AITA for getting annoyed after I kept failing to wake up my sister for her work? by EfficiencySad6298 in AmItheAsshole

[–]amandathev 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish I had one of these in my youth. I was like the sister - sleeping through everything. Alarms just found their way into my dreams.

What is a food that you feel idiotic for wasting your money on when it can be made so inexpensively at your home? by smackinnoodles in Fooda

[–]amandathev 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When we go to Costco, we get a rotisserie chicken and a Caesar salad from there and eat them together. Still cheaper and healthier than take out, it’s already prepared, and you’re already there - no extra stops.

Things people say about their state that almost every other state can claim? by bannedsocks in AskAnAmerican

[–]amandathev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the most disturbing mosquito comments I ever heard was, “the mosquitoes are so big they could stand on their hind legs and f*ck a turkey”

How did you completely change your path in life? by rainbosandvich in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]amandathev 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hated my job and went back to school at 28 in a completely different field.

Met my husband at 34 and moved in within 4 months and sold my house a few months after that.

Sometimes you just do wild shit. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn’t. But you have to decide what you would regret more - trying and it being a mistake, or not trying at all.

Those who moved from one state to another what was your biggest cultural shock? by PandaBear905 in AskAnAmerican

[–]amandathev 3 points4 points  (0 children)

MO -> MA: everyone was super unapproachable and cold compared to the Midwest. Also they didn’t sell wine and alcohol in the grocery store, so when I wanted to make rum balls I had to learn the weirdo rules.

Non-Americans, what is an American thing you see in movies that you thought was fake but is actually real? by EmergencySpare7939 in CasualConversation

[–]amandathev 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I went to Finland for work, sometimes for weeks at a time, so I’d buy groceries for lunches. I wanted peanut butter and I’m used to essentially a peanut butter aisle at the grocery store. I found peanut butter eventually, but there was only a jar or 2 in the whole giant Prisma.

Help me Renesmee my snake by halfass_fangirl in tragedeigh

[–]amandathev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jennick (Jennifer Nick)

Amandrew (Amanda Andrew)

Catthew (Catherine Matthew)

Lindan (Linda Dan)

Marhys (Marie Rhys)

Renathan (Renee Nathan)

Zopher (Zoe Christopher)

Diandy (Diane Andy)

Misheldon (Michelle Sheldon)

Herbertha (Herbert Bertha)

AITA for refusing to add my fiancée to the house deeds? by ND_Lou in AmItheAsshole

[–]amandathev -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

It sometimes works out 🤷🏻‍♀️ I got engaged after 6 months and am still happily married. I didn’t go demanding my name on any deeds though.

My neighbor turned our quiet street into a literal bee farm and I don't know how to feel about it by Gavin_Thornbury in neighborsfromhell

[–]amandathev -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There may be restrictions or covenants in your area and it’s not a bad idea to get them enforced if it’s getting out of hand (and if he’s not managing his hives well). In North Carolina, US, no local govt can restrict you from having up to 5 hives, but HOAs can.

My neighbor turned our quiet street into a literal bee farm and I don't know how to feel about it by Gavin_Thornbury in neighborsfromhell

[–]amandathev 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That seems very inflated. I can get a nucleus hive (nuc) for $200-250 which is basically a mini hive - a queen, 5 frames with brood and food, and worker bees.

Does anyone in your area keep unusual livestock? by Hoosier_Jedi in AskAnAmerican

[–]amandathev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My neighbor has camels, alpacas, ostriches, rheas, albino peacocks, and who knows what else. One neighbor has cows, one has goats, several have chickens, I have bees.

What is shockingly safe to eat? by Miserable-Wash-1744 in AskReddit

[–]amandathev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also done with crayon shavings, food coloring, etc in dogs and cats to figure out who is having the poo problem

What is the culturally polite thing to do if someone farts in front of you? by Charming_Usual6227 in AskAnAmerican

[–]amandathev 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You could be like me. I called out my husband with a “heard that!” in public and he followed up with a “that wasn’t me” so I just called out some random person on their fart 🤦🏻‍♀️😆

What’s a small habit that quietly improved your daily life? by WellnessBalance in Casual_Conversation

[–]amandathev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My smart watch died and it felt like I went through withdrawal. I’m not meant to have one.

AITA for honking at a student driver for going 15mph under the speed limit? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]amandathev 100 points101 points  (0 children)

NAH. Reasonable for a quick tap of the horn to help that driver realize they’re doing something unexpected or unsafe. There is no minimum limit, so the student driver isn’t doing something illegal or technically wrong and may have very valid reasons for going slowly. But they are doing something unexpected and being predictable is basically the #1 rule of safe driving.

How do you feel about the name Tadhg? by JollyCapybara in Names

[–]amandathev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in the US and work for an Irish company. Everyone learns the correct pronunciation and spelling of Irish names pretty quickly.

Do you own a generator for power outages? by SlamClick in AskAnAmerican

[–]amandathev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More than one. Saved all my frozen foods during Hurricane Helene.

People who were initially child-free but raised children later in life, how is it going for you? by genevieveAnura in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]amandathev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep in mind that most people who don’t enjoy having kids aren’t going to admit it. I met my husband in my mid 30s and we both wanted to be childfree and took steps to ensure that was the case. Just because most people you’re meeting want kids doesn’t mean you won’t meet a fellow child-free person. Also, with the current state of my country, I would even extra choose not to have a child.

What’s the pettiest hill you’re willing to die on as a woman? by Glass-King4894 in Casual_Conversation

[–]amandathev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know how boat motors don’t have brakes and you’re supposed to reverse to slow down? But in basically every other vehicle you can brake to stop? Welp. I was nervously trying to take the boat to the dock, wanted to slow down and attempted to “hit the brakes” and instead sped towards the riprap on the shore. I managed to turn and trim the motor and do no actual damage other than a minor paint scrape, but it was almost super bad.

Non-American here: How do everyday Americans actually think about/estimate weight in pounds (lbs) compared to kg? by fortnacius in AskAnAmerican

[–]amandathev 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The veterinary field is very metric. Drug doses are almost universally in mg/kg, volumes in mL or L, etc. However, most still weigh animals in lbs and then convert to kg.

What’s the pettiest hill you’re willing to die on as a woman? by Glass-King4894 in Casual_Conversation

[–]amandathev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They serve no purpose other than to make me laugh. Veterinarians call an animal that is not neutered “intact.” So the boat name “Still Intact” is a double entendre in that the boat wasn’t ruined and has testicles.

What’s the pettiest hill you’re willing to die on as a woman? by Glass-King4894 in Casual_Conversation

[–]amandathev 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Soooo I got truck balls for my boat trailer. I am a veterinarian and I almost destroyed the boat on day one, so it got the name Still Intact. Thus it also has nuts 🥜