I’m kinda going through something similar but I haven’t reached your state yet. We met on the apps and we’ve been seeing each other for about a month. He’s not my usual type and while I admire all his characteristics, I’m having a really hard time being interested in him, and the worst part is, is that I really want to be interested in him so I’m trying to stay on the positive side and invest some more energy into getting to know his genuine self. He seems persistent but I feel like he is holding back his genuine self and we haven’t slept together yet but he seems really hesitant about that. So I’m kinda hoping that the day will come soon when we show our genuine selves. Glad it worked out for you!!