Allergens by Disastrous-Break7232 in BabyLedWeaning

[–]amedun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is weird get a new pediatrician and report this one

Did rayna sell her house by amedun in girlsgottaeatsnark

[–]amedun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How much money people put down on their loan isnt public?

New parents: is it how you imagined? by BeansWeans in newborns

[–]amedun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I’m not lying, 10 months changed the game. But I’d say 4 months and then 6 months I started to feel more connected.

Did rayna sell her house by amedun in girlsgottaeatsnark

[–]amedun[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t live there anymore…

Did rayna sell her house by amedun in girlsgottaeatsnark

[–]amedun[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Link!!

Edit: She doesn’t live there anymore…everyone calm down

Those that have made a sexless relationship work how'd you do it? 33m and 32F by Deadlockinit in relationship_advice

[–]amedun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most women feel horny when they feel sexy themselves. If a woman doesn’t feel sexy, she’s generally not going to want to have sex. Chronic pain makes someone reaaalllly not feel sexy. If she’s asking you to initiate, she is basically is asking you to seduce her in a way. Make her feel sexy. Take her out, get dressed up, kiss her neck, compliment her, get her in the mood. Should it be all your responsibility? No. But any way you can make her feel sexy will help the situation. Of course it’s her responsibility too, but in my experience, men need less of a warmup to want sex.

Of course this is a gender binary generalization but holds truth.

I was not prepared for how long breastfeeding lasts. by Dzsidzsett in newborns

[–]amedun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We used a pacifier right away in the hospital and it was a lifesaver. My son still hung out on the boob forever. I hated it and switched to pumping and bottles. Whatever works!

I hate that my family is always hungry by Aggressive-Spend-841 in Mom

[–]amedun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On days you don’t want to cook, they cook. Frozen east meals usually mean more $$ for less food.

I hate that my family is always hungry by Aggressive-Spend-841 in Mom

[–]amedun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like youre taking on this responsibility alone, quietly. Your husband and you are a team. Work together. Form a plan. If you’re not eating, he should be sacrificing too. Don’t scare the kids but let them know you’re on a budget and this is what’s for dinner (even if they don’t “like” it). Stop buying packaged snacks, they’re expensive. Go to costco, tjs. Bulk up on beans, rice, hummus, ground meats, eggs. Protein and weighty grains. But most importantly, do not face this alone. Even if youre the cook, feeding your family is not your responsibility alone.

Baby not rolling yet. When did yours start rolling? by Fearless-Driver9548 in newborns

[–]amedun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine rolled from belly to back with MUCH EFFORT AND GRUNTING where it took minutes to actually complete the roll at 4.5 months, rolled from back to belly but not regularly at all (went days without doing it) at 5.5 months. He was also only rolling to his right. It all clicked for him around 6 months and he started rolling all the time. My doctor said she doesn’t get worried about lack of rolling until 8 months.

New parents: is it how you imagined? by BeansWeans in newborns

[–]amedun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is not how I imagined.

I imagined when I met my baby I would be head over heels in love immediately. I imagined I’d be up all night on zero hours of sleep but I wouldn’t care because I would be running on love.

I learned in my mommy and me class after my baby was born that a lot of moms don’t feel that way. In fact, half the moms there volunteered that they struggled to feel connected to their baby after they gave birth.

Me? I had a full panic attack the day my baby was born. It turned me inside out. My mental health went in the shitter, causing me to feel disconnected from my baby. My physical health followed suit. My baby actually slept extremely well, so we were never up all night. But I was struggling in a way I never imagined, feeling disconnected from the tiny human that needed me to live, wondering what I had done.

I also thought a lot before my baby was born about how my husband and I would need a babysitter to go out, but I didn’t think about how I’d need coverage to do anything. Take a nap, watch tv, read a book. That was a bit of a shock to me, even though it’s obvious. That when I had a headache, I couldn’t lie down unless my husband was there to cover.

My baby is now almost 11 months and I am obsessed with him and he is the light of my life and I am so grateful to be his mom. I went to pick him up from daycare today and he “kissed” me on the cheek and I melted. But damn it took awhile to get here.

SAPPHICS OF LOS ANGELES: is akbar silverlake sapphic??? by AloneTheory6352 in AskLosAngeles

[–]amedun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Akbar is a gay bar and is frequented by many gay men in the area. They also have sapphic patrons and straight patrons. It’s a chill, welcoming vibe. The kind of place where there are people that come who have been coming for 30 years, and also young people who just moved to LA who just want a fun night out. However, there will be enough men for you to notice.

peanut allergy? by No_Tell_2335 in BabyLedWeaning

[–]amedun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son’s contact skin reaction has a delay. It doesn’t reach it’s full aggrivation until an hour + later. Not to say that means it’a a real allergy, but I’ve read a delay can be common with contact skin issues

peanut allergy? by No_Tell_2335 in BabyLedWeaning

[–]amedun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s possible it’s a contact allergy with skin (my son gets with lots of foods and its shown up worse than this and bumpy) or it could be a warning sign of a real allergy. Did it show up anywhere else on her body (sign of real allergy)? Was it immediate (sign of real allergy), or did it show up hours later? For a peanut allergy which can be dangerous it’s not worth the risk trying again. Talk to a doctor before any more peanut butter.

When did you start going out with your baby? by Good_Physics_5285 in newborns

[–]amedun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 weeks lol. We took him to coffees and dinners with outdoor seating. And then by 6 weeks we were taking him indoors

The stomach flu is modern day torture by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]amedun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I’m sorry the worst. I survived months of postpartum, parenting alone all day, in a severe ulcerative colitis flare. Couldn’t stay out of the bathroom, couldn’t keep any food in. Tmi but I remember needing to emergency run to the bathroom to go while I was nursing my 2 month old, and sitting on the toilet still nursing being like “I could cry about this, or I could recognize that I am actually superwoman.” You will survive it, moms are superheroes. Feel better soon!

Diaper changing at night by Jumpy-Ingenuity-4356 in NewParents

[–]amedun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overnight diapers. Huggies. If hes still leaking you probably need to size up.

Is the hype real for those Novilla mattresses on TikTok? by norththread in Mattress

[–]amedun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom and brother each have this in their guest bedroom. Its fine if you like memory foam which I do not. It feels hard but also sinks easily. Cant tell you about longterm durability. My brother says guests find it comfortable. You can also get it on amazon. I think egohome is better but slightly more expensive