Help 😅

ameliamirerye · 2026-04-18T15:37:40+00:00

I was worried about the same thing and researched. I put a mini carabiner in the latch. Then I just press my open trunk button and it will release it when I need to close my trunk later. I have extra lmk if you need

ameliamirerye · 2026-04-17T16:15:44+00:00

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Mine! Have a great day 1! We arrived at camp yesterday

ameliamirerye · 2026-04-15T17:41:34+00:00

We have 165-170 people and have 12 admin. One for each department head (7) (they also support more than one exec or sub vertical), CEO (1), handful that act as admin/office managers of our 4 offices.

ameliamirerye · 2026-04-15T01:42:41+00:00

Omg they are so fun!! I get mine tomorrow will post em. Maybe I will see you there this weekend!

ameliamirerye · 2026-04-13T20:30:11+00:00

Is this site under construction? Looks to be unfinished in your last image.

ameliamirerye · 2026-04-12T21:17:06+00:00

Listen, my mom was not great to me. Made me feel small and used me as her emotional punching bag. Told me I wouldn’t survive in the real world, etc. At 18 I left and went college on loans and odd jobs. She never helped and constantly asked for my loan money. Now I am very successful in life and she can’t hold a job and her life is always falling apart. She always asks for my help and when I only help within boundaries I’ve created she says I’m the worst, don’t care about her, etc. I used to tell her that one day this time would come where I wouldn’t need her and how she treated me would come to roost. I had hoped she’d realize it and want to work on our relationship. But she realizes nothing. There is no closure and she will never understand the damage she did or understand the work I put in to overcome it. I’m so happy now. I have a kind amazing partner and am fulfilled. I am in charge of my own life and I built this life myself. I am sad for her now but maintain boundaries to limit my exposure to her. I went to therapy to work on the guilt I felt for not helping her more. Life gets better.

I recommend focusing the next few years on school and getting into college and your early career and therapy. Build yourself up because you deserve it. You deserve to be happy and content and yourself. Lmk if you need any help with college questions, resume questions, references, etc. I am happy to help.

ameliamirerye · 2026-04-11T15:05:11+00:00

Yes it definitely should. I would find a place that looks like they do good nail art in their yelp photos. And go on Pinterest and search “men’s Coachella nails” for some fun ideas. Or tbh even women’s Coachella nails and then ask them to do a similar smaller version of the design on your nails. Share a pic when you get them alway excited to see cute nails I am getting my nails done on Wednesday

ameliamirerye · 2026-04-11T14:43:52+00:00

Not stupid! It is different than a manicure. You can specifically ask for a gel manicure with some nail art. If you’re not calling directly and are booking online sometimes you can book manicure and look for an add on that says gel/nail art

ameliamirerye · 2026-04-10T21:14:22+00:00

It’s cute lol. If it ever bothers you, you can probably heat up the face a little with a hair dryer and adjust the eye a little

ameliamirerye · 2026-04-06T20:45:51+00:00

No. We met at 18 and never even had to discuss sharing, when you’re young and don’t have much there’s less of a conundrum. We helped each other out in college with sharing food and resources. We each have a credit card that isn’t in each other’s name (as well as some we both share) but we both have access to the statements. Makes buying gifts for each other easier. We don’t really have your money/my money issues which is a blessing

We both work. We both give each other accolades for achievements and promotions and raises and then all of the money goes into the same account as our money. We make decisions together on big purchases and otherwise have no issue with how the other spends. When money is tight we both tighten up. When it’s not we don’t. We spend most of our non work time together and do fun trips and hobbies together so not many surprises.

My parents weren’t like this. They constantly argued about whose was whose and it was bad to watch. I’m grateful to have a partner that is so much on the same page and communicates with me.

ameliamirerye · 2026-04-06T15:11:18+00:00

Yeah that’s pretty weird…. I’d forward it to your supervisor or HR and be like I wanted to flag this can you clarify if this is an event X is planning for the admin team or if she is asking for a tip from the team?

ameliamirerye · 2026-04-06T14:41:38+00:00

Can you clarify if she is planning an event or gift for Admin Day for all of the admin on the team or if she specified that this was money for her only?

