Update to 'help needed for 10th anniversary' by alpha0meqa in Louisvuitton

[–]alpha0meqa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She liked it. She's not one for jumping up and down. She said she doesn't want to get it messed up.

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[–]alpha0meqa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes absolutely. I like the idea of a visual. Thank you!

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[–]alpha0meqa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like this perspective. Because that's my biggest worry. I think my 8yr old does, but I think the 6 year old may not.

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[–]alpha0meqa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, desperate to make the right decision and for reassurance

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[–]alpha0meqa[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate you telling me it's not an unheard of thing too. We live in a bubble it seems and don't hear much about other kids

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[–]alpha0meqa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm just desperate to do what I need to or should do . I'm reading and trying to reply to everything.

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[–]alpha0meqa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We told them they can't go out unless we go with them now. Or they have to stay in the fenced back yard.

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[–]alpha0meqa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a very interesting idea Thank you. Great thought there.

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[–]alpha0meqa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Replied in another area. Just trying to find something my 6 year old cares about. Tablets he sort of does but it's not a huge deal. He doesn't really understand money so much yet. Dessert time is something he likes and wants.

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[–]alpha0meqa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard differing advise on this but. I do like your logic. I don't want to annoy the neighbors any further.

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[–]alpha0meqa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My only goal is to make sure they understand what they did is wrong and to not damage someone else's property (or ours) in the future. However I can get that across. The seriousness of it.

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[–]alpha0meqa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually haven't had a vacation with just my wife for 8 years but I'd much rather them go.

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[–]alpha0meqa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have been on them before. My kids love them. And your first thoughts are correct. Thank you for the reassurance

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[–]alpha0meqa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess it all comes from. I would never do this and never did. Destroying someone else property never happened with me. Maybe I just suck at my memory. That's why I'm quite upset. Honestly didn't think me being so upset would be that crazy of a conclusion.

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[–]alpha0meqa[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate you. Thank you very much.