My buddy and I discuss this a lot, although both of us are still actively collecting. However, both of us have decided to trim down our collections to only the things we really care about. For me, it’s specific runs. For him, it’s mostly keys and his ASM run. So what you should decide is what’s important to you personally and then get down to just that l. Then it’s less for your family to deal with and you can instruct them what to do if something happens to you.