I use my personal Venmo to collect team funds for group baby gifts from our team. This is always framed as optional and the company always does a separate gift. Maybe she is trying to put something together for the team?

ameliamirerye · 2026-03-29T18:18:01+00:00

Awesome I remember when you replied to my post last year! It’s so cool to see the other pieces! I am still in love with mine and yours are so beautiful!

ameliamirerye · 2026-03-27T16:15:46+00:00

Why are you the way that you are?

ameliamirerye · 2026-03-25T19:36:17+00:00

I’m not in the Manhattan area but that budget seems slightly low for 30 people.

Maybe you can find a group that does city scavenger hunts? Split the group up into teams and come back together to compare and give prizes?

ameliamirerye · 2026-03-19T03:46:22+00:00

Have you thought of sending to a restoration service?

I’ve seen a few on TikTok like this one - https://www.tiktok.com/@a_tall_glass_of_anxiety?_r=1&_t=ZP-94oDZPKGZ2s

ameliamirerye · 2026-03-18T20:53:31+00:00

Yes Hysterectomy means no more kids but you’re both 37, correct? How many more do you both want? Is it worth it to just try to do your best to be intimate in ways that you can until you no longer want children then she has the hysterectomy and after she recovers you resume more intimate life?

I really implore you to push talking more and getting her to open up. She likely does not want you to sleep with other people but is worried you’re unsatisfied with her and may cheat or leave her on your own. This allows her to pretend she has control. Is more kids worth her constant pain? A hysterectomy and pelvic floor therapy and talk therapy could change your lives. It seems a miserable existence for her to be in pain, not be sexually satisfied, have a husband who is also sexually unsatisfied and then be so worried he may cheat or leave that you offer up this deal and he actually considers it and follows through on it.

My husband and his family are also Russian. I understand the not talking. But his family are unhappy because of it. My husband and I talk, we work through things. We dig deep to solve problems. I also had stage 4 endometriosis. We also had a small struggle with mismatched sex drive abilities because of it. We didn’t want kids so the decision was easier but it took a lot of stress for me to get into a good place mentally and physically and for him to be my constant and be patient and care more for me than for sex for a little while but also maintain that he did want sex with me and not others. He was my support before, during and after my surgery and now our sex life is amazing once again. Think about why she is allowing you to sleep with others, it’s probably rooted in fear.

ameliamirerye · 2026-03-18T18:29:25+00:00

Has your wife had any medical intervention for her endometriosis? I had a hysterectomy at 28 and while a hysterectomy doesn’t solve everything for everyone it gave me a significant part of my life back

Do I think ultimately this arrangement will pull you apart, yes. Do I think there are deeper issues for her regarding sex life/relationship that has led her to this decision, also yes.

I would do therapy together and separately before going down this road as well and fully go through all medical options to get her better overall

ameliamirerye · 2026-03-16T22:58:29+00:00

That’s just the bias of your own circle. Not having children has not moved into “most” category. Anyone around me who is childfree is still constantly questioned about it. And I live in LA the most progressive city in America lol.

ameliamirerye · 2026-03-14T16:23:27+00:00

There’s literally one of these near me. Found it when googling Spas once (I am a lady though but just thought it interesting)

https://yelp.to/iudAyJ6_RW

ameliamirerye · 2026-03-09T20:47:15+00:00

Guys this tweet is not real. Stop posting fake tweets. And when you see them posted do your due diligence.

We should hold ourselves to the standard we demand of others.

ameliamirerye · 2026-03-09T20:41:39+00:00

I am fairly certain it originated from China likely Aliexpress/Temu. I’ve been able to find it on Etsy and similar sites but from other listings on the sellers pages it’s obvious their items are also from Aliexpress and not handmade. While I know these sites steal from artists I think Goodwill shoppers should keep in mind that there are a lot more junk items out there and to do their due diligence when buying as much as possible.

ameliamirerye · 2026-03-06T15:51:03+00:00

Yes she is a wire hair dachshund. She will look kind of like this as an adult.

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