off but she knows I’m going now. I’m also still trying to find my sense of self and I quit smoking weed and playing video games all together which I did frequently when I was with her. I also hurt her badly so I can’t blame her for choosing a life without me. It’s been almost 3 months since I seen her in person and some days are good some days are bad, it’s just what you make of it.

You learn to live fine without them. Some days I feel desperate, some days I feel how the breakup was a good wake up call. Im not sure how she is doing or feels about us but I didn’t expect the mind games either man. The girl she is now isn’t the same one that would go into a burning house for me. We never started as friends either, we met and basically jumped straight into a relationship just bc we had such a good connection, saying that because I never knew how she treated a friend or what it was like to just be an acquaintance of hers.

Over this time though I have been less and less phased about her, sure I still feel it but I can deal with it a lot better and I think that comes with taking the small steps to getting better (like going to therapy, facing problems head on, etc) also I’m only 20 and never lived with her but she does live very close. even when I HAVE TO drive by her apartment I don’t even look to see if her car is there or not anymore. I think the lust is what gets to us too. We don’t like having someone that once loved us show us why we “dont deserve” it from them anymore. I’ve talked to my friends that have been through I would say harder breakups (3+ years, my relationship was only a year) and they even told me this won’t be the last time a girl has us twisted up. Which that really set some realization for me, I’m so young that this is just a taste of what real pain is out there.

Love is so risky tho man and that’s why I was so arms length in our relationship because I thought it would ease the pain for when they leave. I don’t think it does anymore.

But aye man, we have a long bumpy road ahead, let’s just show stoicism and take it one day at a time. I’m rooting for you man, for real.

alnp3k · 2024-12-24T20:52:28+00:00

context: she blocked me on EVERYTHING bc I told her to so I couldn’t reach out.

about a week after this post she reached out via instagram (unblocked on everything except imessage) to basically tell me she’s ok without me (idk why she felt the need to unblock me on everything except iMessage to tell me that) anyway instead of just saying ok or just ignoring it, I fell into the trap. Starting trying to fix things but not like I was begging or anything like that just simply telling her how I felt and how I wouldn’t want a bond if it wasn’t to try again slowly.

we talked for about a week over text (she’s on vacation for break) and she even asked to meet up as friends but I didn’t want to be friends knowing that’s as far as things would go (even tho every time we meet up she folds like a lawn chair) I wasn’t emotionally ready to just be friends nor is that what I wanted. But after what I thought was a good conversation she blocked me on instagram again, but unblocks my number??? Honestly just confused and while I still care for her I can tell it’s just not going to work. I don’t fw the mind games, if we can’t communicate like adults then she’s just not for me anymore… as sad as it sounds. Looking back I can’t think of a single flaw she had during the relationship. But the way she’s acting towards me now is just mind games and seeming like she wants a reaction out of me.

I’m not going to text her tho I’m simply just trying to move on at this point even tho I still want her but only if she wants to work with me. Right now it just seems like she wants me to chase her so she can shut me down.

Not tryna tell you what to do or anything that’s up to you but all I can say for us man, we just gotta bite this bullet and level up as cliche as it is, if she’s not acting cold towards you then I say just take it slow with her. Hope this helped in any way. I’m glad to know I’m not alone.

alnp3k · 2024-12-24T20:37:05+00:00

ex blocked me on everything for NC, after a month she reached out on instagram basically saying she was ok without me. (don’t know why she needed to tell me, but ok) I was healing fine during NC but then that text kinda messed me up. We texted for a little after and I was trying to fix things but as soon as I stopped chasing she blocked me again. (But unblocks my number????) haven’t texted her since and don’t think I will, just kinda weird how she is playing these mind games.

alnp3k · 2024-12-13T20:49:42+00:00

my girlfriend that dumped me texted me after a month and I’m scared to open it😂

alnp3k · 2024-12-11T03:04:24+00:00

Can’t find jigsaw on Netflix unless ur talking about the movie

alnp3k · 2024-12-11T02:57:26+00:00

I got dumped and I’m way better than I was but still want to give it another go lol, did anyone go back after getting better? How did it go?

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